I'm new here, so forgive me if this question has been asked before.
I went into the chatrooms today and realised a lot of guys were masturbating on cam.
Does this actually attract any of the ladies of couples? Does it attract the bi guys?
Just curious.
Thanks
Richard
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Casanova
Hey Richard, welcome to SH and the forums!
Yes, cock cams are a staple of the chatrooms! I'll risk a sweeping generalisation here and say that the majority of men wanking on camera are NOT looking to meet - they are looking to cam, watch and be watched.
Can you attract the attention by putting your cock on camera, yes - IF you have a big and/or photogenic cock, you will get compliments and some attention for sure. Yes, a lot of that attention will be from blokes - there are more of them on the chatrooms than women and couples, and they are also more forward than women and couples. I'd say most women are really not that interested in closeups of men wanking, though of course there are exceptions. IMO the best camera view to attract women and couples is face or torso (clothed is fine), at least until they ask for more! Also good for attracting attention are props, which can be a conversation starter.
See you in the chatrooms
Yes, cock cams are a staple of the chatrooms! I'll risk a sweeping generalisation here and say that the majority of men wanking on camera are NOT looking to meet - they are looking to cam, watch and be watched.
Can you attract the attention by putting your cock on camera, yes - IF you have a big and/or photogenic cock, you will get compliments and some attention for sure. Yes, a lot of that attention will be from blokes - there are more of them on the chatrooms than women and couples, and they are also more forward than women and couples. I'd say most women are really not that interested in closeups of men wanking, though of course there are exceptions. IMO the best camera view to attract women and couples is face or torso (clothed is fine), at least until they ask for more! Also good for attracting attention are props, which can be a conversation starter.
See you in the chatrooms
Orgasminator
I echo pebble on that one. Each to their own. I tend to view face cams. {have been known to take a peek at body cams purely for research only :huh:}
And if you view my cam, the only pussy ya get to see is my 4 legged ones
dee
And if you view my cam, the only pussy ya get to see is my 4 legged ones
dee
ditto from me on what Pebble and Dee have said
occasionally ill take a look at cock cam if its a monster, purely for research of course ;)
I much prefer to see a face, the expressions people pull when you are typing to them in chat can be a good pointer of whether they are a laugh or not, for me , personality is everything, its the personality that pulls not the willy
occasionally ill take a look at cock cam if its a monster, purely for research of course ;)
I much prefer to see a face, the expressions people pull when you are typing to them in chat can be a good pointer of whether they are a laugh or not, for me , personality is everything, its the personality that pulls not the willy
I'll risk chipping in here. Exhibitionism is the thrill, I don't care if your male, female or a couple, adore my cock, notice me.
I love doing it, but interaction is the bit that works. And yup, they are mostly men for whatever reason, “who are viewing” like I care.
PS the ladies are lying, Oops they already told you that.
I love doing it, but interaction is the bit that works. And yup, they are mostly men for whatever reason, “who are viewing” like I care.
PS the ladies are lying, Oops they already told you that.
Casanova
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PS the ladies are lying, Oops they already told you that.
Lying? I don't see where the inconsistency is in saying that most cock cams are rubbish but occasionally there's one worth viewing.
I am a confirmed voyeur, and I'll click through any and all cameras when in the mood. But seeing the CLOSEUP of a wanking cock of a man I know NOTHING about is akin to watching someone going to the toilet (hint: I have no such fetish). I am not penis-obsessed (in my experience even straight guys tend to think about cocks more than straight women do), so there is absolutely nothing there to hold my attention. The more that is included in the frame, or the more I know and like a person, the more likely I am to view.
From the flip side - my pet peeve is all the guys that ask me to watch them come, like, now! But then when I switch their cam on they are actually expecting me to tease it out of them - what's that all about?
Quote by pebble
PS the ladies are lying, Oops they already told you that.
Lying? I don't see where the inconsistency is in saying that most cock cams are rubbish but occasionally there's one worth viewing.
I am a confirmed voyeur, and I'll click through any and all cameras when in the mood. But seeing the CLOSEUP of a wanking cock of a man I know NOTHING about is akin to watching someone going to the toilet (hint: I have no such fetish). I am not penis-obsessed (in my experience even straight guys tend to think about cocks more than straight women do), so there is absolutely nothing there to hold my attention. The more that is included in the frame, or the more I know and like a person, the more likely I am to view.
From the flip side - my pet peeve is all the guys that ask me to watch them come, like, now! But then when I switch their cam on they are actually expecting me to tease it out of them - what's that all about?
Oi Pebble
Wanna watch me cum? :rascal:
Orgasminator
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Wanking on cam? .. God that's so uncouth ;)
Does count?
Orgasminator
Quote by Katniss
PS the ladies are lying, Oops they already told you that.
Lying? I don't see where the inconsistency is in saying that most cock cams are rubbish but occasionally there's one worth viewing.
I am a confirmed voyeur, and I'll click through any and all cameras when in the mood. But seeing the CLOSEUP of a wanking cock of a man I know NOTHING about is akin to watching someone going to the toilet (hint: I have no such fetish). I am not penis-obsessed (in my experience even straight guys tend to think about cocks more than straight women do), so there is absolutely nothing there to hold my attention. The more that is included in the frame, or the more I know and like a person, the more likely I am to view.
From the flip side - my pet peeve is all the guys that ask me to watch them come, like, now! But then when I switch their cam on they are actually expecting me to tease it out of them - what's that all about?
Oi Pebble
Wanna watch me cum? :rascal:
Im more of an exhibitionist.......unless im viewing kat
Quote by pebble
PS the ladies are lying, Oops they already told you that.
From the flip side - my pet peeve is all the guys that ask me to watch them come, like, now! But then when I switch their cam on they are actually expecting me to tease it out of them - what's that all about?
I love this paragraph:
(what's that all about?) being wrong, bad and shocking, like starting a fight just because it feels good. Mind, being off your ass drunk figures highly for some strange reason.
(But then when I switch their cam on they are actually expecting me to tease it out of them -)
1st Bad planing and communication. If I do a tribute video it's about 30 minutes trimmed down to 2 minutes and only 20 seconds are the gold shot.
2nd engaging and communicating with the subject. If you were in exhibitionist mode would you prefer silence or vocal appreciation and encouragement.
(my pet peeve is all the guys that ask me to watch them come, like, now!)
3rd A hard on dies (dramatically) a when faced with technology.
The ladies lie, (I don't get enough foreplay). Shoot a video, it will take about four hours! Then format the memory on the quiet.
4th Why am I giving myself pain??
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