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whats going on in the midsroom

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Too much back biting and shit stirring I suspect wink
Its still usually a good laff in the evening so dont be put off.... biggrin
There seems to be a lot of new folks coming in at the moment part due to some regs not being round as much and part due to it maybe being just a natural cycle.
I myself have times where i want to try a different room or one of the main rooms for a while like i have latley but thats because im more a watcher of convos than a big chatter i start ok then just fade into the background lol
Being a stalwart member of the bris/wilts/glos/oxon room i can see where your coming from Steve. Over the last year 'our' local room seems to have gone from nothing to popular then to nothing then popular again. People move on but a few like myself hang on in there. It's amazing if you hang around long enough how the people change .
I enjoy the turn around in people though as most times it keeps things fresh and soon some become regs and it all feels comfortable again. Mind you there are many whose dissapearance from the chatroom i regret as their company was valued. but hey.
The back biting and stuff is always going to go on inevitably - the thing is to be philosophical about it all. In the end its cyber space we all get off on and in it. Hopefully we make some freinds n acquaintences along the way and we can add these to our real life experiences.
Personally i like to make love not war (god how cliched) friends not enemies. Inevitably as i am quite verbal (though in written form) I stand to be despised as well as liked i just hope the scales falls down on the liked side. I think it does. But i take it now i think with grace. A learning curve believe me. In fact within forum i know i still got a lot more grace to learn lol but hey i'll get there.
I say welcome warmly the ppl who say hi and let the crap go over your head. Keep enjoying.
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Being a stalwart member of the bris/wilts/glos/oxon room i can see where your coming from Steve. Over the last year 'our' local room seems to have gone from nothing to popular then to nothing then popular again. People move on but a few like myself hang on in there. It's amazing if you hang around long enough how the people change .
I enjoy the turn around in people though as most times it keeps things fresh and soon some become regs and it all feels comfortable again. Mind you there are many whose dissapearance from the chatroom i regret as their company was valued. but hey.
The back biting and stuff is always going to go on inevitably - the thing is to be philosophical about it all. In the end its cyber space we all get off on and in it. Hopefully we make some freinds n acquaintences along the way and we can add these to our real life experiences.
Personally i like to make love not war (god how cliched) friends not enemies. Inevitably as i am quite verbal (though in written form) I stand to be despised as well as liked i just hope the scales falls down on the liked side. I think it does. But i take it now i think with grace. A learning curve believe me. In fact within forum i know i still got a lot more grace to learn lol but hey i'll get there.
I say welcome warmly the ppl who say hi and let the crap go over your
head. Keep enjoying.

Wise words as ever worship
I've been guilty of getting a bit :doh: :cry: evil :small-print: :shock: confused mad at some stuff that's gone on in our regular room.......even bolt once for a little whle...... but as the lovely Mr Lost says .....in the end it is cyberspace so dunno :gagged: with a little bit of ... banghead :eeek: :fuckinghell: poke but mostly :thrilled: rotflmao :grin: :lol2: innocent smackbottom :smitten:
steve,
have to say i been in room from the very begining ( sad bastard i know) when gill and carl started it. As in all life people make friends and fall out....its life. I find the room just as inviting and friendly as ever. There is regular meets..indeed we have on on saturday coming..where we habe over 100 going. Think maybe its just your perspective coz you not been around much lately. I sure still enjoy myself and the banter in there...long live the mids room.
I go in the mids room a lot and i have never seen any of this confused
I have found it, as most chat rooms, friendly and people always say hi if you say as you entre the room