Hi you two, welcome to the mad house. We are also new to this but we decided that by keep going out on our own, hoping to meet someone who was very nice, and who would stick to our rules, was just not working. So we decided to build our confidence by meeting another couple from here.
We went along for a pre-arranged meet, and another couple who were also first timers came along as well as a couple of blokes. As Jo says in her message, its best to be up front about what you want, and what you dont want. We had all had rules, the main one's being condoms must be worn and No means No! Everyone had to agree to stick to this.
In the end we had fantastic time (still smiling when I think about it), I ended up going further than I had originally intended to do, but that was because I felt so comfortable and safe with the people I was with.
We have since had a bit of a bad experience with idiots on Motorbikes (not doggers, I must add, who have all been great and shown loads of respect) and I did say that I was packing all this in. But when I think about the fantastic people I have met through dogging, both the couples I mentioned previously, and a single bloke from a couple of weeks ago, I really do think that by weekend I will probably want to be out again.
Not everyone thinks that dogging should be done via pre-arranged meets, but if you are meeting someone who you think you will feel comfortable with, and who has obvously been using this site for quite a while, it can be a good way of building your confidence. Once you got your 'wings' :angel: then you can start venturing out on your own!
So take it easy, settle in gently, and dont be afraid of telling people what your rules are, and as I said, remember No always means NO. Good luck :wave2:
and :welcome: to :swingingchair: heaven.