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Hi to the both of you.
Can offer you some advice from things i have picked up from the short time I have been going myself.
As far locations go, you can check out the dogging sites, section of this forum, that may help you a bit, just search around your area. Or you could do a foum search in the doging forum section, type in names of places local to you and see if theres any debate about them on the forums over the past few months and years. Not ideal but better than nothing. Here if its in Thetford Forrest, and its a car park, lay by, forrest track or pull in, then theres always the chance it is/has been used. Keep your eyes open when your out and about during the day going about your everyday lives.
What to expect? Well being a couple your going to get an awful lot of attention from single guys during your time there. Now you only want to watch at first, they dont know that and unless you make that clear to them, they are going to be watching you and waiting for a sign all night long. Have to tell you you may get some idiots who drive be you with there lights on full and pull in right beside you. They are the minority and most people are poite and respecful but you wanted to know what might happen, and thats a possibility.
As far as safety goes, well you can check out a location you have found during the daylight so you get a clear idea of the lay out before you go at night. Keep your doors locked and windows down when you pull in. Maybe look for locations that are well lit or at least reasonable so, and not pitch black and very dark. May make you feel more comfy.
You want to watch first, so there needs to be a another couple there as well. If you come across one, then you should find them being very approachable by both fo you, seeing as your another couple, talk to them tell them what you looking to do and they will be more than willing to offer advice and take care of you. Sure they will let you watch them together or indeed the fem with other guys.
One thing to bear in mind is that if your looking to ease yourself in, you may want to avoid Fri and Sat nights as they are the most busy, and go for a quieter weekday night, Mon tues or suns are generally not so busy. Of course the chances of you seeing another couple diminish as well.
A local example i can give you is that a certain Thetford car park on a Fri or Sat night might not be the best time for a new couple looking to become aquainted with to go, as the place will be buzzing from early evening until 2/3 am.
Basically chose a place/time you are happy with and go along and see what happens and have fun. The more you go the less daunting it becomes and you will soon be put at ease.
Thats covered a few points for you, I am sure that members will happily ad tips and pointers that I may have overlooked as well.
Hope that has helped a bit.
andy
Can offer you some advice from things i have picked up from the short time I have been going myself.
As far locations go, you can check out the dogging sites, section of this forum, that may help you a bit, just search around your area. Or you could do a foum search in the doging forum section, type in names of places local to you and see if theres any debate about them on the forums over the past few months and years. Not ideal but better than nothing. Here if its in Thetford Forrest, and its a car park, lay by, forrest track or pull in, then theres always the chance it is/has been used. Keep your eyes open when your out and about during the day going about your everyday lives.
What to expect? Well being a couple your going to get an awful lot of attention from single guys during your time there. Now you only want to watch at first, they dont know that and unless you make that clear to them, they are going to be watching you and waiting for a sign all night long. Have to tell you you may get some idiots who drive be you with there lights on full and pull in right beside you. They are the minority and most people are poite and respecful but you wanted to know what might happen, and thats a possibility.
As far as safety goes, well you can check out a location you have found during the daylight so you get a clear idea of the lay out before you go at night. Keep your doors locked and windows down when you pull in. Maybe look for locations that are well lit or at least reasonable so, and not pitch black and very dark. May make you feel more comfy.
You want to watch first, so there needs to be a another couple there as well. If you come across one, then you should find them being very approachable by both fo you, seeing as your another couple, talk to them tell them what you looking to do and they will be more than willing to offer advice and take care of you. Sure they will let you watch them together or indeed the fem with other guys.
One thing to bear in mind is that if your looking to ease yourself in, you may want to avoid Fri and Sat nights as they are the most busy, and go for a quieter weekday night, Mon tues or suns are generally not so busy. Of course the chances of you seeing another couple diminish as well.
A local example i can give you is that a certain Thetford car park on a Fri or Sat night might not be the best time for a new couple looking to become aquainted with to go, as the place will be buzzing from early evening until 2/3 am.
Basically chose a place/time you are happy with and go along and see what happens and have fun. The more you go the less daunting it becomes and you will soon be put at ease.
Thats covered a few points for you, I am sure that members will happily ad tips and pointers that I may have overlooked as well.
Hope that has helped a bit.
andy
Mod
There's always this advice sticky at the top of the forum
http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/swingers-forum/viewtopic/30801.html
Hope it helps
Mal
http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/swingers-forum/viewtopic/30801.html
Hope it helps
Mal
Sex God
Andy is spot on - put me in a dogging site Ive been to loads of times and I will wander about quite happily in the pitch black. Put me in a new one in the dark and I'm shit scared.
Have a great time when you get out.
Regards
Harry Jones
Have a great time when you get out.
Regards
Harry Jones
