Hi I want to get into this exiting activity so if you can help a 30 year old shy straight male then please help me!!!! I can travel from Wrexham to colwyn Bay and surrounding area.
TO be honest, I don't think your going to get very far waiting to be invited. From reading all that's been posted, your best bet is to either have a pic of yourself and start responding to adverts, or just go to a likely dogging spot and hang around to see what happens.
if your straight and shy i think you'll have a real good luck.