banging my head against a brick wall...

17 Mar 2006

Hi,
Been looking to break into the scene for a while now... I've avoided turning up unnanounced at venues... spent time looking for a female partner to exibit with... (no joy as yet since they all seem to be attached and getting it on already sad

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was wondering if any of you seasoned vets had any ideas? would be most appreciated..
I'm straight.... athletic and toned... pretty w/e....respectful but willing to lose that if needs be lol...
dunno what else to say - heard the gurus were all to be found on this forum...
if not pm me
cheers

17 Mar 2006

http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/swingers-forum/viewtopic/30801.html
The best advice you can get (apart from giving out locations) is in the thread above. Even for those who have been dogging for a while, it is still well worth a read.
As for locations/venues, well the best way is to turn up unanounced, thats what dogging is all about. If it is outdoor swinging rather than dogging, that you are after, then I can understand why you would want to make arrangements, but in all honesty the best places for dogging are the ones not advertised on this or any other sites. How do you find them? Well, it takes a bit of effort, have a drive round during the day, look for places which look like they might be used for naughty fun, then go back when its gone dark and wait, wait and wait a little longer.
Good luck with this but I will warn you, if you havent got loads of patience, then dogging is not for you wink

17 Mar 2006

Thanks for the reply... however I read that a while ago, understand the basics to a degree... the reason i didn't just set off before is that i've read some threads denouncing the uninvited....
guess I need to ask if there is much of a scene in the Hants/Surrey area?
Invites would be most welcome... biggrin

17 Mar 2006

Good luck but I do think you wil find that the majority of people dont advertise when they want to meet but you may find they may send you off packing if you go over to their cars before they invite you over or give some form of signal.
Good luck biggrin

17 Mar 2006

ok cheers (back 2 square 1....)

17 Mar 2006

You need to be just like Ray Mears hunt around for ages looking for sign, then i'm sure you will get into some BUSHcraft wink

17 Mar 2006

hehe what can i say i''ll keep plugging away...

18 Mar 2006

As car parks are public spaces, you can't actually turn up uninvited - if you're waiting to find a female partner specifically for dogging, you'll probably never become a dogger.
If you want to try dogging as voyeur, just go out and do it - you don't need anyones permission to be in a public car park, just a couple/woman/guy who are willing to let you watch biggrin

25 Mar 2006

and another point i would like to add is remember there are lots of single guys and they tend to be pushy which can spoil it fot the the quiet onnes that are happy to watch from a distance and not get involved unless they are called so the cpls can have there pick if you are straight like myself then to be honest dogging probably isnt worth the botherunless you live up north i been down this road before best to find a swing partner to do activities with patiants is a virtue goodluck in your search biggrin