I'm new to this site, and dogging in general. What I really want to know is does sounding absolutely pathetic really encourage females/couples to pm you? How many posts are there where the guy is pleading, "please please please get in touch! I want to see a naked women!" talk about screaming, "I'm desperate". I dont know. I reckon not sounding too desperate that you'd shoot your load the minute a couple pulled up in a car seems a little more appealing to people looking to be watched. I suppose it's just my naivety.
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begging..does it work?
If it works for you, keep it quiet.
Use it, don't abuse it, and don't tell even your best mate.
The competition is intense.
If you find a good site, lie about it. It's shit to everyone else and you only go there because it's quiet.
Don't brag about it on the web. Don't mention "IT" on the web. With all regard to this site, the web has been the destruction of the "game"
Don't say it's full of people of the gay persuasion, so it's no good for dogging. It'll be even fuller shortly after you say that. (this is not a derogatory comment about anyone whose sexuality is other than m/f)
Likewise for cross-dressers/tranvestites, to my eternal embarassment I mentioned that a local site had a few tvs' on Friday night. Now it has loads of people there and no tvs' (No BLUExxx this isn't any criticism of tvs')(sorry anyway)(JiC)
Use it, don't abuse it, and don't tell even your best mate.
The competition is intense.
If you find a good site, lie about it. It's shit to everyone else and you only go there because it's quiet.
Don't brag about it on the web. Don't mention "IT" on the web. With all regard to this site, the web has been the destruction of the "game"
Don't say it's full of people of the gay persuasion, so it's no good for dogging. It'll be even fuller shortly after you say that. (this is not a derogatory comment about anyone whose sexuality is other than m/f)
Likewise for cross-dressers/tranvestites, to my eternal embarassment I mentioned that a local site had a few tvs' on Friday night. Now it has loads of people there and no tvs' (No BLUExxx this isn't any criticism of tvs')(sorry anyway)(JiC)
Sex God
Forgive us for asking Jomu me old mate . Would your tips about telling no one about a good site be the same , had it been a couple who had asked ? Or is it your desire for all new couples to drive around aimlessly not knowing where to go , and when they get there just find the same bloke all on his own every time they go ?
Just Stirring as always G
Just Stirring as always G
I tend to give people a choice.
They ask about a place, I tell them about "it".
Good and bad.
They make the choice.
Got several "new" couples hanging about at the moment, or maybe several m/f newspaper hack teams, and they don't seem to be able to make their minds up. I think they're after other couples, but whether to to play or watch...who knows ?
Carry-on winding....I've spent the night at my two preferred sites staring at an endless stream of headlights as they drive in, up and down, out and back in, down and up, three-pointing as and when and parking up with either headlights glaring into the car of choice, or reversed up to it and use the reversing lights..
There's only so much of it a guy can stand.
I think I'll just go to the speed the plough and watch the strip show instead tomorrow.
At least you get to see something.
They ask about a place, I tell them about "it".
Good and bad.
They make the choice.
Got several "new" couples hanging about at the moment, or maybe several m/f newspaper hack teams, and they don't seem to be able to make their minds up. I think they're after other couples, but whether to to play or watch...who knows ?
Carry-on winding....I've spent the night at my two preferred sites staring at an endless stream of headlights as they drive in, up and down, out and back in, down and up, three-pointing as and when and parking up with either headlights glaring into the car of choice, or reversed up to it and use the reversing lights..
There's only so much of it a guy can stand.
I think I'll just go to the speed the plough and watch the strip show instead tomorrow.
At least you get to see something.
Sex God
blimey cheer up mate
Sex God
Quote by jomu
normally I don't watch the same couple twice since if you've seen it once it gets repetative
Really?
Silk
Sex God
Quote by jomu
normally I don't watch the same couple twice since if you've seen it once it gets repetative
Really?
Silk
Well, most times.
The grass is always greener etc etc...you know ?
On the other hand, there's a couple I've watched every sat for years now...I dunno why...nothing new for the last year...Oh...there was the black basque, sussies and support bra episode...gettin' blasé in my dotage...unappreciative.
All the trouble couples go to to put-on a good show, and all I can do is mutter "oh, the same old grey bra and pink knicks again....hair do ain't doin' her proud either...she should change them specs as well....I wish they'd change that vauxhall, God knows what the back seats like by now" etc etc etc
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The grass is always greener etc etc...you know ?
On the other hand, there's a couple I've watched every sat for years now...I dunno why...nothing new for the last year...Oh...there was the black basque, sussies and support bra episode...gettin' blasé in my dotage...unappreciative.
All the trouble couples go to to put-on a good show, and all I can do is mutter "oh, the same old grey bra and pink knicks again....hair do ain't doin' her proud either...she should change them specs as well....I wish they'd change that vauxhall, God knows what the back seats like by now" etc etc etc
?
Well, most times.
The grass is always greener etc etc...you know ?
On the other hand, there's a couple I've watched every sat for years now...I dunno why...nothing new for the last year...Oh...there was the black basque, sussies and support bra episode...gettin' blasé in my dotage...unappreciative.
All the trouble couples go to to put-on a good show, and all I can do is mutter "oh, the same old grey bra and pink knicks again....hair do ain't doin' her proud either...she should change them specs as well....I wish they'd change that vauxhall, God knows what the back seats like by now" etc etc etc
?
The grass is always greener etc etc...you know ?
On the other hand, there's a couple I've watched every sat for years now...I dunno why...nothing new for the last year...Oh...there was the black basque, sussies and support bra episode...gettin' blasé in my dotage...unappreciative.
All the trouble couples go to to put-on a good show, and all I can do is mutter "oh, the same old grey bra and pink knicks again....hair do ain't doin' her proud either...she should change them specs as well....I wish they'd change that vauxhall, God knows what the back seats like by now" etc etc etc
?
Sex God
Quote by jomu
Well, most times.
The grass is always greener etc etc...you know ?
On the other hand, there's a couple I've watched every sat for years now...I dunno why...nothing new for the last year...Oh...there was the black basque, sussies and support bra episode...gettin' blasé in my dotage...unappreciative.
All the trouble couples go to to put-on a good show, and all I can do is mutter "oh, the same old grey bra and pink knicks again....hair do ain't doin' her proud either...she should change them specs as well....I wish they'd change that vauxhall, God knows what the back seats like by now" etc etc etc
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Feeling a little analytical today Jomu??? Surely you don't expect people to rotate their cars for your mental playground. Perhaps you should stop being so critical.
Come here and I'll tell you a secret....
Closer....
A little more closer....
This Doggin thang......... it's supposed to be fun! :giveup:
Silky :therethere:
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Jomu
Where are
and what days times does it happen?
If I have this information I can try dogging and have a guaranteed fallback. PM me the information if you want to.
Cheers
Harry
Where are
the speed the plough and watch the strip show instead
and what days times does it happen?
If I have this information I can try dogging and have a guaranteed fallback. PM me the information if you want to.
Cheers
Harry
i think everyone misunderstood me. I wasn't asking if begging actually worked, I was making a point at how many posts and replies there are where single males are so blatantly desperate for sex it's embarrassing. I was more interested in hearing from women to know if these guys actually got any action or was it just off putting and sad to see. Its just I haven't really got it in me to reply to a post begging for the poster to "get in touch please," when there are 10 more posts before asking for exactly the same thing. Surely it would be better to get more of a 121 thing going? I mean what chance do you have with a "pick me please," post in the middle of a list of 10 others? Just seems like you are clinging to any opportunity to get laid.
Maybe it's just me ?
But.
Let me ask this ?
What does everyone think "dogging" is ?
From the posts on here "what do all these single men want" (etc), I get the feeling that many couples think that "dogging" is couples shagging couples ?
Well, you could stretch "dogging" to mean couples watching couples....
But to wonder what all the single males are doing there....
Stick. Wrong end. Of.
"doggers" are the watchers...males, fems or couples....take your pick.
"dogging" was the act of following couples to watch the sex....now it has become a couple performing to be watched.
But if you're thinking that "dogging" is a couple meeting another couple for sex....well, welcome to "SWINGING"....which is what that is.
And lets not keep whinging about the gays at sites....many of the sites used for "dogging" have been used by gays for "cruising" for decades...they've got squatters rights...you don't like what you've got, go somewhere else.
But.
Let me ask this ?
What does everyone think "dogging" is ?
From the posts on here "what do all these single men want" (etc), I get the feeling that many couples think that "dogging" is couples shagging couples ?
Well, you could stretch "dogging" to mean couples watching couples....
But to wonder what all the single males are doing there....
Stick. Wrong end. Of.
"doggers" are the watchers...males, fems or couples....take your pick.
"dogging" was the act of following couples to watch the sex....now it has become a couple performing to be watched.
But if you're thinking that "dogging" is a couple meeting another couple for sex....well, welcome to "SWINGING"....which is what that is.
And lets not keep whinging about the gays at sites....many of the sites used for "dogging" have been used by gays for "cruising" for decades...they've got squatters rights...you don't like what you've got, go somewhere else.
Sex God
Well said, Jomu 
Quote by jomu
Maybe it's just me ?
But.
Let me ask this ?
What does everyone think "dogging" is ?
From the posts on here "what do all these single men want" (etc), I get the feeling that many couples think that "dogging" is couples shagging couples ?
Well, you could stretch "dogging" to mean couples watching couples....
But to wonder what all the single males are doing there....
Stick. Wrong end. Of.
"doggers" are the watchers...males, fems or couples....take your pick.
"dogging" was the act of following couples to watch the sex....now it has become a couple performing to be watched.
But if you're thinking that "dogging" is a couple meeting another couple for sex....well, welcome to "SWINGING"....which is what that is.
And lets not keep whinging about the gays at sites....many of the sites used for "dogging" have been used by gays for "cruising" for decades...they've got squatters rights...you don't like what you've got, go somewhere else.
Again does this little gem of information have anything at all to do with the original thread? Seems completely irrelevant to me. I'm pretty sure nobody in any of the replies asked for a definition of dogging. Why can't we just stick to the topics and then maybe the threads would make a bit of sense rather then everyone just making up their own things. New Post if for starting a new thread. How about we read the title of the thread before we decide to add to a coversation from now on? I think too many people just think with their dicks and not with their brains in this place.