I took Sarah to a well known site near Basingstoke last week, where she made some significant progress exploring her boundaries. We were just getting to the point of giving someone a great show, and Sarah was about to take some significant new steps. Unfortunately, a car full of juveniles turned up, blaring music and blazing headlights. When they started sounding their horn, we decided that this location was a bust at that time, so we made a move. We were followed off the site. I ended up having to reverse up a slip road to get rid of them. This has left Sarah feeling very nervous about playing out of doors. Feeling threatened is not an aphrodisiac. Of course we can make arrangements to meet with people from SH and we are moving in that direction, but we still like the idea of being able to turn up for some fun without making prior arrangements. What we need is a location where people play, that isn't on the radar of the boy racer crowd. Does anyone regularly play in such a place in the Guildford/Windsor/Reading/Alton box? It has to be somewhere that isn't listed on the dogging locations page, or frequented by the nuisance crowd. It's going to take a lot to rebuild her confidence and get her in the mood. I must stress that we're not looking for offers of pre-arranged meetings. What we intend to do is turn up somewhere, unannounced, when we are free (and our babysitter is available) and see what feels appealing on the night. Please PM us if you have any reliable recommendations. Zack
Always? No matter where you go? Are boy racers really patrolling from every car park to every car park down every back lane, to make sure that no dogger can ever get a quiet moment? I doubt it. I suspect that the attention span of the nuisance crowd means that they concentrate on well publicised sites, where they will be more likely to get the amusement that they crave. I'm sure that plenty of people know a quiet spot where they can go for an illicit fumble without running any major risk of being bothered. Whether we can persuade them to discuss that with us is another question. I can understand if someone would want to keep their favourite quiet place, well, quiet. Still, though, there are few fine spots that couldn't be improved by the presence of my partially clothed wife. Thanks for taking the trouble to respond. Cheers, Zack
Zack I know the site you were at, and it is for that reason I dont bother going there anymore, and the reason that quiet a few couple dont bother as well. There are a couple of places that I know of the haven't been totally ruined by these types, yet, around the are you are looking. Drop me a pm
Quote by ilikethis Zack I know the site you were at, and it is for that reason I dont bother going there anymore, and the reason that quiet a few couple dont bother as well. There are a couple of places that I know of the haven't been totally ruined by these types, yet, around the are you are looking. Drop me a pm
I used to try dogging, just out and about occasionally for a look see. Was up at a place on a hill behind Portsmouth once, white 4x4, one guy either side looking in, thought I'd take a peek, came up the passenger side and the bloke there hissed, "My car mate" and produce a machete. My libido didn't hang around any longer than I did!
Sincerest thanks to everyone who PMed us with helpful information and suggestions. We will certainly act upon some of the recommendations that we received. Best to all, Zack
Hiya Zack and Sarah Some sage advice above , and some less so as forums go :-) As seasoned doggers we would say that what happened is kinda an occupational hazard, although far less threatening than you think as really more often than not the young assholes who visit the sites are just as fascinated by dogging as you are. They simply don't have the social skills of self confidence to admit it. If you think about it, its not all that different to taking an attractive sexily dressed woman (which Sarah appears to be)to a nightclub - you may well attract the attention of immature socially inept and sexually inexperienced boys who don't know how to approach the situation properly. In the same way we would treat any meeting with people we treat doggers. We expect common courtesy and manners and friendliness. If we don't get any of the above we would assess the situation and if it was threatening we would leave, or tell them what we thought of them or in extreme circumstances hit them in the face with a hammer :-). Whatever the end result remember being out dogging doesn't make you outside the realms of common human decency or the realms of the law. These guys have no more right to threaten you than they do on a high street at midday and you are as much within your rights to take whatsoever action you would if they did - whether that be calling the police or the hammer option. You are right to seek some slightly more off the beaten track sites , especially since Sarah is just starting out and perhaps a little nervous, although the nerves add a bit to the thrill. There are quite a few sites like this in the area you mentioned and im sure the helpful doggers here have already been helpful in sending them to you - I cant imagine they would hesitate with an attractive looking couple. Finally in closing if it helps at all I don't know if Sarah reads these messages but we would like to reassure her. In over ten years of dogging on and off all over the country and in some places abroad, we have had very very few seriously scary moments. The ones we have had have all been more scary in our own heads than they actually were or turned out to be and more often than not you are actually safer in a well frequented spot than an empty one , as there is almost always more decent fun loving people there than idiots. Take the same precautions as you would in absolutely any other walk of your life, trust your instincts and we see no reason why you cant have great fun as we have without any issues. Hope we bump into you some time Peace S n G xx
Hi Silk and Big G. Many thanks for your generous and encouraging words. Far from being discouraged, we just regrouped and came up with a different plan for exploring our pleasures. We've received some very helpful suggestions and we're looking forward to having the opportunity to put some of them into practice. All the best, Zack and Sarah.
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