wht has gone wrong here???????????
very quiet all over, regulars have stayed away, or have i not been notified of new spots?
out and about this week for another mooch about, but dont hold much hope!!!
what do others think?
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The whole Dorset scene seems to have died. Councils keep closing off sites, fuzz keep patrolling and kids keep tearing up the carparks! We've got lots of great private spots ideal for dogging around Wareham forest but nobody goes there...may be we should get the scene shifted over here and re-started ;) any cpls willing to try a few spots out?
We're confused as to where to go too 
We fancy doing a bit of 'light' dogging / outdoor soft swinging in the same area but don't fancy turning up at the publicised sites, having read here that some of these may have lots of single blokes about - which we think might be a bit much for our early visits. :shock: nor do we want to find ourselves entirely alone :?
We fancy doing a bit of 'light' dogging / outdoor soft swinging in the same area but don't fancy turning up at the publicised sites, having read here that some of these may have lots of single blokes about - which we think might be a bit much for our early visits. :shock: nor do we want to find ourselves entirely alone :?
Sex God
Quote by Phil_dorset
We fancy doing a bit of 'light' dogging / outdoor soft swinging in the same area but don't fancy turning up at the publicised sites, having read here that some of these may have lots of single blokes about
Unless you can find another couple to arrange a soft swap with, you are *very* unlikely to come across another couple just by chance and even if you do, there is no guarantee that they will want to swap with you.
Dogging is about couples showing to single guys. Couples showing to other couples is not dogging, it's outdoor swinging
Jon and I have been very active over the last three years, but I can count on the fingers of one hand the amount of other couples we have seen dogging in that time in this local area.
Up until recent weeks, we were often out 3 or 4 nights a week, so if there were couples out there, we would have seen at least a few of them by now :?
If you don't want single guys, then I doubt dogging is for you, because to be honest you will find them by the cart load at almost every single car park around, but you won't find other couples.
As I have already said to you in pm, just because the single guys are out there, it doesn't mean you have to feel pressured into doing anything you don't feel comfortable with.
Just open your windows and speak to some of the guys. Most of them are human and will be more than happy to watch a show only. They are not all sex starved beasts expecting a shag from anything that has a pulse :shock:
We've met so many really nice guys and since some of them are still dogging with us after three years, which goes to show that they are not all dick heads out there lurking in the trees at night
If you want soft swap, you may be better to try arranging a meeting with another couple at a travel lodge or something because I doubt you will find what you want in car parks and even if you did, there would be hoardes of single guys all wanting to watch :wink:
TJ
Trojan you have a pm :wink:
Thanks Redhot,
we are working this out bit by bit - we were thinking that there would be enough couples about for us to watch and be watched by happy accident! Seems if we are looking for this then as you say we are really looking for outdoor swinging whilst being happy to get caught at it.. we'll get there!
Thanks for you advice
P&K
we are working this out bit by bit - we were thinking that there would be enough couples about for us to watch and be watched by happy accident! Seems if we are looking for this then as you say we are really looking for outdoor swinging whilst being happy to get caught at it.. we'll get there!
Thanks for you advice
P&K
