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Call me Naive

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I know this is probably a silly question but I'll ask anyway.... As a completely new guy to dogging (this is my first venture outside the realm of fantasy) Is there any ways of ensuring you read any signs right and not just get accused of looking seedy sitting in the Services car park?
Sorry to sound so basic but I have to start somewhere redface
Quote by ChameleonGary
Call me Naive

Ok.. your Naive biggrin :D
(It's early and my humour hasn't woken up properly yet)
We have specially written advice sections to cover most of your questions.
Here is one:
http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/dogging/dogging-rules.html#legal
Have a read and then browse the site, reading anything which says 'Help' or 'Advice' or some such word. Look left and look up. It's all there.
Have fun and good luck
:P
Quote by wolvie_dude
Call me Naive

Ok.. your Naive biggrin :D
(It's early and my humour hasn't woken up properly yet)
lol :lol: :lol: :lol:
I can see I'm gonna have to sharpen up in here to survive :P
Thanks for the links to the helpsites... Now I just need to find someone who likes to indulge and then the bottle to go and hang around without feeling paranoia about sitting in my car watching the world go by confused
Well if you put your location in your profile, it would help people know if they wanted to meet up or not
Quote by ChameleonGary
Is there any ways of ensuring you read any signs right and not just get accused of looking seedy sitting in the Services car park?

If you're doing it right, then it's seedy hehehehehehehehehehehe
But following the advice on the site will help you not to get a punch in the mouth off some angry non-dogger lol :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:
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Is there any ways of ensuring you read any signs right and not just get accused of looking seedy sitting in the Services car park?

If you're doing it right, then it's seedy hehehehehehehehehehehe
But following the advice on the site will help you not to get a punch in the mouth off some angry non-dogger lol :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:
OK... I now have some indication of what not to do and also what to do (to some extent)... now it's just the erm.. small issue of where to do it and with whom... God this is a wide virtual world :lol: :lol:
its called detective work !!!! you have to get out there and look ................put the time and effot into it and most of all dont be pushy!!!! and be polite.
as your a newbie dont expect the regulars to let you in on there locations, you have to earn trust from them, you wont get the locations with just a couple of posts on a web site it dont work that way.
try reading the posts from way back, go in the chat room, ect ect .
above all make an effot it wont come knocking on your door telling you about it.
just some advice mate its not a rollocking its dog eat dog out there biggrin
have fun if you survive
Welcome
At first I spent hours sat on my own freezing my arse off and driving miles for nowt with only the radio for company. I thought it was impossible, but with loads of patience and much politeness I progressed.
Even now over a year later I sometimes misread signals. Be aware that being polite will mean you miss out on occasions to more pushier people (I'm recollecting one particular morning at 2am when it was minus one degree and I got jostled six inches out of reach of a particularly fine woman who I have never yet had the pleasure of having fun with), but by being polite and chatting (some nights chatting is all you get, but we can have a good laugh and go away happy at having shared good company), you gain the respect and trust of couples, which I think is more important and has lead to some splendid nights.
Get involved in posts on here, there are some people I almost chat to on here through the forums even though I have never met them, its great fun.
Thanks for the advice everyone....
I guess perserverance and patience are the main attributes I going to have to learn to succeed (God that sounds like a line from a seminar surprised )
I look forward to getting to know everyone biggrin