Any couples fancy a meet on be happy just to watch but will join in at your me a PM and I will send you further details. By the way I am a 44yr old clean & discreet male.
Alan
Have you not taken any notice of the advice on here.
You have just told all the boy racers, nutcases and potentionally the boys in blue exactly where you will be and at what time.
You are going to be in for a lively evening but maybe not in the way you had planned.
Alex
Alan - PLEASE read the sticky on the new policy on dogging posts. I've edited your post in line with the new rules.
if a new member does want to meet can anyone explain to them how he,she or they can contact people,not everyone has the decency to reply to pms even if you know them,so it is difficult and it seems that the well known trouble spot in staffs is the cause of much trouble,it does not seem so bad anywhere else,I have heard a rumour that the boy racers may get an unpleasant visit shortly,say no
Swinging Heaven now has the policy that NO exact times or locations are to be posted on the public forum. We are attempting to keep people safe in ALL areas of the country. Boy racers might be a particular problem in some locations, but there are many locations that are also well known to nutters. If everyone abides by our policy it means that nutters can't use Swinging heaven to organise their plans.
If people are not replying to your PMs, it probably means that they are either not interested in what you are offering or are not genuine, so you are not missing out either way. It is polite for people to reply to their PMs, if only to say "no thanks", but if they're not interested in you they wouldn't reply via the public furum either.
I have found the site very good,also had no trouble with my pms but reading down the line its obvious that that all pms are not answered and that was where I was coming from re new members getting a meet,anyway best of luck maybe we'll meet one day,somewhere over the rainbow.....as it where.....rjay
Thanks for all the advice but I did not give an exact time or place(Cannock Chase is 26 square miles of forestry commission land) if anybody can find me in 2.5 hrs then you are very good.I get the impression that Swinging Heaven is becoming a closed shop except for certain pesonnel & are giving their opinion on areas of the country they know nothing about.I don't think many couples would reply if I put Staffordshire(big County) and just a day without specifying day or night. Many thanks for all your interest Alan
First, Swinging Heaven is free and open to everyone, not just a chosen few.
The definition of exact time and locations can be debated but I think that most members of this forum would agree that it is better to have one rule for all rather than letting a few "slip through the net". I deleted your time specification, even though it was within a 2 hour range because it still specific enough (in my opinion at least) for trouble makers to pick up on. Indeed, trouble makers might not find you at the time you're there but they would still know that "something" is going on there at that time. They may well go there and find someone else to harrass.
Swinging Heaven is try to keep EVERYONE safe, whether they advertise on this forum or not. Although trouble will still happen at dogging locations whether or not we have a policy of no exact times/locations, we aim to make sure that trouble makers do not get their information from us.
Alan, I hope you understand that our intentions are not to stop you or anyone from having fun, we are simply trying to stop trouble makers from ruining dogging completely.