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I really need help!
I'm a relatively new cross dresser/TV and would love to attend a dogging meet and enjoy the attention of at least 1 guy, preferable several, maybe all at once!
A few months ago I got all dolled up in short denim skirt, makeup etc and visited a number of listed dogging sites in the Coventry/Birmingham areas and found them either locked up with police warning signs or just no one about at all.
I went to another site aa couple of weeks ago and there were so many cars and people about I was too embarrased to get out of the car.
Will someone please tell me what I have to do to meet up somewhere where I can get what I want?
Hi! biggrin
I can't tell you much about TV/CD scene in dogging because, well, I don't know anything redface however, nerves and embarrassment are quite normal so don't worry about it. Plenty of people get as far as the car park then leave, on more than one occasion too! So, for general dogging/cruising I'd say take small steps each time......if you go at your own pace, the nerve to go further will come. Good luck!!
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Hi! biggrin
So, for general dogging/cruising I'd say take small steps each time......

Especially in those heels wink
Good luck by the way smile
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Hi! biggrin
So, for general dogging/cruising I'd say take small steps each time......

Especially in those heels wink

Smartynopants!!! lol
NGDOE's right though, watch your footwear, a girly totter that ends in a graceless heap isn't good! wink
The trouble is that even if I did pluck up the courage to get out of the car I don't know what I would do next appart from wander about the car park looking like a tart. What if someone spoke to me not realising that I was a TV? Is there a risk that I may face a violent reaction?
That's a potential minefield I guess, you'd need to be careful about where you go and try to target the right "audience". Sorry I can't be of more use but there are some people on the forum who can I'm sure biggrin
confused: I am really hoping to find a meet in the Nottingham area on Weds 14th Sept. If anyone can suggest please PM me.
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The trouble is that even if I did pluck up the courage to get out of the car I don't know what I would do next appart from wander about the car park looking like a tart. What if someone spoke to me not realising that I was a TV? Is there a risk that I may face a violent reaction?

Well, I think walking round the car park looking like a tart would please some people no end wink . However, you do raise a VERY important point. There are plenty of nutters around who may mistake you for a female and then kick your head in when they realise you are not. Sorry to be blunt, but it is a sad, sorry world we live in and that is a fact. I think you need to be VERY careful. Make sure you know who is around, that you have quick access back to your car, and that you know a possible escape route should trouble happen. Everyone is at risk when dogging or cruising of course, but the risks are lessened if you use some basic common sense.
I'm not trying to put you off and I do hope you find a good time, just be safe OK smile
hiya maybe if you take someone with you, that will help.
men will come upto your car if they see 2 people in it,
then that way you dont need to get out.
although its fun to get out and walk about watching the guys
looking at you. biggrin
not been dogging for months, think ive been missing alot.
i used to go to notts, theres lots of places there.
hope you have fun and pls take care and be safe biggrin
Start off at a nudist beech first there all are free to wonder about and you will feel more confident plus without the worry of geting knicked.
99% of the people there are only there for one thing and you are offering that.
Good luck
does anyone know where to meet in the Nottingham area on Weds 14th Sept? Please PM me - someone.
biggrin Hi there
i will be staying over in Nottingham in a couple of weeks you are more than welcome to come with me dogging, might also bring a fem friend
Let me know
Should be around the 21st Sept
Garyne