Hi Folks
Just scanned a few posts on here, agree with most of these posts and my blood boils at the injustice in others
I used to love dogging, started in 1991 (yes it was going as far back as then) and it died a death with me about 1998-9
I used to frequent the popular Nottingham spots, Blidworth, Clumber..and heres one if you don't believe about how long i've been around.... Fanny's Grove.... A sweetie for anyone that remembers that location and the people that used to go there.
it was a wonderful heady period in my life, 2 or 3 couples, 5 or 6 guys, at each location, full of respect and all enjoying each other, no rules just common sense...
Then one couple (who shall remain nameless but will reveal privately if asked) wrecked it all. forever
Couldn't stay happy with this. Had to publicise it all on the net cos they wanted more couples...
What happened??? a couple more couples came and about 20-30 maurauding blokes that subsequently ripped the soul out of dogging.
Self appointed captains (overbearing bullies) organising queues, threats of cars being smashed up, higher police profile, couples being chased in cars by a dozen single blokes in cars...need i go on???
Some popular dogging spots have become graveyards now. A couple I know went to Birdlip the other week...she with the longest legs in the world and cutoff shorts...no one around....
Dogging???? RIP...it was good while it lasted
MoggyMuncha (ad 125300)
PS. Not starting a thread, just getting it off my chest after reading about bournemouth etc
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Hi Folks
Just scanned a few posts on here, agree with most of these posts and my blood boils at the injustice in others
I used to love dogging, started in 1991 (yes it was going as far back as then) and it died a death with me about 1998-9
I used to frequent the popular Nottingham spots, Blidworth, Clumber..and heres one if you don't believe about how long i've been around.... Fanny's Grove.... A sweetie for anyone that remembers that location and the people that used to go there.
it was a wonderful heady period in my life, 2 or 3 couples, 5 or 6 guys, at each location, full of respect and all enjoying each other, no rules just common sense...
Then one couple (who shall remain nameless but will reveal privately if asked) wrecked it all. forever
Couldn't stay happy with this. Had to publicise it all on the net cos they wanted more couples...
Dont blame the couple, blame the internet!!! LOL
What you get, is what you've got.
Presumably you think that networking the hobby would be beneficial.
Huh.
Lets see, we've got couples on here who aren't.
Singles on here who are, desperate.
We've got reporters scanning the various forums trying to get a clue, to match the one they haven't got already.
One website has a forum FOR the media to try to get in touch with "swingers".
Try this. Go to a red-light district. Oooppps, gotta pay.
We've got lies...."nah, this site is shit, the law are in there every few minutes" (as in never)
No, dogging is now desperation assisted by irritation in league with perspiration.
Me, I've got one site that is relatively unknown, and slightly active. Which is better than most, which are inactive because they are so active.
Of course, if most of you just kept your mouths shut and didn't blab anout "great sites" to all and sundry, there may still BE some great sites.
In the layby last night (the one with more traffic than the dual carriageway main trunk road that passes it) one plonker (hello Mr N75***) drove up and down so many times that he nearly wore a rut...and we even have an artic that turns around IN the layby to drive back down for a closer look at nothing.
And you think that organising things better will help. Get wise, one or more of the "parties" will be a blabbermouth or a reporter or a nosy shite from a council.
It HAS been tried and failed dismally....anyone noticed that "normal" couples don't shag in car parks now ?....they've gone back to country roads and field gateways etc....
In any case, most of you aren't doggers, you're swingers without a partner.
Oh, and asking another "dogger" about things is now a waste of time....I find the gay site I use on the net has more useful info about traffic than the dogging sites....and they at least tell you the truth....
Presumably you think that networking the hobby would be beneficial.
Huh.
Lets see, we've got couples on here who aren't.
Singles on here who are, desperate.
We've got reporters scanning the various forums trying to get a clue, to match the one they haven't got already.
One website has a forum FOR the media to try to get in touch with "swingers".
Try this. Go to a red-light district. Oooppps, gotta pay.
We've got lies...."nah, this site is shit, the law are in there every few minutes" (as in never)
No, dogging is now desperation assisted by irritation in league with perspiration.
Me, I've got one site that is relatively unknown, and slightly active. Which is better than most, which are inactive because they are so active.
Of course, if most of you just kept your mouths shut and didn't blab anout "great sites" to all and sundry, there may still BE some great sites.
In the layby last night (the one with more traffic than the dual carriageway main trunk road that passes it) one plonker (hello Mr N75***) drove up and down so many times that he nearly wore a rut...and we even have an artic that turns around IN the layby to drive back down for a closer look at nothing.
And you think that organising things better will help. Get wise, one or more of the "parties" will be a blabbermouth or a reporter or a nosy shite from a council.
It HAS been tried and failed dismally....anyone noticed that "normal" couples don't shag in car parks now ?....they've gone back to country roads and field gateways etc....
In any case, most of you aren't doggers, you're swingers without a partner.
Oh, and asking another "dogger" about things is now a waste of time....I find the gay site I use on the net has more useful info about traffic than the dogging sites....and they at least tell you the truth....
Nothing wrong with dogging.
Just: Don't advertise where you're going to be.
Say: "me and the wife/partner/friend are going to be out in Ware/Bishops Stortford/Herts?bucks/beds etc on **August at **.**pm/am"
Lets them make themselves available and then go out and have fun.
Failing that, go trad-dogging....just start shagging in a car park/layby and wait for the audience to appear...it may be better to start that way....just drive in and look for the guy/s sitting in their car NOT looking at each other...
Follow the safety rules and if you ain't happy....vamoose.
Just remember: YOU are out for fun, and if others get happy that's all to the good...but YOU are the ones you should look out for, fuck the rest....there's loads of us about....single guys (swingers without partners mainly) are falling off every tree in sight....in droves.
Just: Don't advertise where you're going to be.
Say: "me and the wife/partner/friend are going to be out in Ware/Bishops Stortford/Herts?bucks/beds etc on **August at **.**pm/am"
Lets them make themselves available and then go out and have fun.
Failing that, go trad-dogging....just start shagging in a car park/layby and wait for the audience to appear...it may be better to start that way....just drive in and look for the guy/s sitting in their car NOT looking at each other...
Follow the safety rules and if you ain't happy....vamoose.
Just remember: YOU are out for fun, and if others get happy that's all to the good...but YOU are the ones you should look out for, fuck the rest....there's loads of us about....single guys (swingers without partners mainly) are falling off every tree in sight....in droves.
Sex God
Jomu is right. The complaints and whinges you will hear about dogging were there pre-BBC2 never mind pre-internet . It is the doggers perogative to moan , its a 97% of the time thing for them . Talk to any dogger and they'll tell how much better it used to be , and they would have said the same thing in 1972 .
Peace G
Peace G
Hey, you're slanging off my 40 year old hobby here !
I got into dogging by (literally) falling over a couple as I jumped over a wall, and stayed to watch as they said it was ok....and I've been falling over couples for several decades since. Except for the 10 years of marriage. I wonder what I missed during those years...sigh.
Apart from the 80s', when couples were laying down in front of me to be fallen over, things have been going from worse to horrific. Mainly because whereas I used to walk miles for a bit of fun, now I drive miles and worry about the fuel cost and get no fun. I should have taken that van driving job, the pay was shit but the dogging possibilities were great.
Anyway, the layby beckons...or maybe Mk tonight, I hear there is a new asian couple doing the rounds...they'll not last long so better get in while they're about.
I got into dogging by (literally) falling over a couple as I jumped over a wall, and stayed to watch as they said it was ok....and I've been falling over couples for several decades since. Except for the 10 years of marriage. I wonder what I missed during those years...sigh.
Apart from the 80s', when couples were laying down in front of me to be fallen over, things have been going from worse to horrific. Mainly because whereas I used to walk miles for a bit of fun, now I drive miles and worry about the fuel cost and get no fun. I should have taken that van driving job, the pay was shit but the dogging possibilities were great.
Anyway, the layby beckons...or maybe Mk tonight, I hear there is a new asian couple doing the rounds...they'll not last long so better get in while they're about.
Sex God
LOLOL
Aaaaaaaaw you know what we mean .
Good luck with the newbies .
Aaaaaaaaw you know what we mean .
Good luck with the newbies .
Yeah....but you know what I mean.
Somewhere there is a doggers shangri-la.
A park where the sun never sets, where the day is permanently in that peculiar time where the sun is setting and the sky is slightly red with a hint of blue.
It's warm, with no insects, and couples (18 - 25) laugh as they enter and remove their clothes and make love. They smile and invite you to watch, the perfume fills the air and you are carried away in blissful harmony.
**SLAP**
Oh well, off to mk
Somewhere there is a doggers shangri-la.
A park where the sun never sets, where the day is permanently in that peculiar time where the sun is setting and the sky is slightly red with a hint of blue.
It's warm, with no insects, and couples (18 - 25) laugh as they enter and remove their clothes and make love. They smile and invite you to watch, the perfume fills the air and you are carried away in blissful harmony.
**SLAP**
Oh well, off to mk
Hey Jomu
As you approach MK turn left and head under the bridge towards the town centre you will find Shangri-la. .............. oh no sorry thats the Shangri-la Chinese Takeaway.
:lol:
If only more guys were like you life ( and Dogging ) would be even better. Keep it up.
Jackie and Ben
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As you approach MK turn left and head under the bridge towards the town centre you will find Shangri-la. .............. oh no sorry thats the Shangri-la Chinese Takeaway.
:lol: If only more guys were like you life ( and Dogging ) would be even better. Keep it up.
Jackie and Ben
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Official members of the Jomu Fan Club
Agreed. We're quite new to the dogging scene and both find the idea VERY exciting. We've been having sex in car parks for a few years now, but every place we go in Shropshire now we seem to find crowds of teenagers or single guys hanging around talking to each other.
Now don't get us wrong, we're not saying that we have an exclusive right to these car parks, but when you're the only couple there it is quite intimidating.
Last Friday we went out quite late for a spot of alfresco fun and found ourselves at one of our particular fave places which is very nicely out of the way and enclosed...perfect. We got there and the place was empty, which is no problem for us since we don't mind NOT having an audience but just as we were getting started a crappy little metro arrived, did a handbreak turn and sped away. This put us off a little but since they'd decided to disappear we carried on, only to have another rustbucket turn up with it's full beams on. This decided to point their headlights straight at us for a few seconds before parking near us. From where we were we could see that it had five kids in it and suddenly they decided to start playing music at ear-busting decibels.........
We left.........came home and had our fun there.
Oh well, there might be another day.
J & D
Now don't get us wrong, we're not saying that we have an exclusive right to these car parks, but when you're the only couple there it is quite intimidating.
Last Friday we went out quite late for a spot of alfresco fun and found ourselves at one of our particular fave places which is very nicely out of the way and enclosed...perfect. We got there and the place was empty, which is no problem for us since we don't mind NOT having an audience but just as we were getting started a crappy little metro arrived, did a handbreak turn and sped away. This put us off a little but since they'd decided to disappear we carried on, only to have another rustbucket turn up with it's full beams on. This decided to point their headlights straight at us for a few seconds before parking near us. From where we were we could see that it had five kids in it and suddenly they decided to start playing music at ear-busting decibels.........
We left.........came home and had our fun there.
Oh well, there might be another day.
J & D