I have been active on this iste for a few months and posted a couple of subjects on the forum. However, whilst I have had over 30 viewings of the topics, I have only had one reply from Mal in Lancashire!
So, I wish to ask the question - Do Female or Couples Swingers and/or Doggers exist in Cumbria?
If so, why am I getting no responses to my posts.
Any advice would be appreciated!
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Do Female or Couples Swingers/Doggers Exist in Cumbria?
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Sex God
First, 30 viewing is not a lot! So what if 30 people have looked at your post, obviously those 30 were not females or couples in Cumbria, or in fact anyone wanting what you have to offer 
More importantly, I've just looked at the massive amount of posts you've made - all 10 of them! :shock: Don't take this the wrong way, but they sound like posts made by yet another desperate single guy! You say next to nothing about yourself and there is nothing in them that indicates that you are a nice guy who people would want to meet above other guys on this site.
The way to succeed on this forum is to join in with discussions and let people know you as a person. It takes time and patience, like making friends in the real world does. Do not expect an instant shag! If you can't be arsed to do this, Swinging heaven is not for you, go and find another site to advertise on
More importantly, I've just looked at the massive amount of posts you've made - all 10 of them! :shock: Don't take this the wrong way, but they sound like posts made by yet another desperate single guy! You say next to nothing about yourself and there is nothing in them that indicates that you are a nice guy who people would want to meet above other guys on this site.
The way to succeed on this forum is to join in with discussions and let people know you as a person. It takes time and patience, like making friends in the real world does. Do not expect an instant shag! If you can't be arsed to do this, Swinging heaven is not for you, go and find another site to advertise on
Thanks Blue
Points Noted. I think I need to change the content of my posts as if they give you the 'desperate' impression then they will be doing that to other readers also. Just to point out, I'm not desperate for a shag but I am confused as to why almost every other geographic area has some form of 'local community' if you like, however Cumbria doesn't!
Come on you Cumbrians do we really have that much of a reserved nature that we can't do cyber communication?
Points Noted. I think I need to change the content of my posts as if they give you the 'desperate' impression then they will be doing that to other readers also. Just to point out, I'm not desperate for a shag but I am confused as to why almost every other geographic area has some form of 'local community' if you like, however Cumbria doesn't!
Come on you Cumbrians do we really have that much of a reserved nature that we can't do cyber communication?
Sex God
Yes, I think you definately need to change the way you post. If you intend to use SH regularly, you should get yourself known on the forum. I do take your point about the lack of anything in Cumbria. I've heard Cumbrians complain about the lack of locations there, and I know some people from there actually travel all the way to Lancs for dogging :shock:
