While at a dogging site this evening i was sat waiting as i usually do and a couple pulled up in a silver convertable. I sat waiting in my car as not to frighten them away.
After a couple of minutes there indicators flashed, I proceeded to drive passed them and they where going hell for leather in the passenger seat. I pulled up behind there car but there wasn't any lights on. I got out of my car and gingerly walked passed but they appeared to be oblivious. I stood for a bit watching when another car pulled up. With this the couple stopped and the lady got out of the car, fixed herself and they drove off.
Can someone please tell me if I did anything wrong by getting out of my car when there where no lights on in theres, I took the indicators flashing as a come on and if i offended them i am truly sorry.
By the way if I wasn't to blame and you where that couple please get in touch as I would appreciate a longer uninterupted display.
Andy
By the way, it was near warrington in a layby on a road that runs paralell with the M56
just a thought,the flashing indicators could have been the driver locking the doors of the car before the fun started but on the other hand it may have been a signal for you to approach and they may have been happy with just you watching,when the other car came near,that may have been one to many for that couple and they decided to leave,did you watch to see if they wanted you to follow them to another location,sometimes that can remember dogging is not an exact science,if your not sure whether a signal is for you or not,wait for a second signal,if none is forthcomming you then have to make a decision whether to approach or not,On this point there isn't a definative answer,go with your instincts,sometimes they will be correct,sometimes not,welcome to dogging,john,
Thanks for the advice John
And the dogging nation descends into a spelling competition..............
My belief is that you were right to approach, you weren't intrusive nor did you didn't bang on the windows or demand they illuminate themselves for your pleasure - we would have been more than happy with your approach and yes sometimes the glare of another pair of headlights is your cue to shut up your windows have a steamy haze on them you are never too sure if it's the police patrolling or not.
I think you were right to approach and I'm sure they were enjoying another pair of eyes watching them in action.
We apologise if there are any spelling errors in our message, but c'mon this is not a school day is it?
Happy Dogging - Tom and Daisy (Wakefield, West Yorkshire, 389337)
hey its only a spelling correction - u idiots
Mod edit:
This abusive post has caused this person to become a banned member. Please don't tell others 'fuck you' or 'u idiots' it just leads me to use my zapping fingers!
you have 30 second to publically apologise for your pm or your stay at swingingheaven will be over very !!!! shortly
I would like to thank you all for your replies and each one has been taken on board even the spelling mistake.
In all my future listings I will be running a spell check so as not to be publicly humiliated by such an intellectual.
Once again
Thanks
Sorry about that Andy, I thought it was meant for me!!