Is it just us or is everyone the same when it comes down to meeting up.. : :?: we are very new to this & have contacted a couple of members over the past few months that’s local to us to try & arrange a meet up with them, we have even added them to our MSN & chatted on there for a few days. We have even sent pics & gone live over the webcam. BUT as soon as we try to fix up a local meet with them out in the open, no one ever knows where to go we have run around for hours trying to find the perfect spot local to us, but have had no luck as yet in finding somewhere out of the way. We don’t like the idea of going into any old car park for the simple reason of getting caught out. Dose anyone else have the same problems as us.?? :cry: will my hubby ever get to take pics of me with someone else.?
How simple do you want me to try explain this..? We have already said above that we are very new to this, so no for the first few times we don’t want to get caught out by anyone. we would like to just arrange to meet up with 1 local guy, go meet him & take it from there. we do not want to go to any known dogging spots to meet up & then 5 or more men turn up all at once hoping to join in with us. All we are pointing outis that we have spoken to around 5 or more very local guys & when it comes round to saying "Ok lets meet up" even though they are local to us none of them knows of anywhere to meet up. We was just wondering if anyone else has the same problems as us, dose this happen often.? So to answer your question NO we are not just looking for people to supply us with locations
Quote by swingpembs Are you just looking to meet a single guy or would a couple be ok? we have msn
That’s another thing that annoys us very much, when we say LOCAL we don’t mean (168 miles from you) is local. Local is around 10 to 15 miles away not 168 miles, Sorry swingpembs you just a little bit too far away to class yourself as local
So Sorry to have ANNOYED you But you have made the mistake of assuming that the distance the SH profile gives you is correct rather than asking where we are based But no worries Im sure you will find someone
Hi DL hun, I did feel for you with your problems as it can be very hard to master a meet as people do lie and some do truely get lost (Probabley down to sat nav sending them in the wrong direction). The ones that say there going to turn up but then dont and when you ask them why they say they got lost, is annoying. My advice would be try to give directions plus map ref (if its possible) in your pm for the meet if it is a hard place to find. Also Try a get a seperate mobile that you will use for meets and give out that number so people can phone to say if there lost or not going to show. I know this works for another lady on here. I would also have a little black book and record details of the timewasters so that you dont get messed about. Well hope I have answered your question with this and if you are intrested in arranging a meet with me I would be delighted to attend and not let you down. Have fun Kind Regards Mark
Find a wood. Go to it. Park. Shag. How hard can it be to find somewhere to have sex ? Every kid with a car manages. Try looking in your area with multimap...streetmap...or even google earth... Have you tried your back garden ? http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/swingers-forum/viewtopic/73005.html
Iguess you haven't seen the woods this time of year.? There are no leaves on any of the trees or bushes & from any road side or car park you can see right into any woods for hundreds of yards
Quote by jomu Have you tried your back garden ?
I don’t think my children would appreciate us doing this, or the old lady next door to us Are You Mad.? :crazy:
Quote by DLTease Find a wood. Go to it. Park. Shag.
Iguess you haven't seen the woods this time of year.? There are no leaves on any of the trees or bushes & from any road side or car park you can see right into any woods for hundreds of yards
I read this post & found that it annoyed me so I left it & read another post or 2 but found myself having to come back to put in my two penny worth. I understand that life throws new & exciting experiences to everyone constantly so at some point we have help & advice is always welcome, although it seems not in this case. DLT you have posted on a dogging forum so one would presume that you are asking this from a dogging point of view, so my answer would be no I am not the same as you because when I go out dogging the whole point is to watch or be watched (or caught out as you put it) But what annoyed me the most is that Gurl took the time to respond to your post & quite clearly stated that she didnt quite understand your post & also apologised if in her answer she had misunderstood. You had the audacity to reply with sarcasm as though she was a moron & was suggesting something horrifying! It then goes on when swingpembs asks a simple question & your reply is equally as rude as your last. So my final answer to your post is grow up, stop spitting your dummy out, practice on the manners & then MAYBE you will find some friends to enable hubby to take some mild holiday snaps of you with someone other than by yourself!!!!!!!
Quote by lilacgem I read this post & found that it annoyed me so I left it & read another post or 2 but found myself having to come back to put in my two penny worth. I understand that life throws new & exciting experiences to everyone constantly so at some point we have help & advice is always welcome, although it seems not in this case. DLT you have posted on a dogging forum so one would presume that you are asking this from a dogging point of view, so my answer would be no I am not the same as you because when I go out dogging the whole point is to watch or be watched (or caught out as you put it) But what annoyed me the most is that Gurl took the time to respond to your post & quite clearly stated that she didnt quite understand your post & also apologised if in her answer she had misunderstood. You had the audacity to reply with sarcasm as though she was a moron & was suggesting something horrifying! It then goes on when swingpembs asks a simple question & your reply is equally as rude as your last. So my final answer to your post is grow up, stop spitting your dummy out, practice on the manners & then MAYBE you will find some friends to enable hubby to take some mild holiday snaps of you with someone other than by yourself!!!!!!!
Yeah, right. Gurl's been in the game longer than most on here.....I think she deserves a better reply...I think you've lost the plot, the whole point of dogging is being SEEN having sex and SEEING sex. Look on it this way, if you're seen the worst you can expect is someone to fall over laughing....the best is they'll stop and watch....either way, result. You get seen and a new dogger is out and about.
To be honest we didn’t even post this question in the dogging section of the forums, we posted in the cafe but I guess someone in there thought it belongs in here rather than in there. anyway we appreciate all your comments & i apologise to gurl for my reply to there feedback, But it gets a bit annoying when after going through days & days of chatting to people that’s local & even going live over the webcam (& doing everything they ask) but then when we come to arrange to meet them, no one knows where to go :x Anyway rant over; I hope my apology is accepted. I will now go practice on the manners & also to keep my dummy tight between my legs, until the time comes where we meet someone Thanks DLT xx
Dogging is more or less a random process based on being persistant and tuning into the 'feel' of it. There are some well known sites and if you hang out you will meet other peeps. It is possible to make some arrangements when you get to know people well enough, so at least on some sessions you won't be alone. But generally most people actually just prefer to take their chances and don't mind driving about. If you are trying to make a meet in the way you describe, then you should consider finding a location where you are happy. So you know where you are going. Also arrange to meet new peeps in a public place. ie cafe on the motorway or well known spot. So there's no risk and you can go to your private spot later on. If you are really finding meeting by dogging too difficult, then don't do it. Just get membership to a swingers club and hang out there.
i think you need to see this from a different angle firstly as a dogger and fairly well traveled around the south of england the number of times i have seen guys from my local area is amaising so to ask a good dogger for an unused spot is in the rocking horse sh*t group. secondly your looking for them so you call the shots ie. where, when, what you do. so go find a place a wood with ever green in it and away you go. local is fine but to close to home might get you seen by next door walking the dog! thats why many couples are happy to drive a few miles for a safe meet. its easy to ask an unwanted dogger to walk on but it your not one of the men in black then you may have a problem with a neigboure or friend out for a walk theres good advice in this thread from some well seasoned peaple. i would say get a meet under your belts where ever it is and you will have a better ideal of how to make the next one better chill out good luck s
Quote by DLTease But it gets a bit annoying when after going through days & days of chatting to people that’s local & even going live over the webcam (& doing everything they ask) but then when we come to arrange to meet them, no one knows where to go :x
Do you think that maybe, as you are prepared to do everything they ask on cam - that's all they're really interested in? I'd switch off the cam and follow Simon's advice, find a location and you set the rules for those invited ......... you sound far too willing to dance to someone else's tune tbh
You need to sort-out what you DO want. You seem to want everything. Cammers are not doggers....it may seem that everyone could wander about in a carpark at night, but it ain't like that....many guys are so shit-scared about getting out the car they may as well stay at home. Go sit in a carpark for a while....and wait for a shadow or two.... Remember, they'll do what you ask...so don't put up with any old bollocks....decide what you want and go for that....never mind all this "gotta be kind to the guys" shite.....carparks are full of spare cocks waiting for a home, even if it's a warm hand...their own !
Hello peeps, i understand your problems, to at least 8 decimal points. It is just the nature of the game.... sometimes its the hanging around doing nothing but thinking that every car that comes in will contain the most entertaining show on earth, just to get disappointed that it is a couple of chavs coming in for a joint. So is this forum still filled with the wrong sort of moans and groans?? Oh what fun How is everyone btw? Good to see that Jomo still has his words of wisdom and wit about him, and i have so missed the serendipity Avatar BBx
Quote by Serendipity Well helllllllllo stranger! Last time I saw you, you were enjoying the thought of being tied to a tree and tormented! Very nice to have you back!! xx
Oh the trees!!! did you know the trees have eyes............ and if you are very lucky soft hands to stroke you with. aaaaahhhhhh Well some of use dont stay away for long, as parting is such sweet sorrow So same old same old problems i see, chavs in the night? police on the prowl?! all the fun at the mill then. BBx
When I were a lad, the thought of driving around for ages looking for the perfect spot with my girl would have meant death from frustration! Any car park with trees at the back was good enough for a shag when it's dark. In those days I didn't know what dogging was and I don't think we ever were watched. But I used to get a kick out of an occasional car driving in, headlights blazing and sweeping across us for a moment, to pull up further along and after ten minutes starting to rock gently and rythmically on its springs. So we weren't the only ones!
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Is it just us or is everyone the same when it comes down to meeting up.. 
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we have run around for hours trying to find the perfect spot local to us, but have had no luck as yet in finding somewhere out of the way. We don’t like the idea of going into any old car park for the simple reason of getting caught out.
