I have checked the dogging site list attached to this site but it seems very out of date. i went to Aylesford car park last week and was disappointed at the amount of messers who kept putting their lights on and lots of men wandering around and generally putting people off. Does any one know of a genuine quiet site for people like me who are discreet and not pushy,turn down car lights when entering and leaving area and generally will not pester couples unless invited(by internal light being put on or several blinks of lights etc). So please someone give me some help here I am desperate to empty these aching limbs.