first time "showers" some thoughts from dirty.

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.naturally it only deals with a small percentage,but as most interactive couples probably start as show couples,this may be of interest to everyone.

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bloody minefield aint it,fine looking through the guidelines,and reading through posts from more experienced couples,but whats it really like?well,for most of the couples here,including ourselves,we just did it,and somehow got through the initiation intact,although in hindsight,there are things,given our time again,that we would have done us say at this point,that for us,the dogging experience has,and continues to be,a very positive influence in our relationship....................ok,so you have looked at this forum for a while,you want to add something to your sex life,but are not too keen on swinging,or sharing your partner with others,you think maybe dogging may just be the tonic you are seeking,but its a big move to actually go out and hit the carpark isnt it?...................probably the thing that makes the reality,somewhat less exciting than the fantasy,is lack of understanding,regarding your own ,these issues resolve themselves with experience,if you stick with with many things in life,such as holidays,christmas and losing your virginity,the anticipation is always better than the reality,which is why lottery outlets,travel agents and hookers ask you to pay in advance!..of course,you might win the lottery,but if your night out isnt quite as magical as you expected,then ask yourself,what is?...what will probably happen though is this,you will go home feeling as horny as hell,the memories will flood your mind over the next few days,you will feel yourself smiling at work,like recalling those sunset walks on that sardinian beach,it wont be long before you are booking your next trip!......................right,how are you really going to feel?ok,think about are in the park,and wish to take a rest,you find an unoccupied bench,and plonk yourself down,about a foot from one later,a guy comes along,and,although you are the only person on the bench,he chooses to sit right down next to you,well,thats pretty much how your going to feel,until you get used to that night,you take your girl to the pub,she is dressed sexily,you feel proud to be associated with you notice a guy looking at her legs,well,to be expected,but when he notices you looking,he doesn't make any effort to avert his gaze,now how do you feel?..you're about to feel it again.............................so,you are going for it,just showing,your not gonna get carried away in the heat of it,i'm not asking you,i'm telling you!!..into the carpark,shit,the first thing you see is a 10 strong group laughing and joking amongst themselves...ooops,too late,they clocked you,two of them are bent right down looking as you pass,fuck,the expression on his face,you want to giggle now,its kinda funny being in that limelight,its because they are so serious now,like u would laugh if u walked through a resturant in fancy dress,when nobody else a crap comparison,but i know,that u know what i mean....ok,so you park up,lights off,and..oooh this is tough,engine off...forget signals mate,look,someones walking over,an interior light on over there,yeah,he's getting out tight,shit,what the fuck was that,the car moved,someones out there,aah,fuck,dont say nothing,he's right by your window,,blimey,that made the ole ticker go didn't it?oh no,i dont believe it,the whole bloody mob are over there now,where,look,just behind us....i'm not doing anything here says she,cant we go somewhere else instead,where are all the other couples anyway.....not quite as you planned,hey....bad choice of carpark really,why are you feeling tense,you knew blokes were going to watch,aah,forgot,first time,and you aint feeling in control are you,well,are you?..that doesnt feel right does it?..so,what are we going to do about it,wind the win dow down,say we are going to show,but only want two at i time...dont make me laugh,these guys have been waiting all night for this,who is going to walk away now?twat...anyway,your showwas going to be spontaneous,what u taking bookings for a schedualed performance for?...there is another carpark though,down the road,lets go there....i do not believe it,look at them,fuck's sake,its a stampede,oh fuck,thats it,four,five and yep,thought so,six bloody cars...and,yes,surprise surprise,they are all coming in..thats it boys,wankers,park up right next to the car,cant get any closer can you mate....calm down,blimey,you came here to shag ur missus didn't you?{me talking}.......christ,its him again,what we gonna do?.....oh,its ok,he isnt coming over this time,look at em,vultures...oh,spoke too soon,just saw a shadow walk past your side,yep,look,he's still there...well look,lets bin it tonight,we'll come out when its less busy,i aint doing nothing with idiots like that about,shouldn't think you are feeling that horny either are you?.....well,without knowing it,you may well have caught the dogg bug,the experience wasn't that sexy,but,probably wasn't as negative as it might have probably was an underlying buzz,which will make the sex tonight a little more passionate....you'll get used to it,the feelings of aggression will subside,its just instincts at work,its the same for everyone at first,you'll laugh about it later you use a busy venue,let the crowds get accustomed to your being there without doing anything,you can then play to small audiences,building up to bigger ones as and when you are ,you will be branded timewasters and prickteasers,so what,live with it,its in your interests for them to think that,after all,you can show them otherwise anytime you ,less is often mysterious,dont neccesarily get into conversations either,it could be troublesome in the days are more interesting when unread,in that state they promise knowledge,once read,their value is know that small portions will imply quality,so dont be tempted to give too much too soon if you want to keep an edge to the excitement,it will keep the voyuers keener too....now listen,this is isnt meant as a definative guide,other couples may dissagree with certain elements,thats fine,listen to all opinions with an open mind....if i hope to achieve anything here,its to give potential new show couples some idea of what they may realistically encounter on a first trip,and how to deal with it prevents one couple from wheelspinning out of a busy carpark with his or her emotions running riot,then to me,it will be worth it only deals with a small percentage,but as most interactive couples probably start as show couples,this may be of interest to everyone.

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Would,nt worry for one minute about being too long winded Dirty. just look at how many people read your posts! I for one will look forward to any future posts as you write with much honesty and wit,I,m sure you,ll end up with a fanclub for your posts alone! Keep up the good work xxx