following

16 Sep 2005

This has probably been discussed before but, what do people think about being followed from a dogging site?
I mean, what is the point?
It seems to happen regular.
We are not really doggers, but would be nice to hear others opinions.
Have you ever followed anybody, and was it worth it?
Why? confused

16 Sep 2005

I have, on occaision, follow a couple from a site when they have indicated that they wanted following. Quite a bit of fun has been had from this and I have been told that some couples 'select' people to follow to play with and then you follow to a more discrete venue. There have been a couple of times when I have got the signals wrong - apologies - but theses are pretty rare.
Steve

16 Sep 2005

its one of the things you get used to i guess, and fortunately, its not that common in our experience..
the majority of times, the guys think you may be moving onto another site, once you have past it, they'll peel off.
on accassion, there will be someone so optimistic, he'll interpret any gesture as a signal to 'll blind himself to the fact that brakelights, upon reaching the venue's exit point, aren't actually a "tease"..even exchanging a glance with a dogger when passing by might instigate a pied piper effect..often, when one follows, others take it as a sign that "he's in the know", then it becomes a mass exodus lol

we had a strange one a few weeks ago..we weren't even out dogging..we'd been walking in a forest, nowhere near our usual haunt, but there did seem to be a few guys sat around in cars..when we left the area, one followed..bearing in mind we were in a bloody great 4x4, and he was driving what appeared to be a nissan micra or something, envoironmental issues aside, he didn't seem to be in a position to intimidate, so we took him on a nice scenic tour of the countryside..after 12 miles i got bored, so left him behind in a black sooty cloud..bet he looked like biggles when he emerged from that fucker.
when it happens at its a real piss-off though..we've had it a few times, but only twice have things gotton silly..one i outlined a while back, so i won't repeat it here..the other was weird though..it had the hallmarks of a "follow" from early on in the evening..the guy was a real pain, i could not shake him..i even threatned to stick a lump hammer through his screen, he just took off, but was waiting down the road..eventually we got to a town that i knew well, and we parked up..it was getting light and i hadn't had a beer..that was bad news..it was one of those moments when you are capable of doing something really fucking stupid, like ramming him full on..he just sat the end, i just drove to the cop shop and he legged it..dunno why, theres never anyone in there :lol:
the followers do sometimes get rewarded, as mentioned above..i'm not advocating it, but some couples enjoy that game..its not for me to go into details here, but "singledogger" will back me up when i say there are couples that visit our venue that enjoy the cat and mouse scenario, then there are those couples that will actively encourage doggers to follow, only to stop, wait untill the guy approaches, then speed off throwing all manner of obscenities :lol: ahh, what a game..happy days :lol: