Hi sweetbabe, Well my advice to you both as being new to this is the following:- 1) Have a look in the dogging section to see if there is a place near you, then have a venture out in the daytime so you get to have a better knowledge of it. As when its dark it is hard to see where your going and this usally ends up with people putting their head lights onto full beams, which can anoy most doggers. 2) The best way is to join the chat room and make yourselves known to other members because their are couples / blokes from your area. So if you build up a relationship then you will have better fun dogging than just being sat bored in your car. 3) Also if you do find a spot you like, then place a message in the forum about what, who you want to attend and with usally the date. But dont and I mean dont say the place name or the time as you will end up having boy racers, idiots and probably the police turning up. Ask for people to PM you with their details and then you have the right to choose who could be genuine or not. Hope this helps you, just a shame I am on the otherside of the country lol Have fun Regards Mark