Hi to you wife and I have discussed 'dogging' and the idea does have had threesomes b4 but this is new.
I think the biggest fear we have is lack of control over the happens if there are dozens of blokes appearing out of the trees during a session - I'm sure we're being silly but I love my partner obviously and would not want to put her in a situation where she could be hurt or felt she had to accomodate more people than she wanted to (to make me happy)-just for the sake of something sexually different.
We want anyone suggest some helpful info (weve read the tips).Please don't leave 'call me and I'll show you messages'.
Leave that till later when we know what we are doing!!
Many thanks to you all.
Splatt :shock:
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Help a newbie anyone?
Here is my advice for what it's worth.
1. Find yourself a location that your happy with-probably quite near to your home in case things don't go to plan. I would pick a farly secluded car park or picnic spot that is not listed as a well-known dogging site. That will avoid the danger of being swamped by groups of over-eager men.
2. Post an Advert or forum posting giving a precise time and location and making it clear that your new to the scene and will not tolerate any over-pushy behavior.
3. Or to be really safe ask for some emails from people in your area (UK is far too broad a category!) and if you like the look/sound of them you can set up a pre-arranged dog.
4. Actually turn up at the precise time/location!
5. Set your expectations quite low at first. You will probably get replies from a few plonkers/wannabees but you might just find someone you get along with. You may have some wasted journeys where no-one shows up so take a good book. The order of the phoenix seems to be this forum's favourite/least favourite book of the month (delete which does not apply)
6. Remember the golden rule-you are in control and your doing this for your benefit first and anyone elses second.
7. When your a bit more used to how the experience feels you can maybe move onto some of the busier sites.
My God-I sound like my grandmother!
Hope you find what your looking for,
CJ
ps you don't have to be a member of the Klu-Klux-Klan to be a wizard under the sheets...
1. Find yourself a location that your happy with-probably quite near to your home in case things don't go to plan. I would pick a farly secluded car park or picnic spot that is not listed as a well-known dogging site. That will avoid the danger of being swamped by groups of over-eager men.
2. Post an Advert or forum posting giving a precise time and location and making it clear that your new to the scene and will not tolerate any over-pushy behavior.
3. Or to be really safe ask for some emails from people in your area (UK is far too broad a category!) and if you like the look/sound of them you can set up a pre-arranged dog.
4. Actually turn up at the precise time/location!
5. Set your expectations quite low at first. You will probably get replies from a few plonkers/wannabees but you might just find someone you get along with. You may have some wasted journeys where no-one shows up so take a good book. The order of the phoenix seems to be this forum's favourite/least favourite book of the month (delete which does not apply)
6. Remember the golden rule-you are in control and your doing this for your benefit first and anyone elses second.
7. When your a bit more used to how the experience feels you can maybe move onto some of the busier sites.
My God-I sound like my grandmother!
Hope you find what your looking for,
CJ
ps you don't have to be a member of the Klu-Klux-Klan to be a wizard under the sheets...
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we are m42 f 37 slim and fit. We are also new to the scene and would like to meet other couple and perhaps invite some vetted single males to watch....we are planning our first outing near Reading on sat nite, if you are interested email boondox_
