Help appreciated

10 May 2004

Am not sure if this is the correct forum for this, but here goes:
This is all a new thing to me.
Lets assume I drive into a well known dogging site for day time doggers.
Lets assume I want to get into someones car and play with their goods. As a bloke, how do I let other men know I want some action.
When I went into the above site, I was willing to have everyone in the park, but all that I saw was a bunch of lone men in cars ... just sitting on their own.
I want to drive in and have some action within 5 minutes, can someone tell me what to do or look out for ? What are the signals, signs I need to either give out or look out for ?
Would appriciate it some of you could talk me through the whole protocol thing .... I know about night time protocol ( switch lights on ), but, know nothing about daytime protocol?
I want some action so, if any of you know what to do, let me know the score on my pms confused

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Thanks.
May eventually see and feel some of you out there.

10 May 2004

Does anyone know the routine ?
Just add what you know ... anything will help a complete novice.

10 May 2004

You want to drive in and have some action in five minutes, you are dreaming. It may take hours,days or sometimes weeks of patience.

10 May 2004

I gather from your message that you want sex with other guys ?
Doggers, inevitably, are there to watch m/f action.
If you want sex with other guys, the routine (from months sitting in laybys and car parks !) seems to be that you wander about with your hands in your pants pockets...usually disappearing into the trees as well. Then again, you could always walk past the others cars (hands in pockets) and see if any manual action is happening, if it is...carry on !
Many seem to be reading an AA road map, with their hands under the book.
If you want to meet others, try the lets meet section.

11 May 2004

Thanks for reading the question properly jomo.
Will take that advice on board.
Anyone else with some wisdom in this m/m area ?

2 Jun 2004

Noticed men driving off flashing their break lights .... what is this all about ... am I supposed to follow if I want some cock action ?

3 Jun 2004

We drive in, park up and look about for a while, not sure if we have ever been watched having sex but the thrill that someone might be watching is brilliant. We have been approached once and asked for a light! Gave the guy a light and off he went back to his car that was parked feet from ours. We don't have lights on or flash lights but would love some way of indicating that we are looking for male on male action too. Sorry we can't offer any wisdom but would appreciate hearing about anything you find out. Thanx.

3 Jun 2004

Speaking from a couples perspective. You drive in with lights off so as not to blind and disturb others. Park up - sit in the dark, and flash your lights a couple of times. This (I am told) indicates your are interested. We are had guys come to our car - wind down window and see what each other is looking for. The rest is history. lol Happy hunting.

13 Jun 2004

I get the impression that one needs to just bumble along until you discover something that works for you.

14 Jun 2004

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14 Jun 2004

Jomu as usual is spot on . If youre after gay action then at dogging spots its genrally harder to bloody well avoid it than to get it ! Silky stopped at our fav doggin spot on her own one lunch time to eat her sarnies and had a guy wander straight up to the car next to her and whip his dick out while another guy sucked it !
As Jomu sez the courtship of the gay cottager is far less protracted and complex than with us hetero weirdo's .
Just make sure you are careful when approaching large tattoed fellas in white vans , im not saying there arent any gay blokes fitting that discription , but its probably better to make sure they arent a brickie out doggin for couples rofl .
Good Luck

12 May 2005

Wow, experienced an amazing time last month, drove into a layby on the A449 after a meeting that went on into the evening and saw a group of men at the back of an Estate car, I strolled over and what I saw was so blooming fantastic. A bbw systematically blowing off each bloke till they came. You women that dog are amazing, well done.