Now i guess this subject comes up all the time,,,, I'm a single male(oh no i hear you shout!) i thought i would give dogging a go now i live in suffolk and have been trying a well known spot on the A14 in the 50 limit (i'm sure you know where), However as of yet the place has only ever had single males sitting in cars waiting, i have parked up and waited but as yet have seen nothing more than single men in their cars, driving around, parking up or driving on, really the question is this, if one night i/we are lucky enough to have a couple drive in and around the site, what happens? ie do the select just one person from the many parked up? how do they show there intensions?, or do they just go for it and we all fight for the best view?lol,,,, some points of guidence please!
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hi conron..we are familiar with the A14 site you refer too, we've "shown" there a couple of times, as have some friends of reckon a return visit is long overdue as the lads have always looked after us well there.
if you are willing to venture north, a visit to some of the forest sites around the thetford area might pay dividends, especially around the weekend..the guidelines will give you a little insight, but your best ploy would be to just get amongst it and see..you sound like a decent enough fellow..drop us a pm sometime, we'll give you a few local pointers, maybe we'll stop by and give you a look soon, we rather fancy the change of scenery
if you are willing to venture north, a visit to some of the forest sites around the thetford area might pay dividends, especially around the weekend..the guidelines will give you a little insight, but your best ploy would be to just get amongst it and see..you sound like a decent enough fellow..drop us a pm sometime, we'll give you a few local pointers, maybe we'll stop by and give you a look soon, we rather fancy the change of scenery
Thanks for the advice guys, it just seems a bit daunting being in one place with so many cars just driving up and around, guess it takes some getting used too!.... lol
PS, a question to other male doggers, is it ok/right to engage in conversation when we are waiting? as i said it sems very daunting and tense in that situation, specially when cars are just driving round and round ?, any advice please?,
Thanks
PS, a question to other male doggers, is it ok/right to engage in conversation when we are waiting? as i said it sems very daunting and tense in that situation, specially when cars are just driving round and round ?, any advice please?,
Thanks
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PS, a question to other male doggers, is it ok/right to engage in conversation when we are waiting? as i said it sems very daunting and tense in that situation, specially when cars are just driving round and round ?, any advice please?,
Thanks
Hi Conron,
It can be a little daunting at times but you do get used to it. There are no real rules about talking. I tend to find that if you visit a place quite regularly, then you get to see the same cars around. I usually get out and have a cigarette when there are a few cars around and on many occasions people have approached me for a chat. It's a hell of a lot better that sitting talking to yourself all night
I have made a few contacts like this but some people do not want to be approached so I find it's better to give them the opportunity to approach you.
:!: WARNING! Please be cautious, there are a lot of idiots out there who are NOT dogging and may try to mug you. Remember, you are usually on a car park in the middle of nowhere so make sure you can get into your car quick if you have to.
The main thing is to be safe and just use common sense! Don't worry about feeling a little tense, we all do at times, that's part of the fun :happy:
PM if you need any advise!
Bren
