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Help please - new couple - Crawley Horsham Sussex - daytimes

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We’d be glad of some advice about getting into dogging safely.
We are an attractive couple 42 & 52 wanting an intro to dogging around Crawley, Horsham & areas Southwards.
We only have daytimes available and mostly mornings at that.
I know we won’t find much going on daytimes, but maybe if we advertise here we might generate an observer or two.
Initially we only wish to be observed but the intention is that she will move on to allowing participation under my direction at a later stage.
So a question or two for the more experienced if you don’t mind.
Can anyone suggest safe locations? At least we can go there, suss them out and have a shag! I don’t think I trust any place that is blatantly listed here up front. And many places in daylight will be full of WI members walking dogs, picking mushrooms and stealing wild orchids.
Is there any kind of signal to recognise doggers in daylight? Interior lights ain’t going to work!
When she moves on to active participation, we don’t want a free-for-all – how do you guys select people without causing offence to others? How do you keep control of the situation?
We are serious and genuine and would be very glad to hear from anyone in our area who can help us avoid the pitfalls. All advice gratefully received. Given the sensitivities expressed elsewhere on this site, and the fact that we are new members, I’m more than happy to state, in black and white, that we have absolutely no connection with any law-enforcement agency! OK?
I know from experience, that people of one kinky persuasion can still be intolerant of people with other kinky tastes – is dogging fairly broad church in accepting the kind of ‘performance’ on offer (no – not animals or worse, but whilst vanilla is great, we greatly enjoy other stuff too) ?
Cheers
Richard
Welcome!
You'll find all the information you need in the stickies at the top of each forum - please read them cos they'll really help. Also most locations can be found if you look to your left and click on the 'dogging sites' link in green. Some locations are dodgy cos people keep on posting exact times and locations here so please don't do that - nutters and rogues can sometimes read too!! biggrin
People may want to respond to you by PM (see above on the right) so, if you see that message change then click on the PM link and you will be taken to your inbox.
Hope it works for you.
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Had some replies - thanks guys.
It's going to take a little longer that I thought, reasons outside my control...
Got a spot south of Crawley and will be in touch for a Thurs morning in a few (couple) of weeks time hopefully....