My Girlfriend has finally agreed that this is something she would like to try, BUT we have one small problem, she at first just wants to be able to play to a crowd on bonnet of car and play with me, she is a little concerned how she can keep people at a distance at this moment in time, can anybody offer any help Thanks in anticipation
Hi, we go dogging quite a bit and BMW always makes it clear to guys that its watch only, no touching etc, I think you just have to be clear as to what is going to be acceptable behaviour from the guys watching, and if they overstep then you just get back in your car and leave. It has to be fun for the both of you too
We agree entirely. Dont be afraid to spell it out verbally that it is 'wank but dont touch'. It is important to be verbal about this otherwise the bad mannered wankers wont understand. It will also depend where you will be going to live out your fantasy, there are many great places but equally some frustrating places frequented by the younger wankers that are old enough to drive in circles like twats but not old enough to wank and watch respectfully. When we go out, she enjoys but he is in control, if that makes sense. He knows what she wants and he keeps an eye on things, and 9 times out of 10 there is absolutely no problem. Enjoy
We tend to do more “photographic shows” than shag shows these days, and we always do that “around” the car as opposed to in it. Trust me, when you have a camera to hand few will attempt to intervene. I struggle to spread the legs on an ironing board nowadays so my Canon compact is my salvation in car parks. As the others have said, communication is the key when you are “showing” outside. When we are doing photos we don’t say a dicky bird, preferring that the guys feel they are stealing a peek rather than it being show by invitation. If it is a shag show rather than a shoot, guys will often assume involvement unless told otherwise. One will usually try to edge in front of the others so he is first to the “ocky” , then those behind will punch him in the kidneys rendering him temporality immobile whilst they seize the advantage. Note from images below how quickly dogger on right moves in for the "butt grope" when I thought my camera batteries had "gone down on me". Usage of such innuendos in a sexually charged environment should be avoided He was thereby invitation really , but since BigG taught me how to upload pics to site I can't help myself :sad: I've got some good aeroplane ones if you want to see them?
Why not try an arranged meet with 1 or even 2 guys if she fancies a "crowd" , that way you can set down the ground rules before you get there so that they know the score. If you prefer a spur of the moment meet with no arranging then perhaps you could play in the car until she gets a bit more confident , that way guys can only touch if you put window down. As the others have said ,the main thing is you are in charge , don't ever be afraid or embarrassed to say no. If they don't like it then they are not the sort of people you were looking for anyway.
Quote by Tazman1965 My Girlfriend has finally agreed that this is something she would like to try, BUT we have one small problem, she at first just wants to be able to play to a crowd on bonnet of car and play with me, she is a little concerned how she can keep people at a distance at this moment in time, can anybody offer any help Thanks in anticipation
We've done it a few times - if you make it clear no one will intervene. A comment like 'watch only lads please' or 'stand back please' does the job
just hold on once this gets seem a good dogger will contact you he will have a couple of mates so that you can find a place to your selves and have fun becouse of the way they are contacted they will be respectfull and understand that the bat and ball are both yours. if you want to come to bristol we could make it happen no problems best of luck dont forget say upfront what you want to happen!
To all of those people who have replied so far a big thank you, she has read all of your replies and we are going for it tonight, not sure where yet! Both a little nervous now LOL and i think i will take my camera!! Thanks again and maybe one day Bristol and any of you other guys on here Tazman
As others have already said, if you make the rules clear from the start, you won't need to manage the situation as the respectful Doggers will do it for you. I've been in a situation with around 20 guys watching before now and any that got too close to comfort were asked/warned/pulled back into line by the other guys in the group. We actually had to do very little to maintain 'comfort' levels. Good luck :thumbup:
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He was thereby invitation really 
, but since BigG taught me how to upload pics to site I can't help myself :sad: I've got some good aeroplane ones if you want to see them? 
