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If your shy..... why dogging?

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Must be something in the water where u r , but I do agree that if a guy is out dogging and meets up then the least he can do is show a little appreciation and provide the action for the Lady right there.
Inhibitions are left in the closet when u go Dogging!! biggrin
PS I dont run, just stay the duration !!!
Sexlightened
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Hi gurl
Its usually due to the weather some people find it better indoors especially on freezing cold nights .. i play at all times of day and night indoors & out regrdless of the weather..
also some guys especially new cummers maybee feel nervous about performing in front of other guys ...i was like this at first but i soon found my way.. but yes i take your point that going back to a house/flat is not really dogging.. many times i have gone back to flats and had just as good a time as ive had on carparks ..
and when guys panic at the arrival of people while in the middle of having some fun well that could be due to all the press coverage and all that comes with it
personally im not bothered about other people being there but when there are too many doggers i just dont enjoy myself as much ...id go as far to say id just go back to my car i aint going to get into an armwrestle or aqquire a few broken fingers while trying to have a play (sometimes it can get very busy) its a tight fit trying to get your hand in the window when 10 other guys are barging each other to get there hand in...
personally me i go for it in any weather and at any time as long as were out of view from the local parking wardens
Have fun
MrT
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Hi Gurl,
I'm a Sussex guy and maybe you would consider giving me the chance to see if I can perform in front of others. No problems before so all should be O.K.!!!!
Andy
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No performance problems at all! PM me as soon as your in my area (or if your within 50 milles!).
Gary xx.
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Probably stan collymore liked performing in front of others as well, lot of good it did him, or us.
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Twice tonight I have been asked to go back to guys flats

I suspect that the answer is "trophy hunting". A notch would have been carved in their bedpost, and your photo with a little brass insert giving the name and date of conquest would have been framed and hung on the wall.
A lot of dogging blokes brains go along the lines of "if it's a couple they are there to be "dogged", if it's a single female they are there to be "picked up"."
I dare say as has been said already, little respect was shown to your wishes and desires, and like others in this thread, I wouldn't mind betting that they didn't even bother to say "please" or "thank you".
Warming the Bed
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After a few chats with Gurl, privately of course, I think shes knows Im not backward in coming forward.
All I gotta do is be in the same place as her at the same time and prove it! lol
S x
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You know what they say Gurl: if you can't laugh at it, it's time to get out of the game.
I think the strangest ones are the ones who stand at the side of the car, and then have a panic attack when another motor comes in....and sprint back to their motor and drive off !
Mind you, I was standing and watching a couple last night (in a camper) when I noticed the other "guy" standing at my side had a dress on.......ok, the blond wig was a bit over the top...but a floral print dress in a layby in WINTER....some guys just have no dress sense at all.
Sexlightened
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Sometimes guys don't approach a single girl because they think she may be an undercover policewoman with backup not too far away.
Last summer at a well known dogging spot i frequent, two girls turned up and stayed in their had a couple of cigarettes and then put their seats right back.I wandered over and checked them out but nothing was going on,they just seemed to be chatting. Some of the guys who were about said"Ask to see their warrant cards."Obviously i didn't since they had not done anything except sit there,and what's wrong with that.I moved on not long after and thought no more about it.
The following friday i was at the same spot when they turned up again many snide remarks were made about them.I decided to take the initiative and went over to chat with turned out that they had seen something about the spot we were at on the a surprise!They had come along to see what went on, but since it was apparent it was just a load of guys there up to this point they wisely,in my opinion, stayed in the car.I gathered they wanted to see some couple action.I have to say also that they were very,very attractive young ladies in their late teens.I told them that most people thought they were coppers on an entrapment were a bit taken aback by this and told me that they were students who were curious to see what the score was. After chatting for a while they said they were off to the local drive-thru to get something to eat and would be back half an hour or so i got back in my car and got ready to move this point a police car passed across the front of the carpark on the service road and just drove i was leaving two minutes later the girls reappeared but to be honest i couldn't be bothered to hang i left the area though, the police car was sitting about 200yards down the road facing back the way it had come knows since no-one got any bother from them.I went back an hour later and there was a brilliant scene going on with 3 women and loads of guys.I have to say an excellent time was had by all,including the other couple who joined in as girls had gone by now and missed the whole thing.
Now were they policewomen with backup down the road,or as they said a couple of curious students?I have no idea, but relate this story to show you how things can be perceived.
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Yeah...s'life.
It didn't go with the beard either.
Like I said, no co-ordinated dress sense.
Beards are ok with mini-skirts....not floral though.
Orgasminator
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Oh no..........
First Rainbows tells me I can no longer wear my Dungarees to Lesbian events.
And now it seems I cannot wear Laura Asley when out dogging in the winter.
I soooo need a new wardrobe.
Roll on the summer when I can go on Picnics...I look so cute in Gingham, with Bows in my hair.

well i find the most enticing outfit to be a slightly disguised birthday suit
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Ok lets get this straight................
I can continue to wear a mini skirt.
But unless I shave my beard off, I cannot wear Floral patterns.
Can I keep the Moustache?

Naughty quickly vanishes to shave off her beard and moustache! bolt And puts the dugarees back into storage!
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Oh, at my age that is easy.....
I often go out in my birthday suit, disguised as a Shar Pei

Disguised as a dog ?
Hmmm.
You can wear exactly what you like, layby and car-park life wouldn't be the same if everyone turned-out in a city suit and mini-skirt and thigh-boots....and that's just the girls.
In any case, blokes in dresses provide better conversation (and info) than blokes in a sweat that the wife may find out.
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I am going to be singing that to myself all bloody night!
Like Gurls version better than the original though!
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Sad ?
Dunno...
Welcome to the real world...where everyone is equal.
Nothing more equal than a dark car-park and sex.
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Gurl I like the remix of the song LOL.
Was you at a site in essex last night in a car with your headlights on??
just curious thats all as there was one person there a female al by herself constantly texting on her mobile.
Sorted
edited. Better now??? mad :x :x :x :x :x :x
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Sorted16v, surely you realise that genuine doggers would not have their headlights on when driving into a dogging site!
And also the lady who was in that car park, might not be very pleased with you describing her car! Have you thought you just may be advertising the fact that this is a girl on her own? Might be worth editing your post and taking the car description off!
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sorry i didnt relise that just by putting a car make would do anything. I didnt say any reg no. Plus loads of people have a car like that and that colour so it could have been anyone. Just wondering as she was sat there by herself flashing her interiour light and left it on for a while.
Also i know the headlight rule. But like i said she was sat there with her lights on for atleast 2 hours. On the phone and flashing lights but she must have been aware of her surroundings. Plus whenever i go to the site people always drive in with the headlights on. Full beam aswell not just side lights but the full thing blinding everyone.
The one and only FOOL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Quote by Sorted16v
sorry i didnt relise that just by putting a car make would do anything. I didnt say any reg no. Plus loads of people have a car like that and that colour so it could have been anyone. Just wondering as she was sat there by herself flashing her interiour light and left it on for a while.
Also i know the headlight rule. But like i said she was sat there with her lights on for atleast 2 hours. On the phone and flashing lights but she must have been aware of her surroundings. Plus whenever i go to the site people always drive in with the headlights on. Full beam aswell not just side lights but the full thing blinding everyone.
The one and only FOOL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

For the record, we do not allow anyone's car details to be posted on the forum. We would have taken them off even if they were your own.