In need of help and advice

30 Dec 2003

i'm new to all this so please excuse obvious mistakes. got into this with my partner, she wanted to try dogging not as a group just watching and being watched. no third party participation. tried on cannock chase a couple of times but was frightened of by dodgey looking blokes or boy racers.
problem is now she's been frightened off and doesn'y want to try again. CAN ANYONE HELP confused

30 Dec 2003

Hi Guys
Very difficult to rebuild all that lost confidence. However, don't give up. Have you read about the Munch in Manchester next week 10th Jan? There will be an awful lot of like minded people there who you both can talk to in an unthreatening and very friendly environment. You will find most people who go dogging have, at some time or other, encountered exactly the same thing - but you shouldn't let it spoil your enjoyment.
Keep at it, it does get better lol

Mal

30 Dec 2003

Hi Guys, having just read your post, i know exactly where you stand. If you're still interested in the fun of a car park, and want to take things gradually, what I would suggest, is to get to know on here, a small group who are local to you, and from there possibly pre-arrange a meet with one or two of them. There are a variety of quiet spots on the chase, and can pm them to you, as the better known ones are being plagued by boy racers at the moment, (see my last post mad

) All i'd say is be patient, and don't publicise openly if you intend to try again.
Anyway, good luck, if you want any more advice/help, pm me or contact me on msn.