Hia were a couple looking to try dogging but all we can find are miles away and just full of single guys..
Not being funny but you are two a penny.
Just looking for few couples roughly our own age but not too fussy as long as sexy in a secluded area to watch be watched and most likely play with
Someone get back to us
AGAIN SORRY GUYS BUT NO SINGLE MALES IF WE WANT YOU WE WILL BE IN TOUCH
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Is dogging dead in north wales
If you're absolutely adamant that you want to go dogging but don't want any doggers there then you might want consider a) putting your ads in Lets Meet Up for couples who want outdoor fun and b)not using dogging locations for fun.
Everyone is entitled to choose their type of fun but having an issue with dogging spots being full of "ten a penny" doggers is like complaining that the butchers is full of meat eaters when you want to buy a veggie burger!
The car parks etc are open to all, couples looking for couples don't have more rights to them - dogging wouldn't exist in the first place without single doggers. So if you go active sites, single guys will assume that you're looking for an audience (this is quite normal) and then it's up to you to tell them you're not.
So to answer your original question, it's doubtful that dogging is dead in your area - not if you've discovered ten doggers for a penny
(mind you, it's not total proof, just proof that the doggers aren't all dead!)
And no, I'm not being funny either, just sharing the reality with you
Everyone is entitled to choose their type of fun but having an issue with dogging spots being full of "ten a penny" doggers is like complaining that the butchers is full of meat eaters when you want to buy a veggie burger!
The car parks etc are open to all, couples looking for couples don't have more rights to them - dogging wouldn't exist in the first place without single doggers. So if you go active sites, single guys will assume that you're looking for an audience (this is quite normal) and then it's up to you to tell them you're not.
So to answer your original question, it's doubtful that dogging is dead in your area - not if you've discovered ten doggers for a penny
(mind you, it's not total proof, just proof that the doggers aren't all dead!)And no, I'm not being funny either, just sharing the reality with you
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If you're absolutely adamant that you want to go dogging but don't want any doggers there then you might want consider a) putting your ads in Lets Meet Up for couples who want outdoor fun and b)not using dogging locations for fun.
Everyone is entitled to choose their type of fun but having an issue with dogging spots being full of "ten a penny" doggers is like complaining that the butchers is full of meat eaters when you want to buy a veggie burger!
The car parks etc are open to all, couples looking for couples don't have more rights to them - dogging wouldn't exist in the first place without single doggers. So if you go active sites, single guys will assume that you're looking for an audience (this is quite normal) and then it's up to you to tell them you're not.
And no, I'm not being funny either, just sharing the reality with you
Sage advice from the Dogger par excellence!
As for me...I know bugger all about it...
Morning DippyDippy :D
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Morning dollop
Don't know about it being sage advice but hopefully it will help Us2_2play :D
I won't ask if you can help me....I already know the answer....
I'm beyond help :shock:
But seriously, even a complete non-dogger like me knows that dogging, like anything in life is down to what your comfortable with. I hope you find what you want! :D
Sex God
Hi Us2_2play, what Dippity has said is very true, if you are going to the dogging sites, you can only expect to see doggers, and as she said, that is really what dogging is all about (doggers watching the couples, or that is at least how it all started). Things have moved on these days with the internet and various other types of publicity and some couples only want to see couples playing, or only want to be watched or play with other couples. That is fine if that is what you are into, but you may find it difficult if you are using known dogging sites.
As for the guys being ten a penny, there may be loads of them around, but the 'good doggers' are worth their weight in gold. We went out on a spur of the moment thing last night and had a fantastic time. We visited a well known, very busy dogging location, waited our time and then had a really polite, well mannered dogger come over to watch. There were no other couples in the car park at the time and no boy racers, but there were around a dozen or so other doggers who hadn't got the patience to wait till we were ready and ended up missing out cause they were too busy driving round to check out every car. One guy parked a nice distance away from us, and turned out to be one of the 'old school' who know how to show some respect and we all ended up having a very pleasurable evening (Im sure you get the idea without me having to go into detail) :twisted:
As Dippity said, it might be worth putting on an advert to meet other couples, stating exactly what you are looking for and suggesting you meet in a non-dogging location (however, you might be suprised just how many non-dogging locations, are actually just quite dogging locations). Have a drive out one day and look for some secluded areas, places were you would have gone as a 'courting couple' and then have another drive round in the evening to see if the place is busy or nice and quite. Treat it more as an outdoor swinging trip than dogging, and hopefully you will find exactly what you are looking for
Good luck with it, but dont give up on the guys, there are some real gems out there
As for the guys being ten a penny, there may be loads of them around, but the 'good doggers' are worth their weight in gold. We went out on a spur of the moment thing last night and had a fantastic time. We visited a well known, very busy dogging location, waited our time and then had a really polite, well mannered dogger come over to watch. There were no other couples in the car park at the time and no boy racers, but there were around a dozen or so other doggers who hadn't got the patience to wait till we were ready and ended up missing out cause they were too busy driving round to check out every car. One guy parked a nice distance away from us, and turned out to be one of the 'old school' who know how to show some respect and we all ended up having a very pleasurable evening (Im sure you get the idea without me having to go into detail) :twisted:
As Dippity said, it might be worth putting on an advert to meet other couples, stating exactly what you are looking for and suggesting you meet in a non-dogging location (however, you might be suprised just how many non-dogging locations, are actually just quite dogging locations). Have a drive out one day and look for some secluded areas, places were you would have gone as a 'courting couple' and then have another drive round in the evening to see if the place is busy or nice and quite. Treat it more as an outdoor swinging trip than dogging, and hopefully you will find exactly what you are looking for
Good luck with it, but dont give up on the guys, there are some real gems out there
dont get us wrong we are happy to play in known locations is just that last time we were swamped with single guys banging on the windows.... really put us off. we have been a few times and had a lot of fun wih single guys.
Please dont take my words to heart with "ten a penny" is just that dogging doesnt just have to be singles.
were looking for a couple for a change is all
But many thanks for the replys anyhows
xxx
Please dont take my words to heart with "ten a penny" is just that dogging doesnt just have to be singles.
were looking for a couple for a change is all
But many thanks for the replys anyhows
xxx
Sex God
That is so out of order and they should know better than that. We went to a location down south a few weeks ago, and within minutes we were swamped with single guys round the car (I hadnt even taken my seatbelt off, never mind anything else). I know it sounds a bit cruel, but one guy in particular was being really pushy and leaning on the side of the car, constantly walking round the car and just wouldnt take the hint (even when I opened the window and told him nothing was going on), soooooooo ......
.... we waited till he was right up the car, had leant down and was peering in through the window, and just held our hand on the car horn :shock: I have never seen anyone move as quick in my life
After we had 'played' we got chatting to one of the guys who actually congratulated us on scaring the plonker off!
Really hope you find the couples you are looking for and have loads of fun
.... we waited till he was right up the car, had leant down and was peering in through the window, and just held our hand on the car horn :shock: I have never seen anyone move as quick in my life
After we had 'played' we got chatting to one of the guys who actually congratulated us on scaring the plonker off!
Really hope you find the couples you are looking for and have loads of fun
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its just that dogging doesnt just have to be singles.
xxx
thats true enough..couples can, and do dogg other couples..but as the majority of the guy's attentions are fixated upon you, and any other couples in any given carpark..it usually doesn't work out particularly well..we do see couples in our local carparks that are only looking to meet, watch or play with other couples..there are more of them now than ever before, in our own limited experience..but even given that those couples are available and willing in this area, it is still very inefficient
often the dogging fellas are too much of a distraction..the husband having to act as rear guard, and missing all the action himself :lol: mind you, some enjoy that aspect more than the sex if the couples locate to somewhere more remote, some of the fellas are going to follow..just in case :lol:i'm not suggesting they are right to do that, but its a reality of the game, one that couples have to live with if they are going to shag in a public place. ...the game is mostly fellas anyway, their numbers are always going to far higher than those of the couples, and they tend to stick around longer too..well, usually :lol: ..if you do find a couple, there is still a fair chance they'll not be interested in you..not anything personal, its just that such a high percentage are out to be seen or played with by the dogging fellas..couples have taken the hump with us on a few occassions now, having spent the better part of the evening getting us away from the pack, only to have their offer of a swap politely snubbed :lol: nobody is suggesting it can't happen for you..we've watched couples, and been watched many many times..but its always as part of a dogging group comprising mostly fellas :wink:
seriously..don't take this personally, its not an attack on your methods..i've no issue with them..but..what is the appeal of the carparks for you over the organisation and privacy offered in a club setting? is it just a lack of facilities in your area, or something else? what i'm saying is this..we are carpark exhibitionists..we do not look for other couples, we don't expect the oppertunity to show will arise each and every time we go out and we care little about the age, looks, marital status, life histories or dick size of our we look for is a polite gathering that are happy to indulge our desire to be watched having fun, ..doggers are our ideal audience, and carparks are therefore our ideal stage..clubs however, have many advantages over carparks for couples with more specific requirements, and the sheer number of other couples looking for the same, would surely make it a good choice?.coupled with the safety, security, choice and privacy, it must be ideal? no? maybe its the element of spontaneity you desire from an encounter? as with us? we see many couples on the dogging circuit, who, for reasons of their own don't wish to visit another couple at their home, or invite a couple to their own house..nor do they wish to join a club, even if such a place is available to them, which in this county at least, it is..so they look to the world of "dogging" as the answer to their prayers..without having to give out personal details, driving to a carpark to meet other couples seems an ideal solution..when it doesn't go as anticipated, either through lack of couples or too much attention from doggers, they vent their frustrations at "dogging"..whereas the fault lies in their rose tinted expectations of what carpark fun entails...the knocking on the glass scenario you cite is one we encounter, and have little time for..but those "tappers" aren't doggers..they are pricks..just another unfortunate aspect of the game brought about, in the main as a consequence of the sexual involvement that some guys now consider to be the one and true definition of "dogging" :lol:
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.... we waited till he was right up the car, had leant down and was peering in through the window, and just held our hand on the car horn :shock: I have never seen anyone move as quick in my life
Ohhhhhhh that's evil!! I like it! :lol:
Us2 - as Unc said, no-one is suggesting you can't/won't find what you want, it's just that single doggers often get treated as if they have no business being in car parks now so if you know the realities, it's easier to deal with - especially if you encounter idiots!
