Hi all, just wondering if you can help............
I go dogging a couple of times a week. Obviously it is hard enough for single guys due to the amount of idiots who ruin it for everyone else. I am a guy who likes to keep a bit of distance when first pulling up, to allow the couple to begin without feeling violated, but each time i do this, someone else will always get right up close and before you know it, both cars are driving off to a secluded spot for fun and i miss out. I let the couple know i am interested as well, but in a subtle way! I understand that some people know each other and some are pre-arranged meets, but surely not all of them.
Dont get me wrong, i have had my fair share of fun in the past, but these days it seems as if trying to do the gentlemanly thing blows up in your face. What is the best way to approach, knowing my luck if i was the guy who pulled up a bit closer, then i would get tagged as a nuisance and the couple would drive off. You thoughts would be appreciated.
Kindest regards
Cragostini05
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Is it just me?????
craig, i'm sure your feelings are shared by many, and i can appreciate the gut wrencher when, despite your most considerate method, some dogger just marches up and bags the dance..
it is a fact of life, that a percentage of guys will employ such bullish tactics, because experience has shown, in some cases, they work..many many times we have witnessed a new couple entering the arena, only to be pounced on before they have applied the handbrake..more often than not, the couple flee, usually followed by frantic running footsteps, and a mass vehicle departure..occassionaly the couple manage to lose them, in which case we are treated to the spectacle of the same doggers tearing around all the carparks, all in mobile phone communication with eachother..other times, the couple find sanctuary in a remote spot, but invairably are discovered, where the whole bizzare fiasco is again trotted out, until the couple head for home and vow never to try dogging again..occassionaly the couple find a safe haven with us, the doggers will circle like great white sharks, until they become bored and leave..these are the dogging mutation of the carpark evolution, they carry the "selfish shafter" gene, and are trophy hunters.
but, and there is a but..there are just enough couples to support this mutation, and thats what has given rise to the epidemic..another thing we are increasingly seeing, is the three, sometimes four up doggers..again, some couples are so hardened by the game, that all the instincts we subconsiously adhere to, have long since becomed numbed into virtual non-existance, and as such, will have little issue regarding such envioromentaly aware car sharing..the only problem is, that they are also forgeting that dogging sites are public carparks, and as recently as last week, i saw, first hand, a guy straight onto the vehicle of a single young lady, that evidentally had stopped only to make a phone call..
that same night, we were approached, quite respectably by three guys in a single vehicle..they dipped their lights, allowed us a glance by breifly turning on the interior and generally, seemed ok..in any other circumstances, it would have been an ideal oppertunity to play, but we have always said, three cars, three guys, fine..but two or more per vehicle, no way..there are many reasons for this, which i won't bore you with now..but showing in such a situation would give the notion to the guys that such methods were acceptable to us, and therefore would justify and expand the trend, potentionaly fucking it up for couples like us, and guys like yourself..we have a vested interest in the game, and therefore a responsibilty to fellas that act in accordance with our desires...you have to make a choice, join the selfish shafters, or dogg in a way you feel comfortable with.."the master" plays the game with respect..he doesn't brag about his conquests, but i can absolutely guarantee he gets a shit load more flange than the trophy hunters.
but he knows of greener pastures, if your venue has become a circus too, you may need to cast your net a little wider.
it is a fact of life, that a percentage of guys will employ such bullish tactics, because experience has shown, in some cases, they work..many many times we have witnessed a new couple entering the arena, only to be pounced on before they have applied the handbrake..more often than not, the couple flee, usually followed by frantic running footsteps, and a mass vehicle departure..occassionaly the couple manage to lose them, in which case we are treated to the spectacle of the same doggers tearing around all the carparks, all in mobile phone communication with eachother..other times, the couple find sanctuary in a remote spot, but invairably are discovered, where the whole bizzare fiasco is again trotted out, until the couple head for home and vow never to try dogging again..occassionaly the couple find a safe haven with us, the doggers will circle like great white sharks, until they become bored and leave..these are the dogging mutation of the carpark evolution, they carry the "selfish shafter" gene, and are trophy hunters.
but, and there is a but..there are just enough couples to support this mutation, and thats what has given rise to the epidemic..another thing we are increasingly seeing, is the three, sometimes four up doggers..again, some couples are so hardened by the game, that all the instincts we subconsiously adhere to, have long since becomed numbed into virtual non-existance, and as such, will have little issue regarding such envioromentaly aware car sharing..the only problem is, that they are also forgeting that dogging sites are public carparks, and as recently as last week, i saw, first hand, a guy straight onto the vehicle of a single young lady, that evidentally had stopped only to make a phone call..
that same night, we were approached, quite respectably by three guys in a single vehicle..they dipped their lights, allowed us a glance by breifly turning on the interior and generally, seemed ok..in any other circumstances, it would have been an ideal oppertunity to play, but we have always said, three cars, three guys, fine..but two or more per vehicle, no way..there are many reasons for this, which i won't bore you with now..but showing in such a situation would give the notion to the guys that such methods were acceptable to us, and therefore would justify and expand the trend, potentionaly fucking it up for couples like us, and guys like yourself..we have a vested interest in the game, and therefore a responsibilty to fellas that act in accordance with our desires...you have to make a choice, join the selfish shafters, or dogg in a way you feel comfortable with.."the master" plays the game with respect..he doesn't brag about his conquests, but i can absolutely guarantee he gets a shit load more flange than the trophy hunters.
but he knows of greener pastures, if your venue has become a circus too, you may need to cast your net a little wider. 
Sex God
I tooo play it gentlemanly and as regulars no doubt know this does on occasion cause a failing such as a night below freezing when whilst warming my hands on the heater of said car so as not to kill the good lady by applying my numb hands to her fine bosom, got barged out of reach and went home frozen with nothing (and it was gone 2am before I left let alone went home). Another occasion I walked away from a vehicle as too many were approaching, went back later and whilst everyone else got what they wanted I only ended up with a chat.
Despite all this by maintaining my gentlemanly stance I have been rewarded by several fine couples who know they can trust me far further than they could throw me and thats a long way I am only a slim sprightly thing and word of mouth has lead me to meeting other couples.
So stick with it.
I am shortly off to my nearest spot where I have never seen anything go on. It is off a roundabout by some fishing lakes and nearby gravel works. (Mods I hope that is non-specific enough whilst still allowing folks to know where I am) Will be gone though before I get there.
Regards
Harry Jones
Despite all this by maintaining my gentlemanly stance I have been rewarded by several fine couples who know they can trust me far further than they could throw me and thats a long way I am only a slim sprightly thing and word of mouth has lead me to meeting other couples.
So stick with it.
I am shortly off to my nearest spot where I have never seen anything go on. It is off a roundabout by some fishing lakes and nearby gravel works. (Mods I hope that is non-specific enough whilst still allowing folks to know where I am) Will be gone though before I get there.
Regards
Harry Jones
Sexpert
Although we are a couple Mrs D2 also likes to watch,not only be watched.
Most single guys think that just because we are a couple we will show to them every time we go out.
We were at one time known as wasters at our local site,s word got round via a couple(hinge & bracket) saying we never showed at all,this in fact did us a favour as we were left alone to show when and to who we chose.
We know all of the previous people who replied to your post and have watched Mr & Mr,s Dirty play and have performed for them.
We have showed to Harry on more than one occasion and know "the master" very well and agreewith Mr D.s remark thet he certainly gets his share of "flange"
Just play the game your way and you will get your just rewards.
Sorry if i have gone off track a bit,all i can add is to agree with Mr D,s comment and wish you good luck.
Most single guys think that just because we are a couple we will show to them every time we go out.
We were at one time known as wasters at our local site,s word got round via a couple(hinge & bracket) saying we never showed at all,this in fact did us a favour as we were left alone to show when and to who we chose.
We know all of the previous people who replied to your post and have watched Mr & Mr,s Dirty play and have performed for them.
We have showed to Harry on more than one occasion and know "the master" very well and agreewith Mr D.s remark thet he certainly gets his share of "flange"
Just play the game your way and you will get your just rewards.
Sorry if i have gone off track a bit,all i can add is to agree with Mr D,s comment and wish you good luck.
.................. sorry cudnt resist saying that ........................ hang in there as the saying says ............what goes around comes around!!!!!!!!!!!!!! and it does 
