Meeting new friends on tours out.

26 Feb 2006

This is our first post, so hope all is OK.
We are a married couple who would like to meet other couples for girl/girl fun, hubbies to watch only. We have been out on many a weekend and met some very nice people, but that first liason still elludes us.
Are we doing something wrong? we do approach and chat with other couples, admitedly Mrs Moa a bit aprehensive, just needs taking in hand by confident woman, there must be others out there who are keen and experienced.
So at moment we have a great knowledge of north west locations, but no playmates.
Is there anyone who can offer a word of encouragement to acouple who are keen? confused

26 Feb 2006

Quote by MOA
TAre we doing something wrong? we do approach and chat with other couples, admitedly Mrs Moa a bit aprehensive, just needs taking in hand by confident woman,

Maybe dogging is not the best way to go if you are after girl/girl action?
If Mrs MOA is apprehensive, perhaps you would be better forming a friendship with another couple first and see if that takes you down the road you want to try?
At least that way, Mrs MOA can decide if and when the time feels right for her to move on a step.
Just meeting up with a perfect stranger in a car park and getting down to it (along with no doubt at least a handful of eager dogging guys watching), may not really be what she is after, hence the apprehension?
Good luck!
Tracy-Jayne

26 Feb 2006

Quote by RedHot
TAre we doing something wrong? we do approach and chat with other couples, admitedly Mrs Moa a bit aprehensive, just needs taking in hand by confident woman,

Maybe dogging is not the best way to go if you are after girl/girl action?
If Mrs MOA is apprehensive, perhaps you would be better forming a friendship with another couple first and see if that takes you down the road you want to try?
At least that way, Mrs MOA can decide if and when the time feels right for her to move on a step.
Just meeting up with a perfect stranger in a car park and getting down to it (along with no doubt at least a handful of eager dogging guys watching), may not really be what she is after, hence the apprehension?
Good luck!
Tracy-Jayne
(Dark enters unchartered territory and steps into the Dogging section ....... :shock: )
T-J's just summed up pretty much what I've put over in the cafe hun, sounds to me like Mrs Moa needs more of a tippee toe appraoch and someone to chat to generally about her expectations/ fears etc - the more she does that, the more comfortable she might feel . Alternatively, she may even decide to give it a miss altogether, but my opinion (and it is only an opinion, there are no hard and fast rules ) is that you're better off doing that on a social basis over in the cafe than arranging meets in carparks with people she doesnt know. wink

26 Feb 2006

Quote by Darkfire
(Dark enters unchartered territory and steps into the Dogging section ....... :shock: )

/rubs hands together and wicked grin . . . . . "come over here my lovely into the darkest recess of the car park . . . . and let me sort you out" :twisted: lol

T-J xx

26 Feb 2006

hiya..yeah, we agree with the others in that carparks aren't usually the most conducive envoironments for a first time bi-girl encounter.
ok, so you've done the carparks, and have seen the situation out there for problem with the unrealistic notion of what carparks are like for you then...thing is, we seem to be approached by couples looking for swap fun more and more these days, and whilst it is always nice to meet new faces, it does occur to us that many such couples have little understanding that all those "creepy perverts" lol

are actually the reason that we are there :lol: (i'm not suggesting that you share the attitude by the way) wink

having said that, mrs D has enjoyed bi encounters "out in the field".but its always been with the understanding that if done in the carpark, it should be accepted that the lads are free to watch without harrassment..a first time session might be better enjoyed away from the madding crowd however :lol: