I have a girlfriend that i have been trying to go dogging with for time we go out all we get is a guy,or guy watching or one time wanking and cumming all over the window(not nice)
Is there anyone out here who can help...30's-40's..nice normal cpl that wants same..
It would have to seem as if we meet by chance as she'd go mad if i arranged something..so discrete..Are you in the same boat.??
Honest posts please and see what we can sort out.
We Are late 30's larger framed and just need to get the ball rolling..even just being watched or watching..fine..PLS no single guys..
Thanks
Stonewall, please dont take this a criticsm but what you describe above is what dogging is all about.
"Dogging is a predominantly British activity that involves outdoor exhibitionism in car-parks, wooded areas and the like. The term dogging originated in the early Seventies to describe men who spied on couples having sex outdoors. These men would 'dog' the couples' every move in an effort to watch them. When the swinging scene discovered that open-air sex has its own special thrill they began meeting in car-parks, and the doggers found a new and rich supply of voyeuristic fun. Moreover, the doggers soon realised that these couples were actively encouraging them to watch, even performing for them, and sometimes allowing them to join in."
I think from your post (and forgive me if I am wrong) but you seem to be looking for outdoor soft-swinging with another couple and definately not dogging (which is about voyerism - being watched mainly by single guys)
However, I am very, very concerned that you are advertising a meet behind your girlfriends back, ie doing this without her prior knowledge. This is just not the type of post that we want on this site.
This site is all about consenting adults enjoying themselves, and not about putting someone in a situation they know nothing about. Perhaps you should consider talking with your girlfriend about your intentions before you post anything else or do anything else like this behind her back.