Its a shame that some guys get off on such a wrong foot in here , and I for one will admit that when youve been here a while you can maybe get a bit too keen to have a go at a first poster .
Its been said many times in different ways , but wont hurt to say it all again now and then .
If youre new to Swinging Heaven you will be surprised to find , as we were , that it is a very different place to almost all the other forums about swingers you have travelled on the net . Firstly , there actually are a great number of genuine regular swingers here who arent pretending to be couples or ladies , but actually are what they say they are . Also many , in fact the majority of them are friendly and welcoming to newcomers and often intelligent people who like to have conversations about all sorts of things , including , but not exclusively swinging or dogging.
Its an easy mistake to make to come in here and just post a quick and dull note in the hope of a reply , since the chances are that you'll get knocked back or nothing at all , because all the other forums youve tried have been just like that . Most of them are just a long long long list of posts like " 32 male , big cock , at Something or other Carprk seeks blowjob" , and thats what youve grown used to . However Swinging Heaven isnt like that , partly because its very well run and moderated , but mostly because there are actually dogging couples here , who will shoot those posts down in flames and then ignore them until you go away .
Put yourself in their shoes for a second , they get PM's ,e-mails and messages ad-infinitum offering " fit male" " non-pushy" " long stayers" and " heavy cummers" every day , and they can read posts which pretend to be asking advice but actually just mean " tell me where youre showing" all day long at any number of forums . They have all answered patiently- possibly dozens of requests for infomation on sites , etiquette and rules and regulations of behaviour and thats why they dont feel they should have to keep doing it again and again .
The Gods of the forum have wisely put the answers to all such questions in the stickys about behaviour and the dogging sites section that are permanently available for you to read before you post and ask the same questions again .
Its fair to say that if youre too lazy to read the answers to your questions yourself , and want them repeated by a forum member , then the chances are youre selfish and lazy enough to be a rubbish dogger , which is why the couples dont rush into your inbox.
We always give doggers the credit they deserve , and we know that exhibitionists like ourselves cannot exist without voyeurs . You guys are important , and this forum has its fair share of pleasant interesting and funny doggers . Thats even more reason to avoid posting the same old tired questions .
We love to read about your experiences , about your real desires and fantasies about dogging . About the funny things that have happened whilst out dogging , and the events that led you to it in the first place . Even the odd serious post about the dangers , or the moral issues surrounding it . All of the above with the odd completely off topic but entertaining post will ultimately lead to some exchange of views and some sense of who you are , and ultimately to a relationship with the board members . It is that which will lead to you being invited to watch a show , and not just the fact that youre in the area that night .
Come on guys we need good doggers posting , we all cant wait !
Apologies to the successful doggers for revealing your secrets , but a level playing field and all that LOL
G
Sex God
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) and we are now waiting for stories of your little escapades!
So if you are saving newbies and the more experienced of this site from the well-trodden path of mistaken ill-judged posts all credit to you.
