just like to say hi - we've never done this before and must admit the other half is very shy. (especially as she's overwieght) but quite like the idea of having sex outdoors etc. (no, we're not new to that lol)
any tips you can give us as to how to stay safe and only get one or at most two watchers. eventually i'm hoping things will improve - but you know what it's like in any community for newbies lol.
take care folks