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new to dogging - advice required!!!!!!

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i went dogging for the first time last week. i went to a carpark at xxxxxxx xxxxxxxxxxx The carpark was very busy with single males walking to and from the toilet block. Unfortunately i,m single and this did not interest me.
I sat in this car park for approx 2 hours with another dozen or so males doing exactly the same. During this time three couple paked up in the carpark. expecting to see a flashing of lights or some other sign i sat it out. the couples looked across the carpark at the males and we all looked back, but no sign?
these couples all eventually left the carpark without speaking to anybody. i saw no action that night and i dont think anybody else did either. Did i miss something or were these couples just not interested. What signs should i be looking for and should i appraoch a couple to say hello if they are staring over at me, even if they have not given me any signs.
can anybody give me any advice?
i live in weston-super-mare, does anybody know of any good dogging areas to try (i'm looking to meet couples/females). i am not pushy and am happy just to watch, if anybody would like to meet up and show me the ropes, please feel free to reply. i am a w/m 23years and slim build, i am clean and not pushy.
cheers.
lee
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Not all showing couples use lights or other signals. We've never used them but always have an audience cool
What seems to work best, certainly locally, is that the guys take a walk aorund the park, keeping a distance between them and any cars. Taking a peep into each car as they pass to see what's going on in them.
If there's is no action, but the window is open, you could always say hello and see what response you get back.
Most couples who are wanting an audience will carry on with the show or perhaps open the window a little to allow watchers to see the action.
We prefer this method of selecting doggers too. It gives us a chance to see who's out there and when one comes along that I like the look of, I'll open the window to let him/them know. From then on, the fun begins . . . :twisted:
You will of course have to visit the site several times before you can get an idea of the pattern couples in your area follow, whether it's flashing interior lights, opening the window or whatever.
Dogging is not instant gratification, so if you are patient and polite, you may well get lucky in the future wink
Good luck!
Tracy-Jayne