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I am very new to this - so wot do you have to do to get any kind of response from anyone? is there an initiation ceremony of some sort?
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I am very new to this - so wot do you have to do to get any kind of response from anyone? is there an initiation ceremony of some sort?

You've only made two posts so far, so you could be asked why you've not contributed more!
We'll respond to anything thats interesting.
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Sorry, I don't think you can ask me that - I have only been a member for a few hours. I am merely looking for more information about where, when, how etc. You seem like 'old hands' perhaps you can help me.
as you say you have only been a member for a few hours, the first thing you need is loads more patience if you are to go dogging you will discover that is the key for a single guy, read some of the old threads on the dogging sections, ie do some homework, become part of the online community before you expect people to give freely what they themselves have taken years and much effort to learn, how about starting over with a , "hello im new " thread and then go on to tell everyone about your self, ... and just exactly what you want from this site, thats if you know of course , but be careful because with time your wishes may come true..........
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Sorry, I don't think you can ask me that - I have only been a member for a few hours. I am merely looking for more information about where, when, how etc. You seem like 'old hands' perhaps you can help me.

Actually, I answered your question. Also, we're not 'old hands', we just happen to, like a few others in the dogging section, get involved in conversations, rather than make a couple of posts and expect an orderly queue to form.
so wot do you have to do to get any kind of response from anyone?

Simple, make more than two posts and get involved in some of the threads here. Let people know about you more!
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The first thing is to read all the rules on dogging (top right) and adhere to them, frequent local areas to you that you no dogging goes on and then have patience, lots of it. Then if you are lucky and something happens treat them with the utmost respect and don't think you have a guaranteed right to anything, unfortunately not like a lot of doggers these days. Good luck and hope you have lots of fun.
Thanks for your comments, I will be patient.
That is nice to hear because that is one thing that is lacking with a lot of doggers these days.
Trouble is I am a bit apprehensive about going to sites, I've read things about Police, nutters with baseball bats etc. Am I correct in my apprehension?
As long as the place is a public area there is not a lot the police can do but they might ask you what you are doing there and ask you to move on. Obviously they know what really goes on and are trying to discourage you from being there. If you arrive at a spot and there are gangs of boy racers then I wouldn't hang around but just be careful and have your wits about you and if there are other men on there own get talking to them because they will be there dogging for the same reason as you.
Thanks for all that info. One more question - is daytime dogging safer?
You don't get the boy racers normally but it is a lot harder and there is more chance of being caught by dog walkers or members of the public and of course most couples work during the day. Having said all that it hasn't stopped me from sitting in car parks for hours on end and I have had some good fun. wink :wink:
Right, I am going to try daytime to start with, probably over the chase. Thanks for that Alan. Good to talk to ya.
Bye for now I am going to sit in my favourite car park for a couple of hours reading my UK road atlas for the ten thousandth time. lol :lol: