So how about somebody making some serious arrangements for something to happen in the Norwich/Norfolk area. Daytime or night.
plenty does happen in the norwich/norfolk area..whats to arrange?
Nope, indeed you did not, but I fail to see that what is not happening in this forgotten place might interest you.
So, as I say, what is happening here?
No replies. No suggestions.
silk and big g made a good suggestion, irrespective of wether they inhabit this "forgotton place" as you put it..if you feel that something needs kickstarting in this area, then go for it...we are from norfolk by the way.
we personally know couples that travel from essex, lincolnshire and cambridge to frequent our venues..i'm not going to get too descriptive, as it usually invites a shedload of pm's from guys wanting things handed to them on a plate, i haven't got time for that.
if someone threads a location being dead, and its not within my direct experience to comment, i don't..but for you to say that norfolk is dead, frankly is a joke.
i'm not saying all the sites are full to capacity every night, because they are not. sometimes they are flat for a couple of weeks or more..but flat isn't dead, often the regulars are still there..three weeks ago, on a saturday night, there were 15 couples out at one site..last friday, we counted, including ourselves eight couples..two gangbangs, several playing with just a couple of guys, some talking and us "showing"..plus some stuff that i'm not going to talk about..
if you are judging the state of dogging in the area, by how many, or few, local couples advertise on this board, then you are being misled..our sites aren't overrun by boy-racers, the police aren't heavy handed, most of the lads are great and the venues are scenic...they don't need the internet..
Well, I cant see that anybody suggested anything. Apart from "Go for it" Hardly a suggestion.
If people dont tell where things happen, or when, is everybody else supposed to vist every site within a 50 mile radius every night on the off chance that they might find somebody at a venue?
I visited one site every night for a week, sat there for an hour each time and saw nothing. No passing cars or rustling bushes. Ok, so you say it was happening somewhere else. If nobody including yourself is prepared to advertise where people might be, how do others get to know?????
You say in your post that "three weeks ago, on a saturday night, there were 15 couples out at one site..last friday, we counted, including ourselves eight couples..two gangbangs, several playing with just a couple of guys, some talking and us "showing"..plus some stuff that i'm not going to talk about.. "
Very nice too. Lucky they all just "happened" to turn up at the right place at the right time, but you arent prepared to say where, even though you say its all still happening.
I am not asking anybody else to arrange everything, and I didnt mean to suggest that it is everybody else's responsibility.
What i am saying is that yes things do happen, but it seems that although some of you speak so proudly of what you have done, its a wonder that it ever happens if nobody ever knows where anybody else MIGHT be.
It is said that something happened at a certain venue and was very good. Ok. So why not say where it happened? It might give a clue for others for the future. I can understand not wanting to advertise to the whole world that you will be going to such and such a place, but why keep it a secret about where something did happen?
Yes Ok you dont know me from Adam, but then again isnt this what the thrill is all about?
I spend a week waiting in one place and everything happens somewhere else. Great, I'll move on to somewhere else and see if anything happens. Just my luck that the action will move to the place where I WAS watching.
You say that two other site can be found by talking for 5 mins with other people. Well, I thought thats what I had been doing, but no mention of sites.
I am looking for a female partner who will travel with me to sites and see do watch whatever. I have a fairly large camper van which I find very useful.
Sorry Uncle Dirty
Didn't I tell you.
She was a very attractive brave girl as well and I had a splendid time, I hope to bump into her again.
I will be there, same bat-time same bat-channel (I'm sure that is what they used to say) on Saturday 11 June 2005.
I will also be out somewhere else this friday if I can ever get my e-mails to see who has responded ;)
Regards
Harry Jones
Hello Sec
G here :-)
After all the round abouts you have in bits and pieces posted what you want after all . We werent taking the piss , merely suggesting that if you had posted what you wanted more specifically from the start you may have encountered more positive feedback. As you can see there is a thriving group of dogging folk in your neck of the woods and they all insist its alive and well as a past time . If what youre suggesting is an arranged meet with some people then we suggest taking the time to get to know some and letting them know some more about you . If otherwise like ourselves you prefer the more random and spontaneous aspects of spur of the moment dogging then were afraid missing the action sometimes , and wating around is all part of the game . A short and vague demand as in your first posting will work very well if youre ordering something from Argos - but rarely work as well when youre asking a fella to let his girl show you her delights . the girls of the carpark fraternity may be game , but they dont like to me seen as catalogue items .
We're sure youre adecent enough bloke , at least we dont know otherwise yet , so please take what we write as its intended- advice- and good luck with it all .
Peace G
I didnt mean to say anything in a roundabout way. What I was trying to say was that ok so there is a "thriving group of dogging folk" but it seems to be extremely difficult to find them.
I have attended and participated in the past but things died and obviously moved somewhere else, which is why I am looking for a new partner because she got fed up with nothing happening. Hmm, perhaps she found a new place and didnt tell me. She prefered stopping people on the street.