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Over aggresive men are spoiling all the fun!

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Warming the Bed
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We went out for the 1st time in a few months the weekend and nothing has changed. Guys parking their car that close to you you cannot move being followed everywhere you go and the one guy who topped it off and decided to follow us for several miles when we left the venue you were a disgrace and have put me off for a long time Cannock Chase no more! :sad:
Warming the Bed
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How sad that it was spoilt for you ,They will never learn :sad:
Sexlightened
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Nothin worse than a guy wanking at the car door..... Then you hear the belt buckle scratchin your car too f**k.. lol
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We went out for the 1st time in a few months the weekend and nothing has changed. Guys parking their car that close to you you cannot move being followed everywhere you go and the one guy who topped it off and decided to follow us for several miles when we left the venue you were a disgrace and have put me off for a long time Cannock Chase no more! :sad:

Well are there any single chase doggers who would like to reply to this thread and attempt to defend their actions of late?
And as we have already posted in reference to Sat nights activities we will not bother to repeat them now, save to say you are aggresive guys in your approach and you have zero patience with couples!
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Hi DJ...
I'm really sorry to hear of this.... Personally its disappointing that a few idiots are wrecking it for the many that enjoy an evening out...
I used to live in Wolves, and sadly only experienced dogging after I'd moved away to the south coast where the scene is fairly quiet. Genuinely wish our paths had crossed when I did live in the west mids though... you look gorgeous!
I hope this doesnt put you off for good. Maybe next time I'm up your way I'll drop you a line to see if I can show you that we're not all out to spoil things...
:-)
Andy
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It will always be the way that the minority spoil things for the majority :-(
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It will always be the way that the minority spoil things for the majority :-(

Yeah and unfortunately that minority is often the government elected by majority!
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The close-parkers are part of the "game" now.
The ones who front-on to you are by FAR the worse....blinded-by-light, and don't you just KNOW that he already has his pants around his ankles....and probably a "biz card" ready with his phone number JUST in case you want to "play" somewhere "without all these clowns" around (the irony will be lost on him).
But the followers are in a class of their own when it comes to unsociability and desperation.
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I am a chase dogger who has been going up for a number of years and am not one of the "park close" or "aggresive pushy chase followers" but very discreet and respectful but must admit on recent visits I have held my head in despair at the plonkers that you mention which ruin it for us genuine doggers. They all should be ashamed of the way they act and dont they realise that they are putting couples off coming up until there wont be any genuine dogging fun. All I can say to couples is dont despair there are genuine single male doggers that get up the chase, even though I have to admit in the minority these days, and that you are not put off completely and hope to meet you one day and prove we are not all the same.
Sexlightened
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Its not just up at he Chase it happens it a nation wide problem.
We are constanly being harrased by the mindless idiots that think it is their right to park so close they take the paint off the side of the car and that when we drive away its an invitation to follow.
When will they learn that patience is a virtue and if they park a reasonable distance away and wait they are more likely to see some fun.
It has been said that we are just teasers because we drive off,but there are more than a few of the gentleman doggers that can vouch for us, because they are the ones that have enjoyed Helens hospitality as they know how to act.
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Not been to the "Chase", but the irony of the name is not lost on us !!!
We have visited a well known dogging spot in Notts, Blidworth, and every year that goes by it gets worse. I just can't understand some guys at all. The ones who have pressed our buttons are the ones who initially hang back , and wait for us to talk to them and are polite and respectfull.
The guys that just come over and start peering through the window, just drives us away.
When will people learn !!!
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have to say that i have been to the chase a few times and have been lucky enough to meet djduck and his good lady,
the 'new' breed don't just piss off the couples but also the guys who are respectfull and will just watch until invited closer. It just fucks it up for all involved and yes there are quite a number who i don't think fully understand the concept of dogging in that if your lucky you may get a show, if your really lucky more may come to be on offer.
But with the way it is 'pre-arranged' dogging meets are the way its going so youmiss all the hordes lol
btw can someone take an airgun to the 'full beamers' they really piss me off
other than that hope to meet again soon, we have unfinished business ducky ;)
Warming the Bed
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....it is just as bad in the SE. If you go to the Dyke at Brighton the place is alive with idiots. We now choose a guy, ask him to follow us and go somewhere quiet - not the same - but effective
Tim & Tina
Any of you guys down south - let us know....
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ye do agree we went to the chase a few weeks ago, same problem so left and went back to our normal place much better!
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You know the biggest laugh ?
Most of them are not even from the area they're "dogging", they are "dogging tourists" from miles away...
We get them in the "local" layby. Their presence is announced with a squeal of tortured tyres as they brake to an emergency stop, to then reverse THE WRONG WAY down the dual carriageway and then drive into the layby. They then spend all night driving up-and-down the layby chasing every car that comes in....until one of the truckers empties a bottle of pee over them as they drive past on the 30th circuit.
Warming the Bed
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We've fortunately not encountered aggressive doggers. Wanking at the door is ok by us as long as they don't scratch the car.
Do any of you couples go tooled up (if you excuse the unintentional pun LOL) - just in case there's an aggressive wanker (pun again!)?
It is a risky business after all and if some bloke was to be aggressive towards Mrs Jazels, well, Mr Jazels wouldn't be very happy and there would certainly be another type of illegal entertainment!
Has any couple here been attacked?
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Quote by Jazels
We've fortunately not encountered aggressive doggers. Wanking at the door is ok by us as long as they don't scratch the car.
Do any of you couples go tooled up (if you excuse the unintentional pun LOL) - just in case there's an aggressive wanker (pun again!)?
It is a risky business after all and if some bloke was to be aggressive towards Mrs Jazels, well, Mr Jazels wouldn't be very happy and there would certainly be another type of illegal entertainment!
Has any couple here been attacked?

No never.
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Sadly this seems to be everywhere,i am from the newcastle area and often when you go to the regular spots the idiots have taken over the area,racing around and spoiling the to have a f/b who went with me but she got so fed up with the idiots that she they ever learn!
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Oi !
Geezer....
It's de cuples folt...
orl dis moaning bout giis...if you did de biz wiv de lites on we wud orl be able to see wivout usin de car lites.
get wized up and do de biz ;)
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Oi !
Geezer....
It's de cuples folt...
orl dis moaning bout giis...if you did de biz wiv de lites on we wud orl be able to see wivout usin de car lites.
get wized up and do de biz ;)

In retrospect JTS is correct it's all the couples fault and we will promptly put things right with the chase mafia, by not going again!
Warming the Bed
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It’s a funny world dogging, we get called time wasters because we say no thanks when a 60 year old Ugly has hell dogger walks strait up to the car with his cock out or we drive off when a car parks so close it knocks our wing mirror, maybe we are too fussy or it’s not for us anymore it really does seem that only 1 out of 10 doggers know the rules and when you find 1 the other 9 wankers turn up.
Arranged meets are the only way for us, not as much fun as it’s the fun of a stranger but better than better then wasting all night trying to lose the dickheds
Master of Sex
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It’s a funny world dogging, we get called time wasters because we say no thanks when a 60 year old Ugly has hell dogger walks strait up to the car with his cock out or we drive off when a car parks so close it knocks our wing mirror, maybe we are too fussy.....

We know exactly what you mean. We were told by a couple of guys we had no interest in playing with that we had a reputation for being fussy. They seemed shocked when we thanked them for the compliment.
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Just because you are dogging doesnt mean that you cant be fussy and "NO" means "NO" whatever the situation there is no place for pushy aggresive males in dogging.