I have been chatting to someone on email from this site for a couple of weeks. As you may or may not be aware I am a transvestite that likes to meet people for some fun.
Eventually I arranged to meet this guy and friend, at a place in north nottinghamshire renowned for gays meeting but not listed on any of the dogging sites on the net. This i thought was safe. We arranged to meet at 8pm at a certain layby, I got there at eight no one there so drove up the road a little to the next layby , (Also a meeting place!) Lo and behold a car in there was parked but nothing happening so i drove on, only to turn round a little way up the road and come back. Imagine my horror that when I got to the layby there was a police car (All this in the space of 2 or 3 mins, so must have been behind me!) with all lights flashing frisking the guy that was parked there. This guy had the same make of car as mine which i said in the email to the guy i was supposed to meet that i had.
When I got home I had an email from the guy saying sorry he was not well and had to cancel!!!
Now is the coincidence or am I just paranoid ????
You decide
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Paranoid or coincidence??? What do you think?
we arranged a meet with a guy a few weeks ago nr a well known doggin spot at donny..we both parked up in the eve on a dark quite lane that is also know for where doggers go 4 more private encounters..the guy gets out of his car and approaches ours starts 2 play with his dick when out of knowwhere comes this guy around 6-5in built like a brick shit house walks straight up 2 us and says "out doggin tonight",no hesitation no nerves as bold as brass..weve come across foward guys in the past etc but never as forward as this guy, 4 what he could acually see with the dark we could have been just a cpl of mates parked up..ourselves and the guy we arranged a meet with have both come 2 the conclusion he was the old bill either that or a very behind the door man..do guys on here actually take the time 2 read at least a few rules of how u could approach a cpl...our other pet hate is when a guy drives as nr as possible 2 the female side of the car and trys 2 get an eyefull without even gettin out of there car.
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Donny
If you would like to pm the details of the guy, although nothing we can do about last night, we can keep a note against him to see if this happens again. Just like the police, all these little bits of info help to build a picture.
Mal
If you would like to pm the details of the guy, although nothing we can do about last night, we can keep a note against him to see if this happens again. Just like the police, all these little bits of info help to build a picture.
Mal
It depends what you drive Donnytv, if it's a blue Focus for example then they're very common, if it's a more unusual car or colour then maybe not. It does surprise me that there never "I've PMd you" messages in your threads but perhaps people who want to meet with you are a bit shy on the board? Worrying though 
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Thanks for the PM, Donny. It's very useful ANY little bits of info we get sometimes.
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Quote by donnytv
yes but,,,,,i'm dressed up
So? As long as the officers can't see your genitals, it doesn't matter how you're dressed. Satin's been stopped loads of times. They will probably try and get you on something, but as long as you are insured, taxed etc, and your car is doing nowt illegal, just be polite and then go
:flipa: :flipa: when they've gone. 
Casanova
Quote by youngsheffcouple
our other pet hate is when a guy drives as nr as possible 2 the female side of the car and trys 2 get an eyefull without even gettin out of there car.
Now that's your pet hate, yet my experience is that a lot of couples like to be watched from inside the car for a while, til they are well and truly "warmed up" before they like doggers to get out of the car. It's maybe another of those "regional practises" things..
Casanova
Quote by dirtydoggers
drive-in dogging" whatever next?
Now you see the problem that a lack of local knowledge brings...
An East Anglian dogger taking a day-trip (OK, a "night trip") to Birmingham will probably make his move far to early for the Brummie couple's liking and scare them away.
A Brummie dogger in East Anglia, will bore the local couples to death with his caution.
It pays to research local customs and practises, otherwise you can upset people without knowing it.
no, you are taking it in a different direction partyman..sheffcouple said that they didn't like doggers parking right up to the womans side of the car, in an attempt to watch the proceedings without exiting their vehicle...which, i agreed with...nothing mentioned about anglian doggers being pushy, or brum doggers being cautious....i'm sure that many couples would agree, i stand corrected if they dont..but parking right on a couples car, window to window, as described by youngsheffcouple, wouldn't be seen as cautious, more, downright rude....wether you were from norfolk, brum or wherever..
I have to agree
ok if you park up a few meters away to watch I would thik that thats fine, but being as close as described is out of order. Hell how the hell are you getting out the car ffs if you are that close :shock:
Altho my success rate today is zero for lots of tries, I still keep tring, but wont get that close to a car unless I feel sure I am being invited, probly missing out by being cautiuos, but sooner that than cause offence
ok if you park up a few meters away to watch I would thik that thats fine, but being as close as described is out of order. Hell how the hell are you getting out the car ffs if you are that close :shock:
Altho my success rate today is zero for lots of tries, I still keep tring, but wont get that close to a car unless I feel sure I am being invited, probly missing out by being cautiuos, but sooner that than cause offence
we go dogging around and about and it is a pet hate of our wen they pull up so close to the pasanger side ( should see the faces when its m in it esp wen hes pissed lol ) that the door cannot be flly opened we dont want to get int that regonal thing but we have been arround and about and found differnt pratices in different places but we ( this i only our preference cant speek for noeone else )like it if were showing that we would rather pple be out in the open not lurking ie at a respectable distance as so to see but not to crowd (give the respectable distance and its more likley someone will get invited in ) some places are good some are bad u take ur pick really
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Quote by dirtydoggers
no, you are taking it in a different direction partyman..sheffcouple said that they didn't like doggers parking right up to the womans side of the car, in an attempt to watch the proceedings without exiting their vehicle...which, i agreed with...nothing mentioned about anglian doggers being pushy, or brum doggers being cautious....i'm sure that many couples would agree, i stand corrected if they dont..but parking right on a couples car, window to window, as described by youngsheffcouple, wouldn't be seen as cautious, more, downright rude....wether you were from norfolk, brum or wherever..
I agree that a repectful distance should be kept, and I agree with what you say about too close being rude and in your face as well. No disagreement there.
I sort of got the impression that as you don't like the "velcro-arses" that the "done thing" in E. Anglia was to get out of the car sooner rather than later which is different to what it is here in Brum. Apologies if I got the wrong end of the stick.
Our most famous patch here is a place which you will think of when you read about the Barbican. It's now become a magnet for dogging tourists from all over the country, and the different techniques are obvious to see. Some are out of their cars like jack-in-the-boxes, and others never leave their cars at all. Some wander in between the cars and stare in thinking that their impatience will speed up the production of a show, and others cry into their coffee at the sight of this.
Barely anyone asks, "what do the local couples want to see from the doggers". Instead everyone thinks that what they are doing is the right thing (as it may be where they come from) and gives it the "who are you to tell me" retort when you try to give them any
advice.
Result - that dogging patch has done down the swanny since it was made famous by the internet.
all the behaviour you described happens in our carpark too, not just among the visitors, of which there are many, but among the locals..maybe there are regional variations, but probably a bigger issue is individual attitudes..pushy types generally have a innapropiate sense of importance when it comes to dogging couples..it matters not that they are a managing director of an it company, or just a spotty faced sunday sport reader who thinks carparks really are full of cock hungry nymphos who cannot get enough fresh boys to satisfy their sexual appetites, in the context of dogging, couples and females, by definition are more important..when guys forget that, they invairably lose....my point about the velcro-arses wasn't well explained, hence the confusion..i use the term for someone who NEVER exits his vehicle, but chooses to park annoyingly close throughout.. 
Casanova
Quote by dirtydoggers
a managing director of an it company,
Oh, you know J******n too then? Wow! he does get around!. :shock: Couldn't believe it when after not seeing him for years I bumped into him at a lonely car park near Bournmouth a couple of years ago.
Of all the car parks in all the towns in all the world, he had to be in "mine",
in our opinion, the best way a guy in a car can get a show from us is to put his interior light on for a cpl of secs, that way we get to see who's in the car and decide if we want to show or not. 3 or 4 cars in a carpark could quite easily add up to a football team crowding around the car, which is definately not our scene. just our humble opinion, what do you guys think?
