It seems to me that what's needed is a PRIVATE dogging area. Private, probably farm, land to which only invited/known guests/participants are allowed would seem to be the answer - No laws broken; all participants safe and anonymous (apart from being 'known' to the farmer); maybe a small 'tip' as an incentive to the landowner (no charges, because that would put it into a different category). What we need now is a horny farmer or two to come up with some secluded land and SH to formulate an acceptable policy for all to follow.... with invitations to be dealt with by PMs. A germ of an idea??
No, it's not just 'outside swinging'... swinging parties know and approve of each other (reasonably), but here there is still the element of 'chance', with the serious dangers (robbery/violence/Police action) removed. It would need a large clientele to increase the 'chance' element, but the element of 'chance' is still there. But I acknowledge that some people actually WANT the danger element of dogging.... many don't. The fact that it has been suggested before indicates that it's maybe a good idea for some of us.
we have a dissused farm in bucks if it helps anyone out, BUT, it is on the market and could be occupied at anytime so be sure to get intouch before you visit
I can see the appeal of this to people who like to do pre-arranged meets, but for me dogging is about the element of 'will I/wont I' be cought, so going to a private location would be more like going to an outside swingers club (soz Kiss) so definately not my thing. The fact that is has been suggested before and never really taken off, does (to me) suggest that it isnt as popular as you think it may be. If it was the way to go, then half the farmers/land owners in the uk would be advertising (and then they would move to introducing charges and before long, we would have outside swinging clubs) I suppose it is a good job we all like different things and it would be boring if we all wanted the same. Good luck with the idea BeJa, and I really do hope it does work out, but personally, its not dogging, it is outside swinging.
We've got a big garden and will open the gates for those who would like to play in it. Could even arrange to pitch a few tents!!. Have to agree with NWC though the appeal of dogging for us is the waiting game. Also thinking up new excuses for the local constabulary!
Quote by Northbicester We've got a big garden and will open the gates for those who would like to play in it. Could even arrange to pitch a few tents!!. Have to agree with NWC though the appeal of dogging for us is the waiting game. Also thinking up new excuses for the local constabulary!
Northnichester, if you start taking caravans, we just might be interested We arrange a dogging BBQ each year and have to say that somewhere 'private' like this would be perfect. It might also be appealing for some of the newer dogging couples, to get an introduction to it, so Im not knocking it BeJa, honest, :lol:
Not knocking it either. Imagine just walking outside my back door to go dogging. That would save on the diesel claim with the accountant. Gets difficult to know what to put all that mileage down too!!
Well, a bit of luke-warm interest there! Thanks annienkev... that's JUST the sort of thing I had in mind. I hope someone takes you up on that (a bit far for me, but I'd make the trek to get something like this going). I really can't see the appeal of getting mugged, assaulted, abused, arrested... but each to his own! :lol: There must be a middle-way that keeps the excitement of dogging, but eliminates the extreme risks. Any more ideas, or must we still just sit in dark car parks hoping 'something' happens, and that the 'something' isn't a rock through the windscreen... or worse!
Quote by BeJa I really can't see the appeal of getting mugged, assaulted, abused, arrested... but each to his own! :
Fully agree with you here, and I am sure that everyone else who has posted on here will also say they dont want to go out to get mugged etc. No one has indicated that they do find that appealing so not a clue where you have got that from. What I am saying, and the majority of the others seem to be saying, is that you are classing this has dogging and it isnt dogging. It is an outside arranged meet in a private location. Dogging is about going out and 'possibly' being caught by someone, about the suprise element, for the voyerist and exhibitionist inside of us. Its not about a clinical list of people who may go to a private location on a certain day and who are guaranteed to be 'nice' and 'safe'.
Quote by BeJa There must be a middle-way that keeps the excitement of dogging, but eliminates the extreme risks. Any more ideas, or must we still just sit in dark car parks hoping 'something' happens, and that the 'something' isn't a rock through the windscreen... or worse!
There is a middle way, keep away from the well known dogging sites. Go back to the old fashioned way before the internet and newspapers advertised the places. Get out and find the secluded places which are not your 'regular' dogging places. Ok, you may have to wait around for a while, but at least it is safe and you dont have problems with kids, muggers or police.
I agree with NWC. For me dogging is very like fishing - you either go to a riverbank and dangle your rod and sometimes get a nibble or you pay and go to a stocked lake where you're guaranteed a bite but it's not nearly as much fun. For me half the fun is in the anticipation of sitting in a deserted site watching headlights pass by (and sometimes pull in) - delicious!!
Its been done to death , and its still a nonsense idea. Why not have swinging but without any sex so as to prevent any risk of disease , or perhaps sky diving but from a very low kerb ? If you dont like dogging , why not just fuck someone in yer garden ? Peace
Quote by Silk and Big G Its been done to death , and its still a nonsense idea. Why not have swinging but without any sex so as to prevent any risk of disease , or perhaps sky diving but from a very low kerb ? If you dont like dogging , why not just fuck someone in yer garden ? Peace
Bad night G ? In any case, what gives you the idea that it WON'T be in his own garden ? I think.....as a "green" idea it is excellent....it saves his fuel...and energy...at the expense of annoying the neighbours.... It also makes mugging easier....the "marks" drive to the place arranged and then get mugged....or worse. When you think about it....there is nothing to say that arranged meets are safe...after all, you still don't have a clue who is who, and you're also AT a place and AT a time. Besides, the idea has been done-to-death over the years. Happiness to all.
Quote by juscruzin I agree with NWC. For me dogging is very like fishing - you either go to a riverbank and dangle your rod and sometimes get a nibble or you pay and go to a stocked lake where you're guaranteed a bite but it's not nearly as much fun. For me half the fun is in the anticipation of sitting in a deserted site watching headlights pass by (and sometimes pull in) - delicious!!
We totally agree. Its the buzz of the headlights as much as anything that helps build up the the thrill.
Erm, doggin has been going on for years - why do people bother suggesting these ideas?? Aha !! let me guess, you know the perfect "Private place" ????? Flipping internet makes damn lazy doggers these days, get out in the car parks as that's where the action is not sitting at your pc . . . SC ps, know 2 places where you can combine fishing & dogging - now that's a great way to spend a summers eveninn
just to make it clear where we stand on this, we posted earlier so those that would like a park up for outdoor meets with the risk element reduced can have the opportunity of doing so.........we're kind like that. Personally, that risk factor , coupled with the idea that "we're not really allowed to be here doing this....but bollox, we're doing it anyway" is surely what makes dogging 'dogging' enjoy it, however you decide to do it xxx
taking this idea a bit further - why in a field - perhaps if someone has a large hall or club or house - everyone could meet there - save going out in vehicles and risking anything.
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