im new to all this so just wonderd do you get invited or just turn up to these events?
a combination of the two, there are places where you can just turn up, youll find them on here, there are people who prefer to make arrangements first, settle in here and get to know folks
can single men join in the fun?
im sure folks will add to this and correct anything i may get wrong but
1 dont be pushy
2 be clean and smell nice
3 no the limits the couple set
4 be straight with them
5 respect their wishes when they say no back off
6 you dont do a thing you arent invited to do
7 keep yourself safe
more to follow im sure
8 only mess about when asked to do so