Hi,
Getting increasingly interested in idea of dogging, but haven't got a clue how a sngle girl approaches this. Would also be cocerned about my safety. Anyone help me out with this? All advice gratefully accepted. Also Im in the Luton area.
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Many thanks Serendipity for the reply.
To b honest both actually appeal in theory, altho without the experience of practice my fantasies might b way off! i like the idea of being an active participant, but dont think the being watched or being the watcher excludes that, or does it?
Forgive me if this is nonsense....as i said im mew to this
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To b honest both actually appeal in theory, altho without the experience of practice my fantasies might b way off! i like the idea of being an active participant, but dont think the being watched or being the watcher excludes that, or does it?
Forgive me if this is nonsense....as i said im mew to this
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why not request a doggin partner on here or in ads...sure you will get an avalanche of replies for you to choose from ...at least that way you have someone to look after you
That is a good idea, but make sure you are clear on what you are looking for. A partner to play with, or a partner to watch with. I would suggest a Munch to meet people first and then pick someone from that, prob much safer.
BB
It's not nonsense at all, watching is fantastic but joining in isn't out of the question and is always enjoyed when offered as most of the guys here will testify I'm sure! :twisted:
A dogging partner is a good idea (a bit like a minder, possibly with perks!) although again, you should get to know that person beforehand rather than take people at face value, through PMs, phone calls, webcam and probably at a well populated non dogging venue. Don't be afraid to set your boundaries and stick to them, a decent guy will respect that.
As a female, you'll probably find it a lot easier to get assistance in going out than a single guy (poor unloved souls that they are
), the places I've been aren't busy so I don't have a problem being alone but at some of the more well known places, you'll find that people may make assumptions about why you're there.
There are loads of threads in here about "etiquette", interior lights, exterior lights, open windows etc but more practical things would include: if you're showing, lock the doors if you're nervous (esp if you own a 4 door), don't wear something like a necklace that someone could grab, have your own supply of condoms even if you don't plan to do anything, if possible have someone you can call to let them know when you arrive and leave.
There must be lots more but my brain is about to turn into a pumpkin, the others will be around sooner or later though and will be able to give you better advice than I can, I'm still a newbie!
A dogging partner is a good idea (a bit like a minder, possibly with perks!) although again, you should get to know that person beforehand rather than take people at face value, through PMs, phone calls, webcam and probably at a well populated non dogging venue. Don't be afraid to set your boundaries and stick to them, a decent guy will respect that.
As a female, you'll probably find it a lot easier to get assistance in going out than a single guy (poor unloved souls that they are
), the places I've been aren't busy so I don't have a problem being alone but at some of the more well known places, you'll find that people may make assumptions about why you're there.There are loads of threads in here about "etiquette", interior lights, exterior lights, open windows etc but more practical things would include: if you're showing, lock the doors if you're nervous (esp if you own a 4 door), don't wear something like a necklace that someone could grab, have your own supply of condoms even if you don't plan to do anything, if possible have someone you can call to let them know when you arrive and leave.
There must be lots more but my brain is about to turn into a pumpkin, the others will be around sooner or later though and will be able to give you better advice than I can, I'm still a newbie!
Warming the Bed
I'd add something about the phone a friend thing....don't rely on texts to do the job. A friend of mine did once, and thankfully there were no problems, but when she spoke to her 'friend' afterwards his reply was 'what texts?'... 
Many thanks to those who offered advice and the few who left me a message.
I think I'll try to get to know some of the peeps from here and take things slowly, perhaps by going along to watch to see if its my bag, so to speak.. I also think the munch is a great idea, so plaese let me know if there is anything happening in my area, or surrounding areas
Anyway, thanks again
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I think I'll try to get to know some of the peeps from here and take things slowly, perhaps by going along to watch to see if its my bag, so to speak.. I also think the munch is a great idea, so plaese let me know if there is anything happening in my area, or surrounding areas
Anyway, thanks again
xxxx
Casanova
Hi - sorry to be late in on this one, but there is another alternative. You can actually meet real people that are probably into the same things as you at a respectable swingers club, and there is one very close to you in Dunstable. It's called Arrousals, and thre are independent reviews of the club in the Clubs page of this site. Not been there myself, but it comes with a good reputation, and the members there are supposed to be a decent enough bunch. If you happen to find someone you like, you never know. What it will do is to save you from the mailbags full of PM's from people in the opposite corner of the country offering to chapperone you if you make the journey to the Outer Hebridies etc by yourself, or those who fantsise about meeting people and duck out when push comes to shove.
