Surrey dogging - planned or unplanned, which is better?

Warming the Bed

0 likes 11 Aug 2008

Ok, here's a question that is puzzling me...
I have been to several clubs & parties & seen all sorts of hanky panky going on; some of it very very close up :P :P :P
.... so why oh why am I more excited about peering in through a car window & seeing a couple playing about, groping each other, maybe a glimpse of flesh and perhaps the possibility of some action? :twisted:
I was parked at a dogging spot recently & the chap in the car next to me started wanking (in his car)... and it really turned me on! I didnt speak to him, touch him, just watched as he made himself cum.
I am wondering if watching full on sex/orgies at clubs is more "expected" & more likely to happen... whereas wandering round a half lit carpark or walking through the woods & happening accross something is more taboo &... well... naughtier?
I know for sure that I get a much better view in the clubs lol

, and its not wet, or dodgy, or dark.... so why oh why do I keep fantasizing about outside / carpark voyeuristic fun... am I alone here? confused

Any thoughts?

s1dthesexist

Warming the Bed

0 likes 11 Aug 2008

The fear: plain and simple.
Fear of getting caught,
Fear of someone recognising you,
Fear of recognising someone you know,
Fear of people telling you to fuck-off,
Fear of scrotty kids causing trouble,
Fear of the police,
Fear of spending a whole night waiting in a car, for nothing to happen,
Fear of what you miss when you could be chatting to people trying to set up a meet,
Fear of your car breaking down or crashing,
Fear of anything that you could fear.
I have never been to a club, and until I know a female that will accompany to couples nights, dogging is for me.

Unknown User

0 likes 11 Aug 2008

Quote by s1dthesexist
The fear: plain and simple

Interesting debate :thumbup:
For me, it has nothing to do with fear to be honest as this would have the opposite effect on me, but I can understand why this might get some people of.
For me, it's more the anonymity and spontaneity of it all. Not knowing what you might get, the 'lucky dip' syndrome of it all. The uncertainty of who you might meet, of pushing your own boundaries (and theirs).
I have my own place, am single, live alone and could easily 'play' indoors and travel and/or accommodate but for the reason's stated above, the idea of driving for a bit and playing in some half-lit, shady car park appeals so much more..
:P

Big_Lucy

Warming the Bed

0 likes 11 Aug 2008

Quote by s1dthesexist
The fear: plain and simple.
Fear of scrotty kids causing trouble,

Well, that's a new one on me!
I checked ..... and that has never heard of scrotty either. Its suggestions were:
Dictionary suggestions:
SCRTY
scotty
scrota
SCRT
scott
Scrat
Scrit
grotty
scatty
schott
scotti
scotto
scrod
SQROOT
scrode
scrota's
scrotal
scrotum
so I presume it is a mix of scrotum/scrotal & grotty???
Or maybe it is a StarTrek reference..... Beam me up Scrotty
'twas good to chat to you in the chatrooms earlier, you sound like a hoot
& thanks for your insight into dogging :bounce:
xx

Big_Lucy

Warming the Bed

0 likes 11 Aug 2008

Quote by R6_biker
For me, it's more the anonymity and spontaneity of it all. Not knowing what you might get, the 'lucky dip' syndrome of it all. The uncertainty of who you might meet, of pushing your own boundaries (and theirs).
:P

Yes.. deffo the anonymity & spontaneity.... but perhaps a bit of the fear too.
What an adrenalin rush!
It's looking like I've been bitten by the dogging bug
:taz: :doh:
Anyone got any medicine I can take???
lol

s1dthesexist

Warming the Bed

0 likes 11 Aug 2008

You are right about scrotty: it is the kind of little shit you see hanging around the local shopping centre.
Just to clarify, by fear I mean the apprehension of the event, not the out-and-out fear of greater harm that one might get from, for example, sky diving, or something else where there is a total loss of control.

terry26

Forum Virgin

0 likes 12 Aug 2008

In Devon we have two or three women who come along to the local dogging site, they love to watch and some times join in but the decision is their's
Watching is a real turn on and most men respect the man/woman or couple putting on the show.
Am in Surrey on Saturday night so if you wanted to have someone totally safe to hold your hand I would be more than happy
Mike

Serendipity

Sex God

0 likes 12 Aug 2008

Quote by Big Lucy
I know for sure that I get a much better view in the clubs , and its not wet, or dodgy, or dark.... so why oh why do I keep fantasizing about outside / carpark voyeuristic fun... am I alone here?
Any thoughts?

I can recall some good debates about this way back when...the conclusion I came to is because it's naughtier! It feels illicit because it's in the dark, the couple show and you watch by unspoken consent, there's no viewing window outside a nicely lit room with a bed in it, it has a deliciously taboo feel to it because it seem like a much more private act. It's not "organised".
It's just naughtier biggrin