Non-contact adrenaline rush eh? What exactly do you have in mind?
At first thought i would keep it to synchronize masterbating, but i suppose that's a little naive.
Would be more than happy to give a helping hand!
lol, ok. Maybe you could come dogging with us, have you read my post below?
Shelly XX
Not sure I'm ready for being with both sexes. Sorry.
Out of curiosity, was it you or your boyfriend that raised the suggestion first of trying out dogging/swinging? Were you into it before you met him?
I have a girlfriend, and love making love with her. Was thinking how we could make things that little bit more exciting/naughty though. I hope you don't think bad of me for it, but at the moment I'm assessing whether I could do something of this nature. Not sure whether I could away from her - don't think of me as a cheating bastard yet. Just testing the relationship at the 7month stage!
I bet you get loads of similar messages from horny men. If she wasn't away for 5 days a week, I wonder whether I would be here?!
He isn't my boyfriend. He is a guy ive met on here a couple of times. So far we've only played together alone but are feeling a bit more daring and want to try something new.
Not sure what to say about you and your girlfriend. I'm no expert but I think most swingers that are couples are people who have been together a long time and have a very very good relationship with eachother. Im not sure I could do it with someone I was in a serious relationship with at the moment.
I started off by meeting single guys and have my first meet with a couple arranged for next week.
Im sure if any of the older, more experienced swingers read our messages they will be able to offer some noble advice.
Shelly XXX
Hmmm. Am in two-minds.
Thanks for your words Shelly. xx
Anyone got any thoughts on the subject? Has anyone else broached the subject with a girlfriend, and what was the outcome?
I've been with Em for 7 years, there's no hesitation when I want to talk to her about anything at all. I wouldn't be interested in dogging unless she had shown a VERY active interest in it! I would just play it by ear, if you have doubts about her reacting badly. Are you talking about full swinging or just people watching you having sex? Choose your words wisely :twisted:
BenAndEms x