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Hi folks
Thanks for reading this, this is the 4th post I have sent in, but am getting
nowhere fast.
I have sent approx 15 emails out, given my phone number, sent a few pics & get no reply.
What am I doing wrong??
I am actually a very clean, decent, handsome 32yo guy, looking for my first experience with either a couple or doggingor just be a voyeur, but at this rate i'm gonna be 62yo before it happens.
I got needs you know, c'mon give a guy a break
thanks HS
You're probably doing nothing wrong, but 15 emails isn't actually that many - I'm sure many guys will back me up on that one! When replying to ads, reply with relevant info and most of all sound genuine and sane (I'm sure you do already wink ), but try not to sound desperate (even if you are :wink: ) as that is very off-putting. Read Heather's advice for single men in the advice page to see if you can pick up some tips. Failing that, I assume you're looking for doggers as this is on the dogging forum, check out some of the dogging locations listed on here on the off-chance smile
I know everything you are saying is right, & maybe my expectations are a bit high for a quick response.
It's difficult though, you put good looking guy down & then think do people think I am being arrogant?
You type out interested in anything does that give off the impression I am gagging for it?
then people ask for pics, so you send & hear nothing.
it's enough to drive you to despair
I just want to experience something new & different
thats what life's about isn't it?
Thanks for the input again.
It's nice to know sometimes that someone is actually also experiencing the same.
HS