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tog hill, tormarton - was there tonight

well, i dived in and went to tormarton and tog hill tonight, first time at a dogging site.
scary or what, I sat in the car at tog hill for about 45 mins, from 945 to 1030 and my courage gave up on me, had to come home. Was I too early?
Nothing seemed to be happening, but that could just be because I don't really know what it would look like if it was. There were lots of single men, either in cars or standing around.
how did you feel the firsttime, did you have to have a couple of attempts before you actually got out of the car.
Ladies, how do you do it, it just feels so heart poundingly different and scary basically!
Is Tog Hill just too well known, when I got there there were probably about 15 cars ans while I was there about another 15 drove in and out or stopped for a bit. There always seemed to be upwards of 15 cars there. There was even a p[olice car that cruised in and out - heart stopping moment for somebody's first time there.
I also drove round tormarton, but that was even busier, tons of lorries parked on the road and again 15 or so cars inside.
again, how do you do it??
anyway, this post has got too long, would be interested to hear about your first experiences and your views on tog hill/tormarton
ta-ra
skally
You do it coz it excites you, it's not something you force yourself to do.
See Blue's site - she explains it best there.
If a picture says a thousand words...well....
Rachel
wink
Rachel
It does excite me and I will keep trying, just have to get lucky soon i hope
who's blue and where is their site?
Chris
you lucky b*gger!
so what do you do just sit in the car or walk around?
where do you park - at the top?
down the bottom with the view of bristol
or on the way out?
c'mon, someone give me some pointers
cheers
skally
Her site name is Bluexxx, so find any of her posts and click on her weblink at the bottom and it will take you to her site.
A few points to be aware of -
you have mentioned two sites so far, admittedly they are listed in the dogging sites, but be careful of naming Sites and times. We will delete it and eventually you if you continue to do it.
- it can also encourage people to turn up at the Sites when you are there, who you would rather weren't there.
Just take your time, have patience and behave and you should eventually have fun.
Mal
and Little Mal wink
Never fear, Blue is here to explain all.
It's easy cool 8-) 8-)
The problem: how to get out of a car when others are around
The solution: Find the little handle thingie that opens the door and pull it. This might be a problem if you are in the back and there are child locks on. If so, you are stuck unless you sqeeze through the gap between the front seats and get out of the front or you open the window and open the door from the outside. Once the door is open (however you manage it), swing your legs out of the door-shaped opening in the car's body-work that has now been created, put your feet on the floor and stand up. If you are wearing high heels and the car park is gravelling, standing up might be a problem, especially when others are watching. If you are a bit of a clod like I am, you might find you stumble a bit and others will laugh, but not to worry, all in a night's dogging.
Does that answer the question?
thanks blue confused , I'll try and remember that for next time.
The heels aren't a prob for me, I try and just wear them in the bedroom, I could never drive in heels.
Th prob is this big lump of newbie-hesitance that sits on my back, it's just too big to fit through that door, but it is geting smaller, unlike other parts of my anatomy!
ta-ra
skally
:thumbup:
Hey Skally - at least you went! And hopefully with polite but respectful serious intent.
You know the best thing about dogging is the nervous tension inside yourself when you visit these sites and try to work out what is happening and what you are finding yourself turned on by.
Now I recall all them moons ago when I went down the bottom of the TH picnic site carpark.... I never for a moment expected to see what I did, nor get turned on by it. The invite to join in was just that bit too much then. But I learned a bit more about myself.
Relax man and then "anything goes when nobody knows" (the great terror of meeting a friends mum and boyfriend by accident or getting turned on by a TV!)
Oh and don't put anything anywhere you wouldn't put your tongue first is my thinking. Mind you, thats been everywhere now. blast
Regards to my friends at TH who know the SAS man. biggrin :borg: See you soon!