Short notice - and always will be......godda stay one step ahead of the coppers and the crooks, but please expect postings of this nature about once a week......and not always on the weekend, either.......
OK: looking for a few people to join us - at least two other couples and a few select singles (bi fems especially welcome!!) - for a little fun in the Welwyn/Hatfield/Stevenage area.......
Venue will be advised by phone, but anyone interested should initially PM to say so.
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Tuesday night in Herts.....HotDog
....bloody yawn........
....another great reason why NOT to publish your location!! Idiots that will tell the world......and I quote....."don't worry guys......" - forget it!!
We are a genuine 30-something couple, quite new to this (but what we lack in experience we make up for in enthusiasm) and determined to remain SAFE above all!! The limited experiences we have had have involved....
1/ being decended on by 10s of males
2/ being followed by the law for 10s of miles
Assuming that being robbed at knifepoint by 10s of villains is the logical next step, we have made a decision to try to pursue this past-time....shall we say slightly more discreetly and safely!!
Sorry Jomu - your scpeticism is understandable, but on this occasion unfounded.
Good luck, though!!
And anyone that genuinely does want to join us......let us know ASAP......
....another great reason why NOT to publish your location!! Idiots that will tell the world......and I quote....."don't worry guys......" - forget it!!
We are a genuine 30-something couple, quite new to this (but what we lack in experience we make up for in enthusiasm) and determined to remain SAFE above all!! The limited experiences we have had have involved....
1/ being decended on by 10s of males
2/ being followed by the law for 10s of miles
Assuming that being robbed at knifepoint by 10s of villains is the logical next step, we have made a decision to try to pursue this past-time....shall we say slightly more discreetly and safely!!
Sorry Jomu - your scpeticism is understandable, but on this occasion unfounded.
Good luck, though!!
And anyone that genuinely does want to join us......let us know ASAP......
Sexlightened
you have a p.m.
Funny that, reading your past posts you state that you are single....
Would you like the COUPLES on here to inform you of the amount of genuine wasters who have arranged "private" meets with them because it's "safer"
All it does is remove any danger from a known, used and occupied site to a remote place with no guarantee of any improvement.....................but less competition...
Would you like the COUPLES on here to inform you of the amount of genuine wasters who have arranged "private" meets with them because it's "safer"
All it does is remove any danger from a known, used and occupied site to a remote place with no guarantee of any improvement.....................but less competition...
...oh Jomu Jomu Jomu....have been hearing lots about you today, sir! The people who have been kind enough to pm me regarding this have all been told where I am at.....I am a single male but with, on this occasion, a fine young lady who is up for a meet.....I don't know why I am explaining this to you but somehow feel obliged....the young lady in question has joined me in the past and I hope will in the future. For the record, I may often use this site to look for couples interested in having single chaps to watch. Equally, when a partner is willing, I may use this site to find other couples or singles to join me+1. But I will always be honest - indeed I am an honest, professional and genuine guy, mate! I really do not like to be challenged when there is no justification for it. I can understand your scepticism, and I will readilly confess I am new to this site (and indeed have no experience of similar sites). Our/my dogging experiences so far, however, have been somewhat less than successful, so I/we are giving this approach a try. So far, with one exception and a slight misunderstanding with a mod, the feedback has been genuinely positive! Always interested in any advice/tips that you might have, though!
Advice/tips: based on the above, I'd say be clear about who or what you are!
People do read back on posts from new members (I did) and it appears (going by your postings) that you've gone from single guy looking for his first voyeuristic experience to a guy who has been dogging with this young lady before in the space of five days - so to people who don't know you (most of us at the mo), it doesn't seem to tally up.
You may well be perfectly genuine as many people here are - but it's good for you to understand why some of us might have reservations, hope that helps!
People do read back on posts from new members (I did) and it appears (going by your postings) that you've gone from single guy looking for his first voyeuristic experience to a guy who has been dogging with this young lady before in the space of five days - so to people who don't know you (most of us at the mo), it doesn't seem to tally up.
You may well be perfectly genuine as many people here are - but it's good for you to understand why some of us might have reservations, hope that helps!
....and thanks! I am very new to this, and I stumbled across this site by chance whilst looking for some potential new and safe locations. Maybe the answer is that we should both have separate profiles and post separately.
For the record and for all who are interested.....I, joz014 - not my real name of course - am a single bloke. I have one female friend who has occasionally proven to be keen and willing, although anxious that we should not to be the only couple on show in light of some previous experiences. Together we have tried out two (supposedly) well known sights - namely Enfield (Cooks Hole) and Welwyn Garden City (Stanborough). Enfield was a wash out on the one occasion we tried - no one there at all. Stanborough is where we had some bad experiences, including not even entering the car park as we saw an unmarked car pull out closely followed by a marked police car, both of which turned immediately into the Herts Police HQ across the road - have since read that they are now using decoys to try to lure people out. The other time we went to Stanborough, we were descended upon by about seven or eight blokes almost before we'd even stopped the car.....so we left straight away. I have been to Stanborough on my own a couple of times also as it is close to where I live, and the experiences have all been similar!!
So this leaves me essentially still gagging for my first voyeuristic experience, and I have now exchanged a few e-mails and PMs with a few couples on here - thank-you for your interest, guys. But hopefully this provides me also with a forum for arranging some meetings with a partner, albeit there would need to be other couples there to make her comfortable with the situation.
I hope this clarifies for everyone. I can assure you all that I am very genuine and, if I am alone and looking for a couple to watch I will always say so - and I did!!
If you are prepared to keep the advice coming for a little while longer, then maybe you can let me have an opinion on my/our decision to try to keep things safe and control numbers by "arranging" meets rather than just turning up at a well known spot and hoping for the best. Is this not in keeping with the spirit? I read your post regarding limits also, and I can say for definite that the girlfriend in question will NOT under any circumstances let anyone "join in"! But for me (certainly when acting alone) the thrill is absolutely in watching - after all, just getting laid in a car park can normally be achieved after a night out at the pub (lol)!!
Nice to have started chatting to a few people, anyway. I agree that most on here seem perfectly genuine. I evidently got off to a bad start with Jomu, but perhaps he will evenually forgive my naivety!
Keep em' comin'.....and by the way, only blokes responded regarding tonight, so looks like a no go....but if there is anything else happening anywhere else......
For the record and for all who are interested.....I, joz014 - not my real name of course - am a single bloke. I have one female friend who has occasionally proven to be keen and willing, although anxious that we should not to be the only couple on show in light of some previous experiences. Together we have tried out two (supposedly) well known sights - namely Enfield (Cooks Hole) and Welwyn Garden City (Stanborough). Enfield was a wash out on the one occasion we tried - no one there at all. Stanborough is where we had some bad experiences, including not even entering the car park as we saw an unmarked car pull out closely followed by a marked police car, both of which turned immediately into the Herts Police HQ across the road - have since read that they are now using decoys to try to lure people out. The other time we went to Stanborough, we were descended upon by about seven or eight blokes almost before we'd even stopped the car.....so we left straight away. I have been to Stanborough on my own a couple of times also as it is close to where I live, and the experiences have all been similar!!
So this leaves me essentially still gagging for my first voyeuristic experience, and I have now exchanged a few e-mails and PMs with a few couples on here - thank-you for your interest, guys. But hopefully this provides me also with a forum for arranging some meetings with a partner, albeit there would need to be other couples there to make her comfortable with the situation.
I hope this clarifies for everyone. I can assure you all that I am very genuine and, if I am alone and looking for a couple to watch I will always say so - and I did!!
If you are prepared to keep the advice coming for a little while longer, then maybe you can let me have an opinion on my/our decision to try to keep things safe and control numbers by "arranging" meets rather than just turning up at a well known spot and hoping for the best. Is this not in keeping with the spirit? I read your post regarding limits also, and I can say for definite that the girlfriend in question will NOT under any circumstances let anyone "join in"! But for me (certainly when acting alone) the thrill is absolutely in watching - after all, just getting laid in a car park can normally be achieved after a night out at the pub (lol)!!
Nice to have started chatting to a few people, anyway. I agree that most on here seem perfectly genuine. I evidently got off to a bad start with Jomu, but perhaps he will evenually forgive my naivety!
Keep em' comin'.....and by the way, only blokes responded regarding tonight, so looks like a no go....but if there is anything else happening anywhere else......
Jomu is a good guy, he gives good advice
Sadly I can't where arranging meets and controlling numbers are concerned as I don't have experience of doing that but one of the dogging couples on here might have suggestions.....try some searches too as there is a lot of good info around that just needs digging up again :D
Sadly I can't where arranging meets and controlling numbers are concerned as I don't have experience of doing that but one of the dogging couples on here might have suggestions.....try some searches too as there is a lot of good info around that just needs digging up again :D
