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After being on the site for a couple of weeks i thought that maybe i would post a new topic... I decided to ask about a local dogging area... and in my niave/new user state i mentioned the name of the place...
For that i apoligise.... I now have an extremelly sore back of hand now after moderator mal609 slapped me there....
I do feel that he was a little short & sharp with me... as you so rightly state mal609 I am a new user to the website so surely new people make mistakes??
Anyway be assured i wnt make this misake again, just would be nice if the moderator had left out the angry face and sarcastic tones... as there really is no need for that its kinda discouraging when you get feedback like that to a post... a wee PM to my Inbox would have been sufficient, yet Mal609 thought i deserved a public slaughtering... harsh i feel.... Im sure some of u will say... "your own fault" Yeah... maybe... but we aint all as intellectially astute as mal609 and unfortunatly we do make mistakes...
as i says rest assured i wont make the mistake again....... as i probably wnt post anymore in danger of getting popped at again...
http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/swingers-forum/viewtopic/40066.html
thanks
nightfireuk2001
Maybe this sort of moderation work would have been more appreciated by a new user...
a little bit of editing instead of a personal attack and closing off the thread...
:idea:
The Mods on this site do a good job, by joining up to agreed to had read the AUP rules etc.
Dogging locations must be vague, to keep way the unwanted sorts, and there is enough trouble atdogging site without you nameing exact sites.
This is your 9th post and you want to have a pop at how I operate? Do you really think I have time to pm people? Concerned about these mad ? Get real. The purpose of me publicly posting that comment is so that others who think they can post like you will know what will happen to them, so it serves a dual purpose.
I spend a shitload of my spare time making sure that this site maintains the standards the members want and YOU with your 9 posts and whinges about not enough Scots posting have a lot to learn about what goes on here. One thing that is seriously frowned upon are people like you having a pop at the Mods. with 9 posts, you have nothing to back yourself up with.
If you want to stay here, learn a bit of respect for others who contribute to the site. It's a free site so we owe you nothing and you are welcome to leave at any time of your own free will - or stay and enjoy the Site. If you decide to stay, you do under our rules, not making up your own.
Mal
yes but how many times a day never mind in a week do the mods have to do this ,they must get sick of same type threads they have to sort out ,instead of posting straight away read the rules ,you would not sign a contract without reading it would you,remember mods are here to have fun to
Fair enough as i says i now realise the error of my ways...
still dont really appreciate that you decided to close of my thread when other ppl's havnt been mate... inconsitincy i guess is what i have a problem with...
as for the 9 posts theory... thats obviously why i made such a school boy error.. im a newbie...
and u dont have time to PM me?? yet u have have time to post a msg... surey these take the same amount of time no??
I appreciate how good a site you guys run here, and i didnt mean to post the name of a particular location... as i says it was a school boy error and for that i apoligise.... yet again!!
All i was wanting to know is why did my post get closed and some other mods simply edit the name of the post or something....
Spilt milk aint worth crying over i guess... so i'll just untuck my tail from between my legs and pick up my dummy, cause moddy's know best eh?
sad
Surley this experienced user has commited exactly the same crime as myself...
http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/swingers-forum/viewtopic/39808.html
Quote by nightfireuk2001
Fair enough as i says i now realise the error of my ways...
still dont really appreciate that you decided to close of my thread when other ppl's havnt been mate... inconsitincy i guess is what i have a problem with... Deal with it.
as for the 9 posts theory... thats obviously why i made such a school boy error.. im a newbie... Yep.
and u dont have time to PM me?? yet u have have time to post a msg... surey these take the same amount of time no?? No, I don't have time to pm you and as I said it served a dual purpose. And I decide how I use my time, not you.
I appreciate how good a site you guys run here, and i didnt mean to post the name of a particular location... as i says it was a school boy error and for that i apoligise.... yet again!! Apology accepted.
All i was wanting to know is why did my post get closed and some other mods simply edit the name of the post or something.... We decide how we act on a post, not you.
Spilt milk aint worth crying over i guess... so i'll just untuck my tail from between my legs and pick up my dummy, cause moddy's know best eh?
Yes, they do, so stick within the Site rules, which I'm sure you've read, and you will enjoy the site.
sad

Mal
Quote by nightfireuk2001
Surley this experienced user has commited exactly the same crime as myself...
http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/swingers-forum/viewtopic/39808.html

That's an April Fools joke!!! :shock:
Quote by nightfireuk2001
still dont really appreciate that you decided to close of my thread when other ppl's havnt been mate... inconsitincy i guess is what i have a problem with...

With several thousand people looking at the boards every night, what exactly are you expecting. Mal responded because you forced him to. Its easier to lock a thread and move on to the countless others who haven't read the board rules. If you dont like it, cancel your subscription check.
Quote by nightfireuk2001
as for the 9 posts theory... thats obviously why i made such a school boy error.. im a newbie...
Most read the rules before posting. *sighs*
OK,
thanks for taking the time to read my opinions i guess we will have to agree to disagree on some of the things....
i really do enjoy this site, and although new can already see that the mods do a great job in keeping the site safe and i cant beleive how dumb i was 2 name a dogging site by name... Its a dumb ass thing to do.... and i've sure learnt...
Thanks again for ur input all....
Quote by nightfireuk2001
Surley this experienced user has commited exactly the same crime as myself...
http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/swingers-forum/viewtopic/39808.html

FFS!! Please take special notice from the last Park, its a good 'un. If you can find it on a map, then be my guest. Once again, your inability to read board rules or posts properly is astounding!!
Mods, we're sorry our thread caused so much grief mad
No probs NightFire.
Now, I'm locking THIS thread to save anyone else jumping on your back.
Mal