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These days there seems to be a lot less unplanned dogging mets. Do others feel this, or is it just me?
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Unplanned dogging meets
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Dont necessarily think there are more happening. We very rarely do pre-arranged meets, but that is cause I dont have sex with the guys (we like the old fashioned type of dogging) but if I do feel like being a bit more adventerous, I do want to know who I am meeting and I want to do it at a non-dogging location.
It could also be because alot of the usual places are now full of kids and police and people are turning to the quieter places were there is less of a guarantee of people being there (and its not nice waiting around in this weather)
It could also be because alot of the usual places are now full of kids and police and people are turning to the quieter places were there is less of a guarantee of people being there (and its not nice waiting around in this weather)
That's because most of the guys are married, and their "other halves" ain't got a clue. Therefore, it has to be arranged.
Mind you, arranged has its down-side. Just heard of a guy who did an arranged at a travel lodge. The couple had a hidden video, the "footage" of which was seen by another guy....who knew his wife and told her. Looks like he will have a lot more time for dogging soon.
Mind you, arranged has its down-side. Just heard of a guy who did an arranged at a travel lodge. The couple had a hidden video, the "footage" of which was seen by another guy....who knew his wife and told her. Looks like he will have a lot more time for dogging soon.
makes you wonder what other hidden cams are around out there when ur dogging and dont know about seen lots of nite sites with their red lights flashing
who to say they not a hidden cam.
we know of one bloke been filmed and got back to his mrs not a happy xmas now for them.
honesty with other half always our best policy then no unwanted friction or arguments.
who to say they not a hidden cam.
we know of one bloke been filmed and got back to his mrs not a happy xmas now for them.
honesty with other half always our best policy then no unwanted friction or arguments.
makes you wonder what other hidden cams are around out there when ur dogging and dont know about seen lots of nite sites with their red lights flashing
who to say they not a hidden cam.
we know of one bloke been filmed and got back to his mrs not a happy xmas now for them.
honesty with other half always our best policy then no unwanted friction or arguments.
who to say they not a hidden cam.
we know of one bloke been filmed and got back to his mrs not a happy xmas now for them.
honesty with other half always our best policy then no unwanted friction or arguments.
its all down to the new generation of doggers who are no more than opertunist in dark cloths and sum have not mastered that yet!
What do they do wrong (how long have you got!)
aproach the car while its still being parked.
aproach the car asap and wait until you start.
do not disapear when a car passes caut in head lights.
phone other doggers to come see.
talk loudly with others along side car during fun.
beat the window with there dick.
hands in as soon as the window is dropped.
follows you around after a session.
thinks your his for ever and warns off others.
asks for phone numbers etc.
tells others what happened.
turns up without a small torch.
turns up with a big torch.
turns up without a condom.
dumps condom on floor next to car when finished.
walks upto car smoking.
starts smoking next to car without asking.
dog breath.
dirty hands.
bad body odour.
keeps pestering to cross boundries after being told no.
dressed in bright cloths ie yellow jacket.
how many more could we add ?
i would also say that we have met some great guys but there few and far between less than 1 in 10
so clean your act up guys before dogging become exstinct!
What do they do wrong (how long have you got!)
aproach the car while its still being parked.
aproach the car asap and wait until you start.
do not disapear when a car passes caut in head lights.
phone other doggers to come see.
talk loudly with others along side car during fun.
beat the window with there dick.
hands in as soon as the window is dropped.
follows you around after a session.
thinks your his for ever and warns off others.
asks for phone numbers etc.
tells others what happened.
turns up without a small torch.
turns up with a big torch.
turns up without a condom.
dumps condom on floor next to car when finished.
walks upto car smoking.
starts smoking next to car without asking.
dog breath.
dirty hands.
bad body odour.
keeps pestering to cross boundries after being told no.
dressed in bright cloths ie yellow jacket.
how many more could we add ?
i would also say that we have met some great guys but there few and far between less than 1 in 10
so clean your act up guys before dogging become exstinct!
Orgasminator
Quote by AtomCom2001
These days there seems to be a lot less unplanned dogging mets. Do others feel this, or is it just me?
Theres plenty of couples that go out for unplanned nocturnal naughtyness
just by the sheer nature of it being unplanned you would'nt see a advert Though we went out last night & were home within an hr or so due to someone parking so close I could'nt of opened the door
& the fools that want to follow you about 
. Quote by JTS
Mind you, arranged has its down-side. Just heard of a guy who did an arranged at a travel lodge. The couple had a hidden video, the "footage" of which was seen by another guy....who knew his wife and told her. Looks like he will have a lot more time for dogging soon.
* shani_cpl dons the flack jacket...
I'm going to avoid using the phrase 'serves them right' but if a guy decides to play outside of his relationship without his partners knowledge he has to accept from that point forward that he is prepared for any consequences which may happen. In this day and age you can never gurantee whos going to be at parties / clubs / meets etc. It could be anybody whos known by either partner and could so easily get back.
Sex God
I can report that last night was my first visit to my local since July, at midnight, there was one single bloke in a van, an empty estate car, a campervan (which looked innocent 
) and that was at the crowded site. The other two were empty - just as well I'd been at a social and been invited there for a photo shoot 
Regards
Harry Jones
) and that was at the crowded site. The other two were empty - just as well I'd been at a social and been invited there for a photo shoot Regards
Harry Jones
Casanova
I have to admit a lot of the sites are full of the odd single male hoping and thats all....
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I have to admit a lot of the sites are full of the odd single male hoping and thats all....
atom we think the "odd single" you quote is very odd and the biggest cause of the problems
look above almost all of the replys are from couples that would love to play with a good traditional dogger in a quiet carpark with no kids or prats just a few other couples doing the same thing
Bristol area dogging is dead becouse of the prats how ever the scene is still active if you no who to talk to, good doggers and one or two new ones that have served time as an aprentise to a master.
saddly most couples will never meet them as they dont run up to car or push to the front of a group and start talking about crap!
unfortuneatly the solution is to arrange a me away from the usual places
the ironny is that the guys that are complaining are the cause!
wise up guys
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I have to admit a lot of the sites are full of the odd single male hoping and thats all....
atom we think the "odd single" you quote is very odd and the biggest cause of the problems
wise up guys
Sorry, am I misundertanding this somewhere?
How are "odd single guys in carparks" a cause of problems?
The ones that are sitting quietly in a carpark are most likely to be the "real,old fashioned" doggers that most couples seem to enjoy!
They are the ones who have rejected the pack mentality, found somewhere away from the boy racers etc and have the patience to respect boundaries because whatever happens is a bonus.
Surely the cause of the problem lies with all the people that have been led to believe that they have the right to turn up at a car park and get their nuts emptied instantly by a gorgeous woman/man in whatever manner they desire, and that if said woman/man is not naked in the middle of the carpark waiting, it's quite alright to go round every car in the carpark hunting for them and using any and all means to find them first.
Snerts
typical example, tonight sat in car in local known spot just getting down to fun and a bloke from the "mascot" car shoves hand straight in window up wifes ***** without an invite.
this second run in with this twat that likes to shove in where not asked.
well known reg it seems for doing this
likes of him and his mate thats with hum big burly bloke that put everyone we talk to off.
even stands slagging cuples off after no wonder his mrs dumped him k
this second run in with this twat that likes to shove in where not asked.
well known reg it seems for doing this
likes of him and his mate thats with hum big burly bloke that put everyone we talk to off.
even stands slagging cuples off after no wonder his mrs dumped him k
Quote by bedshimnher
typical example, tonight sat in car in local known spot just getting down to fun and a bloke from the "mascot" car shoves hand straight in window up wifes ***** without an invite.
this second run in with this twat that likes to shove in where not asked.
well known reg it seems for doing this
likes of him and his mate thats with hum big burly bloke that put everyone we talk to off.
even stands slagging cuples off after no wonder his mrs dumped him k
Yes. But that guy isn't a dogger, he sees himself as "better" than the "others".
He spends his time driving from one place to another, and when in any place he just drives up-and-down every time a car comes in....so he can see what's-what. What with the irish guy who lights a fag every time he's "on" a car (to put others off....who the hell likes an eye ful of smoke and ash) and the "dim" guy who pushes his way through and drools (I jest not) after pushing his way to the front and squashing his face into the window.....the "hilltop picnic site" is getting to be mildy irritating.....
after the last few nights of venturing out in the artic weather yet again we had more than our fair share of idiots.
The pusher with his **** shoved at the window pushing away anyone else the chatters who stand watching talking about everyone and "monkey mascot" knocking
window time and time again.
this has put mrs beds well off and we wont be back at the site between mk and bedford or marina,if thats all thats out there then time to change sites. lets hope the new year brings back the gen doggers and not the
prannys that cant keep themselves in order,
The pusher with his **** shoved at the window pushing away anyone else the chatters who stand watching talking about everyone and "monkey mascot" knocking
window time and time again.
this has put mrs beds well off and we wont be back at the site between mk and bedford or marina,if thats all thats out there then time to change sites. lets hope the new year brings back the gen doggers and not the
prannys that cant keep themselves in order,
what has happened to good old toe to toe confrontation
if you dont want to square this mascot bloke up and tell him to f**k off then tell the other doggers what there missing becouse of him. if there any good they will give him the bums rush.
for best effect get your wife to tell him to go forth and multiply that we hurt loads more than a punch in the face specially if there are others around.
i know its best to keep a low profile. i know its best to walk away.
but there comes a point where you need to standup and sort it!
if you dont want to square this mascot bloke up and tell him to f**k off then tell the other doggers what there missing becouse of him. if there any good they will give him the bums rush.
for best effect get your wife to tell him to go forth and multiply that we hurt loads more than a punch in the face specially if there are others around.
i know its best to keep a low profile. i know its best to walk away.
but there comes a point where you need to standup and sort it!
Casanova
Quote by funfor2sw
what has happened to good old toe to toe confrontation
if you dont want to square this mascot bloke up and tell him to f**k off then tell the other doggers what there missing becouse of him. if there any good they will give him the bums rush.
for best effect get your wife to tell him to go forth and multiply that we hurt loads more than a punch in the face specially if there are others around.
i know its best to keep a low profile. i know its best to walk away.
but there comes a point where you need to standup and sort it!
I agree with you there.. Sometimes you need the stick as well as the carrot.
Dogging can be dangerous and if you can not stand up for yourself on this matter than what if things get hairer... ?
You don't need fisticuffs.
All the couple need to do is stop playing and open a window a bit.
When the first few guys look in say:
"sorry lads, we gotta go....if it hadn't been for that dickhead with the beard and BO we would have stayed longer...a lot longer....but the lady is a bit worried by him"
Problem solved.
You don't need fighting, you need a low(er) key way to solve a problem.
Start fighting, and you attract those that like fighting, and those whose job it is to stop fighting.
There are plenty of carparks and plenty of guys in them.
All the couple need to do is stop playing and open a window a bit.
When the first few guys look in say:
"sorry lads, we gotta go....if it hadn't been for that dickhead with the beard and BO we would have stayed longer...a lot longer....but the lady is a bit worried by him"
Problem solved.
You don't need fighting, you need a low(er) key way to solve a problem.
Start fighting, and you attract those that like fighting, and those whose job it is to stop fighting.
There are plenty of carparks and plenty of guys in them.
Quote by JTS
You don't need fisticuffs.
All the couple need to do is stop playing and open a window a bit.
When the first few guys look in say:
"sorry lads, we gotta go....if it hadn't been for that dickhead with the beard and BO we would have stayed longer...a lot longer....but the lady is a bit worried by him"
Problem solved.
You don't need fighting, you need a low(er) key way to solve a problem.
Start fighting, and you attract those that like fighting, and those whose job it is to stop fighting.
There are plenty of carparks and plenty of guys in them.
we not looking for trouble and not met any dh with a beard and bo yet lol only a skinny git with dog breath
mrs beds not slow in telling some bloke to get its the follower we cant stand. the one who try and follow you home
All the couple need to do is stop playing and open a window a bit.Sure i said that!
When the first few guys look in say:
"sorry lads, we gotta go....if it hadn't been for that dickhead with the beard and BO we would have stayed longer...a lot longer....but the lady is a bit worried by him"
tell the other doggers what there missing becouse of him. if there any good they will give him the bums rush.
So it did !
you are obviously in the same group as this/these guys which is why you are seeing less complaining more and going home earlier every time with your McDuff berger under your arm.
quite frankly you also said
There are plenty of carparks and plenty of guys in them.
if there are why dont you go to them as they are clearly better than the one you frequent.
if you dont want to sort this guy on your own then get together and make him feel uncomfortable ie. move away from him, warn the couples, no one talk to him, arrange a few dead nights where no-one goes to that carpark for a whole night or different night of each week. if couples see an empty carpark they will move to the next or tell them where you will be.
i would never advocate damaging anyones car but you could let his tyres down if your that upset.
its now tipical of us brits to do nothing ,to role over like a dead dog.
i think its about time that stopped and that we start looking for our bal-ocks again!
I'm perfectly happy for things to go-on as they are. The action takes place after these guys have gone home, which is when I'm still about. As for letting tyres down....no. You do it if you like. Having a car drive away while your hands are trying to deflate a tyre can be a bit damaging, and just because the guy is an arse doesn't mean he isn't ready to smash your head in.
Nothing to do with "balls", or "bottle". It's called sense.
The last time someone decided to ask two guys in a car (at the same site) to put their headlights out because they were upsetting the show, he spent the next hour being questioned and searched. They were police in an unmarked car. Something to do with the chief constables grandaughter living just down the road............
So, we don't need fighting, it upsets the natives.
Things are never quite what they seem, and one persons view can distort reality.
Nothing to do with "balls", or "bottle". It's called sense.
The last time someone decided to ask two guys in a car (at the same site) to put their headlights out because they were upsetting the show, he spent the next hour being questioned and searched. They were police in an unmarked car. Something to do with the chief constables grandaughter living just down the road............
So, we don't need fighting, it upsets the natives.
Things are never quite what they seem, and one persons view can distort reality.
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I'm perfectly happy for things to go-on as they are. The action takes place after these guys have gone home, which is when I'm still about. As for letting tyres down....no. You do it if you like. Having a car drive away while your hands are trying to deflate a tyre can be a bit damaging, and just because the guy is an arse doesn't mean he isn't ready to smash your head in.
Nothing to do with "balls", or "bottle". It's called sense.
makes a lot of sense not to have damaged hands
The last time someone decided to ask two guys in a car (at the same site) to put their headlights out because they were upsetting the show, he spent the next hour being questioned and searched. They were police in an unmarked car. Something to do with the chief constables grandaughter living just down the road............
lots of unmarked cars about
So, we don't need fighting, it upsets the natives.
Things are never quite what they seem, and one persons view can distort reality.
we saw a major punchup one night and the blokes car was well trashed he had bit of explaining to do to the local old bill,true things are never quiet what they seem as most all talk and never show or when do it not worth the effort. most of the natives know it going on and turn a blind eye
funny how we never seen you anywhere jts you must be hidding with intent lol
tc
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funny how we never seen you anywhere jts you must be hidding with intent lol
tc
I tend not to walk about with JTS written on my back, I also do not drive up and down shouting "JTS is here" and my car doesn't have "JTS has arrived " written on it.
In short, I am not a clown. Unlike 95% of those who frequent the picnic site. Which, as I am sure you know, is shortly to become a dual carriageway.
As for the marina (I assume you mean in the shire counties town), I know that very well....but tend to not go anymore....something to do with the video surveillance system covering the entrance and car parks.
I also do not do the "other side of the park" carpark....because the offices bordering it have been occupied by the county youth offenders services....staffed by ex-coppers.
jts us was trying to make light of a situation that should be looked at as just that. when it gets to the situation that "fun" is seen as a daily ocurance( as we all know many do) like going to the toilet then its time to give it up.
yes we well aware of the plans for changing picnic area and a few more round the areas.
for all those who venture out in the cold nights and drive from place to place in the chance of a "bite at the apple" sat freezing for a show its nearly christmas and most couples have things to do
but there are those who will take anything be it male/couples for a quickie as the nightly"fun" has became their life time daily goal
yes we well aware of the plans for changing picnic area and a few more round the areas.
for all those who venture out in the cold nights and drive from place to place in the chance of a "bite at the apple" sat freezing for a show its nearly christmas and most couples have things to do
but there are those who will take anything be it male/couples for a quickie as the nightly"fun" has became their life time daily goal
