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Dogging is voyeurism or exhibitionism except for the very lucky most of the time isn't it? Also it's chancy for lots of reasons, like being arrested, getting thumped, and in this weather risking hypothermia, (even in a Jaguar).
Now accepting that it's more fun out of doors, would it not be a winter compromise for exhibitionist dogging couples to organise a little indoor show, for those insufficiently hardy to want to stand in a sub zero car park trying to see through a fogged wet window, whilst at the same time trying to discover where their temperature controlled willies are hiding, (having just decided to become invisible in protest at the arctic conditions), and keeping an eye out for boy racers.
How much more relaxed, a few friends in for a "sales meeting" at the local travel-lodge. Towels, showers, warmth, privacy.
Opinions?
Quote by musketeer
would it not be a winter compromise for exhibitionist dogging couples to organise a little indoor show, for those insufficiently hardy to want to stand in a sub zero car park trying to see through a fogged wet window
Opinions?

My opinion is that what you suggest is not dogging and this sort of "compromise" is done already.... in clubs and private parties... then it becomes known as swinging, not dogging. Dogging by definition is outdoors.
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would it not be a winter compromise for exhibitionist dogging couples to organise a little indoor show, for those insufficiently hardy to want to stand in a sub zero car park trying to see through a fogged wet window
Opinions?

My opinion is that what you suggest is not dogging and this sort of "compromise" is done already.... in clubs and private parties... then it becomes known as swinging, not dogging. Dogging by definition is outdoors.
OK Blue, you know about this sort of stuff. I just thought "swinging" was more of a participation sport than "dogging" usually is. I mean one hears of single doggers getting lucky, but it's rare to find anything happening let alone a participation sport. (But then I've got to admit I'm much too lazy and much too fond of my creature comforts to be "out there" at this time of year, hence the post really).
Do the clubs welcome over-weight middle aged "singles"? Kind of thought you'd need to be a couple of beautiful!
"musketeer]would it not be a winter compromise for exhibitionist dogging couples to organise a little indoor show, for those insufficiently hardy to want to stand in a sub zero car park trying to see through a fogged wet window

Hey not everyone leaves you peering through a foggy window, if I have to freeze my tits off the least you guys can do is freeze your nuts off. Dogging is for all weathers not just warm dry nights.
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jackie and Ben
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Having said that there was only one guy out to play New years night, but he had a great time. lol
Quote by musketeer
Dogging is voyeurism or exhibitionism except for the very lucky most of the time isn't it?
stand in a sub zero car park trying to see through a fogged wet window,
Opinions?

:shock: You mean the guys are only supposed to watch and not get in the back with me where it's hotter than July? :shock:
No wonder we're popular :twisted:
Besides, if you read some of the other posts regarding dogging, you will see that trying to arrange anyone genuine, who *will* turn up when they say they will, is like trying to plait snot :crazy:
Don't think having it in a travel lodge will make anyone more likely to turn up and that isn't dogging anyway confused
We seldom arrange anything and prefer to do it the correct way, turn up and see who's out wink
Tracy-Jayne & Jon
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OK Blue, you know about this sort of stuff. I just thought "swinging" was more of a participation sport than "dogging" usually is. I mean one hears of single doggers getting lucky, but it's rare to find anything happening let alone a participation sport. (But then I've got to admit I'm much too lazy and much too fond of my creature comforts to be "out there" at this time of year, hence the post really).
Do the clubs welcome over-weight middle aged "singles"? Kind of thought you'd need to be a couple of beautiful!

Club swinging is a lot about voyeurism. I should know cos I'm the world's biggest voyeur :twisted: . Lots of people go to clubs and don't wish to participate, they just want to watch. Some couples go to clubs to be exhibitionists and don't want actual participation. They tend to shag in rooms with windows so guys can watch but not touch. Clubs let anyone in.... and lets's face it, most people who go to clubs are middle aged single guys with a few extra pounds around the middle wink
You find lots of guys and couples at clubs in the winter who don't go so much in summer cos they're too busy out dogging. A lot of guys I've spoken to in clubs know the dogging locations in the area very well indeed. Let's just say for some that clubs are the equivalent of indoor dogging.
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Dogging is for all weathers not just warm dry night

Not for me Matey, give me cosy, warm, and a cuddle with my kleenex until July!
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Club swinging is a lot about voyeurism. I should know cos I'm the world's biggest voyeur :twisted: . Lots of people go to clubs and don't wish to participate, they just want to watch. Some couples go to clubs to be exhibitionists and don't want actual participation. They tend to shag in rooms with windows so guys can watch but not touch. Clubs let anyone in.... and let's face it, most people who go to clubs are middle aged single guys with a few extra pounds around the middle wink

Well Blue, that adds to the extraordinarily long list of things I didn't know, and the small list of things I have learned. I shall look up the FAQ for my local paradise.
Hasn't this whole thing been done before ?
You went on about this last year sometime, and it was explained then that dogging is OUTSIDE and swinging is INSIDE.
You could use LETS MEET UP for arranging travelodge meets....CAFE for munches, lunches and drinkies and DOGGING for hypothermic sex in car parks.
Oh, sorry, everyone else is ALREADY doing just that...
So, join the queue.
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Hasn't this whole thing been done before ?
You went on about this last year sometime, and it was explained then that dogging is OUTSIDE and swinging is INSIDE.
You could use LETS MEET UP for arranging travelodge meets....CAFE for munches, lunches and drinkies and DOGGING for hypothermic sex in car parks.
Oh, sorry, everyone else is ALREADY doing just that...
So, join the queue.

I'll explore anything I want to where I feel it's appropriate and in this context I thought and think "dogging" is the appropriate place. I'm not trying to arrange a meet or a munch just interested in the exchange of ideas, nor am I interested in a pedants rebuke.
For your interest, though I don't know why I care, it's bought forth some interesting pm's and shown me that a strong crossover can and does exist.
Of course it's brought forth loads of pms' agreeing with you.
Mainly people who are scared of being in car parks, have no patience, or just think it's too pervy.
But then, they're not doggers.
There IS no halfway here...indoors is not dogging. There is no pedantry here, it's like mowing the carpet and calling it gardening.
If you wish to pursue this, then why not start your own ! group, call it INDOORSDOGGING, and see where it takes you ?
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Dogging is voyeurism or exhibitionism except for the very lucky most of the time isn't it? Also it's chancy for lots of reasons, like being arrested, getting thumped, and in this weather risking hypothermia, (even in a Jaguar).

Oh you'd be surprised how warm a Jag can get! LOL
How much more relaxed, a few friends in for a "sales meeting" at the local travel-lodge. Towels, showers, warmth, privacy.

Na, we really enjoy the whole stranger scenerio. Isn't what you are describing a club or party?? wink
Silky x
Quote by jomu
Of course it's brought forth loads of pms' agreeing with you.
Mainly people who are scared of being in car parks, have no patience, or just think it's too pervy.
But then, they're not doggers.
There IS no halfway here...indoors is not dogging. There is no pedantry here, it's like mowing the carpet and calling it gardening.
If you wish to pursue this, then why not start your own ! group, call it INDOORSDOGGING, and see where it takes you ?

Prob indoors?
LOL