Went to one of the good spots near Harrogate last night and waited. Eventually a car turned up with a couple and was just starting to show its lights when a white transit van with three blokes careered into the carpark, drove up bonnet to bonnet with me and were quite aggressive before doing the same to the other car. We both left and I returned about an hour later and the van was still there obviously waiting for other potential victims.
I am well able to look after myself but the aggression was worrying. Has anybody else come across these prats? Also, if anyone knows a safer area in the vicinity I'd be interested to know it.
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greetings all ..just a word ..avoid certain areas near police activity they are even hiding in the woods ..got pulled sunday night ..they saw nicola and i(bagpussUK76) drive on ..i had a pee (we;d been out) and drive off (no-one about) and they had a go at us ..they must've solved all the robberies in Blackburn so had nothing better to do .Also got pulled last night on my way home from pool.
Mick t'other half of Bagpuss
Mick t'other half of Bagpuss
Sexpert
derby has been really quiet for some time now and under normal circumstances i would not wish to see any negative report on the derby dogging scene but nightmare events are now so regular that something has to be done.
Since a local newspaper report a few weeks ago with the headline 'sex acts' groups of teenage idiots have been turning up in the main 'm' and 'a' locations and threatening people. cars have had windows smashed and others have been followed and chased.
The swinging scene majority are people who get along well and respect each others privacy and traits. gays and non gays and dogging couples generally acknowledge each others situations without any problems.
straight guys dont normally have any problems knowing gay guys are in the car parks, police are generally seen but hardly cause real problems and from time to time just move singles along but not once do we see them challenging or moving on groups of teens in cars. A lot of people seem to think that the teens are actually 'closets' in as much that most straights dont see gays as a problem therefore the teens who do probably have psychological problems or are hiding sexual sides which they cant tell their friends about...thus they come into the car parks to vent their personal problems via anger....a form of denial.
as police are doing nothing at all and this is getting to the stage where somebody is going to get seriously hurt. Most regulars have chosen to use the other non published sites where no police or teens frequent.
Any suggestions....should numbers of cars causing problems be taken down and sent to police?
Since a local newspaper report a few weeks ago with the headline 'sex acts' groups of teenage idiots have been turning up in the main 'm' and 'a' locations and threatening people. cars have had windows smashed and others have been followed and chased.
The swinging scene majority are people who get along well and respect each others privacy and traits. gays and non gays and dogging couples generally acknowledge each others situations without any problems.
straight guys dont normally have any problems knowing gay guys are in the car parks, police are generally seen but hardly cause real problems and from time to time just move singles along but not once do we see them challenging or moving on groups of teens in cars. A lot of people seem to think that the teens are actually 'closets' in as much that most straights dont see gays as a problem therefore the teens who do probably have psychological problems or are hiding sexual sides which they cant tell their friends about...thus they come into the car parks to vent their personal problems via anger....a form of denial.
as police are doing nothing at all and this is getting to the stage where somebody is going to get seriously hurt. Most regulars have chosen to use the other non published sites where no police or teens frequent.
Any suggestions....should numbers of cars causing problems be taken down and sent to police?
Mod
Any criminal activity, including violence, threats of violence, criminal damage, etc, should be reported to the Police, but are you prepared to give a statement or stand up in court?
Your call.
Mal
Your call.
Mal
Warning for Poole Doggers.
Just a quick note to warning you guys in the Poole area, of a total Twat who parks by the big Metal Container ( you know where I mean), both he and a female. Both put on a show , then for no reason he blasts the horn for 30 seconds. A few miniutes later they are at it again with the light on , and again for no reason he blasts the horn for 30 seconds. they where in a grey sallon car tonite, but have been seen in a Electric company transit van as well. Not sure what the guy gets out of this behaviour but he is taking a good space up that a normal fun couple could be using.
I have been dogging for years and this is the 1st time I have ever had this sort of behavoiur
Just a quick note to warning you guys in the Poole area, of a total Twat who parks by the big Metal Container ( you know where I mean), both he and a female. Both put on a show , then for no reason he blasts the horn for 30 seconds. A few miniutes later they are at it again with the light on , and again for no reason he blasts the horn for 30 seconds. they where in a grey sallon car tonite, but have been seen in a Electric company transit van as well. Not sure what the guy gets out of this behaviour but he is taking a good space up that a normal fun couple could be using.
I have been dogging for years and this is the 1st time I have ever had this sort of behavoiur
Sex God
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I would go to court and give evidence, but i'm a single guy. A place I go to regulary has had traffic wardens giving out tickets at 3am, how do you explain that to your wife!!!!
I was dogging/ f***ing Sally dear, will you come next week?
Sex God
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Warning for Poole Doggers.
Just a quick note to warning you guys in the Poole area, of a total Twat who parks by the big Metal Container ( you know where I mean), both he and a female. Both put on a show , then for no reason he blasts the horn for 30 seconds. A few miniutes later they are at it again with the light on , and again for no reason he blasts the horn for 30 seconds. they where in a grey sallon car tonite, but have been seen in a Electric company transit van as well. Not sure what the guy gets out of this behaviour but he is taking a good space up that a normal fun couple could be using.
I have been dogging for years and this is the 1st time I have ever had this sort of behavoiur
We used to dog at that location a great deal, but have not been there for almost one year now. He was doing it last time we went there and had done it several times before too . . . . one one ocassion the Police arrived to check out the noise and moved us all on
More often than not, he was usually on him own and just out to spolit things for anyone up there. We only saw his g/f with him on one ocassion and they were not showing that night, just shouting out the windows, throwing rubbish at guys and generally being abusive
We've seen him in his car a few times but not in his works van. I'd have taken details and phoned his boss if I had
Both locations in that area are now definite no go as far as we are concerned and we won't be going back at all having found somewhere else . . .
It's a shame really, we had some of our best nights up there . . . before the idiots took it over :roll:
Tracy-Jayne
Hi,
For those of you in the Stockton to Darlington area.
The A66 Layby is under constant surveilance since a guy was sexually assaulted some weeks ago.
Also under observation is the carpark on Long Newton lane.
Anyone know of other locations in the area please let me know. These locations used to be great but now they are ruined.
Cheers
Tenntson
For those of you in the Stockton to Darlington area.
The A66 Layby is under constant surveilance since a guy was sexually assaulted some weeks ago.
Also under observation is the carpark on Long Newton lane.
Anyone know of other locations in the area please let me know. These locations used to be great but now they are ruined.
Cheers
Tenntson
I visited a nice woodland spot on saturday night south of Aberdeen.
When i get to a venue i sit,wait and patiently see what may unfold.
New to Scotland as far as dogging goes ( previously south wales, where it is quiet prolific) i have struggled to find any decent venues.
And i am not suprised couples dont bother. What appeared to be a group of "regular" blokes dashing around the car park every time a car pulled in with one chap appearing to organise what appeared to me to be almost an ambush on cars he thought carried previously seen couples.
It also helps if you stop "touring", in and out the bloody car park every 10 minutes know wonder any locals get irrate, patience is a virtue.
I was well miffed at their actions because if any couple had pulled in they probably would have left tyre smoke burning!!
So if any couples would like to share any quiet rendezvous spots, or are suffering at the hands of these incompetent harrassers, please feel free to contact this discreet and polite member any way you choose.
Wake up and smell the coffee guys, or just stay in with the wife (i am sure she thinks your in the pub!) and stop spoiling it for the people who know how to conduct themselves.
BLIMEY, got that one off me chest!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
When i get to a venue i sit,wait and patiently see what may unfold.
New to Scotland as far as dogging goes ( previously south wales, where it is quiet prolific) i have struggled to find any decent venues.
And i am not suprised couples dont bother. What appeared to be a group of "regular" blokes dashing around the car park every time a car pulled in with one chap appearing to organise what appeared to me to be almost an ambush on cars he thought carried previously seen couples.
It also helps if you stop "touring", in and out the bloody car park every 10 minutes know wonder any locals get irrate, patience is a virtue.
I was well miffed at their actions because if any couple had pulled in they probably would have left tyre smoke burning!!
So if any couples would like to share any quiet rendezvous spots, or are suffering at the hands of these incompetent harrassers, please feel free to contact this discreet and polite member any way you choose.
Wake up and smell the coffee guys, or just stay in with the wife (i am sure she thinks your in the pub!) and stop spoiling it for the people who know how to conduct themselves.
BLIMEY, got that one off me chest!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Warming the Bed
Yes i do and if i remenber correctly it was hard enough to get the guys hard when it was offered on a plate for them.
Most things come to he who waits.
Chances are that while u are flying round you will miss whats happening in the car park u just left.
The police did a proper patrol of the car parks last week getting out of his car and walking round checking cars.
He had been sent from mansfield looking for stolen cars that get burnt out round 1 of the car parks.
Atleast the police from blid tend to know all the regulars and can spot if things are wrong if not they just go back to there cuppa.
Most things come to he who waits.
Chances are that while u are flying round you will miss whats happening in the car park u just left.
The police did a proper patrol of the car parks last week getting out of his car and walking round checking cars.
He had been sent from mansfield looking for stolen cars that get burnt out round 1 of the car parks.
Atleast the police from blid tend to know all the regulars and can spot if things are wrong if not they just go back to there cuppa.
I am getting really p*ssed off with the stupid guys who keep mucking it up for everyone, was out last week, starting to get a bj of a women 4 guys come over, asked them to leave us alone for 10 minutes, they took no notice and the women left.
Guys if your asked not to get involed please respect this.
Guys if your asked not to get involed please respect this.
Sorry to hear your night ruined, it seems to be the way now, but like most things what cums around goes around or something like that. I had this idea, may be i will hire a huge bit of land and have a kind of dogging woodstock, all the fun of the fair.
Seriously though guys are killing this pastime and need to wake up and smell the coffee before the humble dogging couple do like the dodo, and become extinct.
Seriously though guys are killing this pastime and need to wake up and smell the coffee before the humble dogging couple do like the dodo, and become extinct.
Sexlightened
Having had a larger amount of police activity than normal recently(seven drive throughs one evening) we decided to approach an officer who was taking registrations last night. Apparently Thames Valley Police have decided to put us doggers into the same category as drug dealers and clamp down on our supposedly lewd actions. We were told that everytime the police enter a known dogging site they will take all registrations and if any show up regularly the owner will be questioned. If we are doing nothing other than standing there then there's nothing they can do but it will start to get inconvenient for us as they will question us each time we're noted after that. They are using websites to get their information so please don't give away too much info in the forums. Pretty sure this clamp down will be short lived but watch your backs out there for now.
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HI ALL, I DON'T KNOW YOU ARE AWARE,LAST WEEK IN FRI SURREY AD FRONT PAGE ABOUT DOGGING IN HOGS BACK LAY-BAY AND HAS BEEN CLOSE BY THE SURREY COUNCIL,PUTTENHAM RESIDENT,SURREY POLICE SO JUST WARE YOU FOR READING MGS.
Sexlightened
Thames Valley police are definitely going for it at the moment. Had my registration and details taken three nights running. Apparently if you're number keeps cropping up they will send someone round to question you.
Dave
Dave
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Thames Valley police are definitely going for it at the moment. Had my registration and details taken three nights running. Apparently if you're number keeps cropping up they will send someone round to question you.
Dave
sounds like a bit of a purge going on dave..we've not seen one for a while, but they happen every now and again..the target is more often the guys..not saying couples aren't questioned or subjected to intimidation tactics, i'm sure they are..but theres less leverage with a fella thats got his nagging spouse riding shotgun
maybe the written word of law suggests action can be taken, dunno and don't , these tactics suggest action would be at best, inpractical..hence the threats to visit home addresses and issue ASBOs..it would be like warning a motorist "that speed camera has clocked you several times whilst you were travelling over the speed limit sir, if it should happen again, we'll have no alternative but to fine you" :shock: :lol: "so, what was the defendant doing when you sought to approach him officer"? (officer looks down at notes), "he was sitting in a motor vehicle, facing a south easterly direction your honour", (judge getting rather irritated now, " yes yes, but what was his crime"? (officer looks at his notebook again) "the defendant was looking rather furtive m'lud, and on saying "hello hello hello, whats going on here then?, he replied "nothing officer, i'm chilling out" it was then i suggested to the accused that he might be causing distress to the public and the issuing of an anti social behaviour order would be appropiate" "m'lud"...
we've yet to hear of any individual dogger thats had his home visited as a result of his attendance at a carpark known for beastliness, but interestingly, have heard of two recent cases in which a boss has been contacted, and the night time whereabouts of his employee made known to him :shock: on each occassion, the carpark was described as a notorious gay cruising area :shock: and so the agenda might be to cause embarasment, rather than marital strife
i'm not aware of a signwritten vehicle with company contact details being used in either case..one fella was in the royal air force and was using his own, private vehicle..on another note..a dogger recently was asked to move on..he refused :cry: the upshot was, after eventually seeing he wasn't going to win this one, he left..only to be tailed at snailspace for several miles through a city and to his home address..now, if this ever happens to you, you must drive home via the local crime hotspots :lol: unfortunately, policing towards single male doggers can be a little ad-lib..the officer in question might earlier have witnessed a hoody mugging an old lady..and when suggesting he put down his knife, has been subject to a barrage of "innits", "kna wot i mean" and "yeah's"..on explaining he was being a naughty hoody, it would have been made clear that he was a crack addict, and therefore the victim..having returned with a KFC for the traumatised hoody, as per his human rights to a hot meal, the officer might be left feeling a little dejected :cry: some will see it as the job, some will wanna kick arse :lol: dogger arse is always ameniable to a good kicking, better that than incur the wrath of her indoors eh? :lol:
probably the best ploy would be, on seeing a police vehicle entering the carpark to run in front of its headlights, as fast as you can..make out that the constables mere presence has put you into a blind panic..weave left and then right as if trying to escape the headlight beam before, after several hundred metres collapsing into a heap, adopting the foetal position and sucking your thumb whilst whimpering "mummy"..you'll look a twat, but the coppers will be chuffed to bits :lol: :lol:
of course, i'm only kidding, and we'd be wrong to suggest all policing in such cases is petty..only most of it..naaaa, here i go again, can't help myself :lol: there is also a big difference in the official directives, and the oppertunist drive-thru's..from what we've seen, most individual officers don't give a shit, and off record
we've had some good laughs with them..their directives however, are often cause for frustration, in that there ain't an awfull lot they can do without incurring prohibitedly high costs..the upshot is usually a carpark being closed at night..but then with like prostitution, it just goes elsewhere..more complaints and so on..i think some of the bigger carparks have had their day, often reaching saturation point with cars endlessly driving around in circles..just draws too much unwanted attention.just to give it an alternative context, consider this..earlier this spring, as frequently happens in the bleak wilds of the county, hundreds of kids broke down a gate to gain access to a field, the purpose of which, was a rave..in the ajoining field were sheep giving birth to a short period of time, the field had become a quagmire, litter and bottles discarded without thought..all saturday night the music blared, there were numerous complaints from nearby villages as residents were kept awake all night..by sunday afternoon, the last stragglers has left, but not before breaking into two barns..wether anything was taken, i'm unsure, but access was gained to those outbuildings by force..
down a lane, at a junction, sat a patrol car..when the irate farmer enquired as to what the police intended doing, he was told there was nothing they could do :shock: they have a strict policy of non interferrence in such matters.i'm sure its pretty much the same story throughout the country? the farmer in question is known to me, and the story has been backed up by others i've spoken to..apparently such things feature in the local press regularly as a result of outcries from affected residents, but i rarely read papers :lol: is the difference that dogging is done on public land, and raves usually on private? does policing differ in instances where such raves are held on public grounds? be interested to know. should we all be turning our radios up to full volume or should we be holding "doggs" on privately owned land..or am i just being silly
ops: :lol: Sexlightened
Like I told the officers each evening. For the most part absolutely nothing is happening anyway if they must cast aspertions on us innocent gentlemen out bat watching. And like them we are anti drugs and anti drink driving. We are parked in very out of the way places(better to see the bats) and have a good knowledge of the local area. That is the sort of knowledge they should be tapping into not coming in giving us grief and hassle then telling us to move on. We could be of great use to them as the law abiding citizens that we are.
Dave
Dave
I had a copper ask me if i was *dogging* one day my reply was "why would i be emptying dental spittons in a public car park" :shock: which he looked rather confused and mutter under his breathe took my name and car reg then bid me good day
*dogging was slang for emptying the dental spittons at the hospital i trained at*
*dogging was slang for emptying the dental spittons at the hospital i trained at*
Wardens are being extra vigilant in this well known N.W. coastal aware folks!
We also had some very pushy guys to contend with.
Guys,waiting patiently for an invitation is a much better way of doing things.
Please,try to remember that when you're out and about.
:wink: :wink: :wink: :wink: :wink:
We also had some very pushy guys to contend with.
Guys,waiting patiently for an invitation is a much better way of doing things.
Please,try to remember that when you're out and about.
:wink: :wink: :wink: :wink: :wink: Sexlightened
Be very careful all you doggers out there in the Thames Valley area. The police are now using unmarked corsa's with plain clothes officers in them. They drive in and sit for a while like normal doggers. Anybody outside will be questioned and details taken. They are also monitoring the dogging websites so please dont post too much info.
Sexlightened
Got my car coined there last evening - and I was only out for a walk - too early to do the dogging bit
it was then i suggested to the accused that he might be causing distress to the public and the issuing of an anti social behaviour order would be appropiate
Got the frames waiting, got the hook in the wall !
now, if this ever happens to you, you must drive home via the local crime hotspots
try driving around the Northampton red-light area...they've got covert cctv on the "approach" roads that triggers an alarm when the same reg goes past more than two times.....
Leigh has been a favourite place of mine for a while. It's a great place to go for a walk en-femme. Yes, I am a TV. 
Have been spoken to a few times by the police and they have been okay. Apart from one who was really aggressive. He made it quite clear he didn't want to see me there again.
If he did, I am not actually sure what he would do, because I'm not breaking the law being dressed as a female and minding my own business. Or is there something I don't know about that I could be arrested for?
Anyway, my visits have been less frequent due to the fear of running into this officer again. :cry:
Have been spoken to a few times by the police and they have been okay. Apart from one who was really aggressive. He made it quite clear he didn't want to see me there again.
If he did, I am not actually sure what he would do, because I'm not breaking the law being dressed as a female and minding my own business. Or is there something I don't know about that I could be arrested for?
Anyway, my visits have been less frequent due to the fear of running into this officer again. :cry:
